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Chapter 65

Chapter 7 Section 3 "Thank you for knowing how to respect me"?
You must have self-esteem, and you also want to be respected by others, so you must know how to respect others. ? ?

Carlo is the worst student in the class. He is clumsy, always stupid, and is often teased by everyone. ?
During an extracurricular activity, the new teacher Bill had a sudden whim and asked the students: Why is there a hole in the sock?Everyone looked at each other, not knowing how to answer.Carlo looked down at his open-toed sandals, blushing a little.Bill himself answered: How do people wear socks without "holes"?Everyone gave a "huh" knowingly, and Carlo was the loudest.Suddenly, Bill asked Carlo: "Carol, why do you have two holes in your socks?"?
Everyone was stunned, and they all looked at Carlo's feet, only to see Carlo's big toe sticking out of the sandal from the hole in the sock embarrassingly.Everyone laughed together, Bill laughed too, but Carlo blushed.Something flashed in Bill's eyes. He slowly suppressed his smile, turned around and squatted down. After a while, he suddenly raised his foot: "Here! My big toe is also out for air!" Everyone Laughing more happily, Carlo was stunned.Then he turned sharply and ran away. "Carlo! Carlo!" Bill called to him. ?
Middle school always flies by so fast, and to everyone's surprise Carlo managed to get into the best high school in the city. "Unexpected! Unexpected!" The teachers were all surprised. ?
One day, Bill suddenly received a letter from Carlo:?
“Do you remember the story about the torn socks from the extracurricular activity? That’s when I knew you knew

I also have self-esteem and don't want to be made fun of.Because, I clearly saw that you deliberately tore your socks, thank you for knowing how to respect me. "?
Mind walk?

The American psychologist Maslow divided people's needs into five levels from low to high, and put the need for respect at the fourth level, which shows that respect is a high-level human need.Everyone has self-esteem and wants to be respected by others.Everyone says that a person who does not respect himself cannot be respected by others, but a person who does not respect others does not deserve respect from others.Carlo's teacher maintained Carlo's dignity and made Carlo full of gratitude.It can be seen that in interpersonal communication, respecting the personality of others is an important factor to win others' love. ?
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