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Chapter 87

Chapter 9 Section 10 The Taoism of the Monk of Bairen Temple?
Why does An Chan need mountains and rivers to extinguish the fire in his heart and cool himself. ? ?

American psychologist Ekman likes to study the psychological state of Orientals very much. Once he told a friend such a story:?

Patel was born in a wealthy family in India. He has a bad temper and is often annoyed by offending others, so he has always wanted to get rid of his bad temper.Later, he decided to practice hard and change his temper, so he spent a lot of money to build a temple, and specially asked someone to write "Bai Ren Temple" on the entrance of the temple. ?
In order to show his sincerity in practice, Patel stood at the gate of the temple every day, and explained to the pilgrims who came to worship one by one his intention of reforming his mistakes and becoming good.pilgrims listen

After reading his explanation, they all admired his good intentions and praised his determination to change himself. ?
On this day, he stood at the gate of the temple as usual, explaining to the pilgrims the significance of his construction of Bairen Temple. One of the elderly pilgrims asked the practitioner what was written on the plaque because he could not read. ?
Patel replied to the pilgrims: "The three characters written on the plaque are 'Bai Ren Temple'."?
The pilgrim didn't hear clearly, so he asked again. ?
This time, Patel's tone became a little impatient: "It says 'Bairen Temple'." When the pilgrim asked for the third time, Patel could no longer hold back and replied angrily: "You are deaf. Huh? I told you that it says 'Bai Ren Temple', don't you understand?"?
After hearing this, the pilgrim said with a smile: "You can't bear it after just saying it three times. Why do you want to build Bairen Temple?"?
Mind walk?

Mood is a persistent emotional state that dyes a person's entire mental activity in a certain color.Patel in the story has a bad temper, but he is actually in an angry state of mind, which is very harmful, because the state of mind lasts for a long time. If it is a bad state of mind, it will affect people's life, interpersonal relationship and even health . ?
Therefore, only by working hard to change your state of mind, instead of building a vain Shuiyue Dojo, can you truly change yourself, otherwise, everything will become a self-deceiving joke. ?
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