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Chapter 53

Chapter 6, Section 4 A tale of two survivors?

Can survival be understood as "living happily"? ? ?
In previous years, the media had reported two stories about survivors: ?
Lucena?Stanley, who is Czech Jewish, has always been a teacher.During World War II, all her relatives died tragically in the Auschwitz Nazi concentration camp, and she was the only one who narrowly escaped from that hellish place. ?
However, the old lady Luzena, who has survived silently for half a century, died of poisoning at home after watching the movie "Schindler's List". ?
Coincidentally, a Japanese man named Masao Yamashita, whose whole family died in the Hanshin Earthquake a few years ago, was the only one who happened to go out and survived.He is also a survivor. ?
In September 1996, when Masao Yamashita's body was found in a simple shantytown after the Kobe earthquake, he had passed away for nearly a year.He was the 9rd person to die alone in the shack after the quake, according to local newspaper reports. ?
When the seemingly ordinary days are suddenly shattered by a powerful external force, the unfortunate die in the nightmare, the survivors live in the nightmare, the latter continue to live, but the pain will never heal, and the survivor cannot survive. ?
The real survivors are those who live a seemingly ordinary life, but complain that it is dull and uninteresting. ?
Mind walk?

In our thinking habits, we are more inclined to understand and treat a thing from the surface phenomenon, which is caused by conventional thinking. Conventional thinking is the thinking of using people's commonly used methods and ready-made knowledge and experience to solve problems.For example, with regard to the concept of "survival", everyone will think it is a kind of luck and a blessing. In fact, after deep thinking, you will know that "survivors" can never get rid of the shadow of disaster, and survivors can't "survive" at all. survived". ?
Please don't be limited to the surface when you look at the problem, and be constrained by past experience. Only when you think deeply will you discover the essence of things. ?
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