The ugly daughter-in-law of the farm gate: the sweet wife of the husband in the mountains

Chapter 277 Do You Know Something?
Now Tan Yun can find a way to delay it, but as time goes by, the pressure will increase.

No matter what era it is, the forced marriage of the elders is unbearable for the young.

When we are young, people often yearn to be different.When I grow up, I tend to be more and more moderate, lest I be different from others.

The elders especially have this kind of thinking, thinking that everyone is getting married and having children, step by step, that's how life should be.

If the children want to work hard in their careers, get married a few years later, or simply do not marry, the elders will worry about their children, fearing that their children will be different from others.

Sometimes I feel ridiculous, as if I don't follow other people's pace to live life, and I become a monster in the world.

Parents are worried and anxious when their children are not married for a long time.And the children who are urged by their parents to get married every day are also under great pressure and avoid it in fear.

Some people choose to marry hastily because they cannot bear the pressure.

The result of hasty marriage is often dismal.

But there are still many elders who feel that even if they get married and then get married, it is better than never getting married.

Because there are many divorced people, it seems that it will not be discussed by too many people.If you have been married, you will be criticized more.

The sorrow of the world is mostly living their own lives, but being too much influenced by others.

"Your heart belongs to you?" Master Tan frowned, "But Ah Yun rarely saw anyone before."

"Even if she never wanted to belong, I think that if she really wants to get married, she doesn't need to be urged. If she is not willing, of course she has not met the right person, and it is useless to force her." Ye Xi said seriously. "When parents love their children, they should want their children to be happy."

The purpose of marriage should be to get happiness, not to marry for the sake of marriage.

It's just that sometimes the elders are too anxious and too obsessed with the marriage of their children.It seems that as long as the children can get married, as for who the other party is, whether they can make their children happy is not the main consideration.

It's really putting the cart before the horse.

"It's just that she always drags it like this. Women are different from men." Master Tan said helplessly.

The world is often more harsh on women, and as women get older, it becomes less and less likely to be a good marriage.

This is why he doesn't worry about his son's marriage, but is more concerned about Ah Yun's marriage.

"Then what kind of person does Master Tan want Ah Yun to marry?"

"Naturally, character and temperament are the most important. Ah Yun has suffered a lot in recent years, and I don't expect her to climb up to anyone else. My Tan family doesn't need to trade their children's marriage for anything. The most important thing is themselves Had a good time."

"If both character and temperament are good, but the family background is poor, would Mr. Tan be happy?" Ye Xi asked.

Master Tan suddenly looked at her seriously, "Xiaoxi, do you know something when you ask me that?"

Ye Xi was a little conflicted, wondering if he should tell Master Tan about Tan Yun and Yao Dong.

She didn't know if speaking out would be good or bad for the two of them.

Originally, she didn't plan to talk too much, and left everything to the two of them to solve by themselves.After all, outsiders are most taboo to meddle in things like feelings.

It's just that right now, since this topic is mentioned, she really wants to find out what Master Tan has to say.

If Master Tan actually didn't care about Yao Dong's background at all, it would be a push for the two of them.

(End of this chapter)