Smile is very alluring: the charming temperament you want most

Chapter 10 There is one thing more important than beauty - elegance (2)
It can be seen that a smile is priceless.In the eyes of economists, a smile is a huge intangible asset; in the eyes of psychologists, a smile is a psychological weapon to dispel other people's wariness and persuade others; Good "business card".

Hathaway was originally a well-known talk show host on a local TV station. Due to various objective reasons such as TV program adjustments, Hathaway, who is in her 40s, was forced to bid farewell to the TV industry to find another way out.

When applying for a job as a salesperson for an insurance company, Hathaway thought that there must be no problem with her reputation.However, the result was unexpected. The HR manager rejected Hathaway and said to her: "As a salesman of an insurance company, you must have a charming smile. This is the most basic quality of work, but you don't have it. So , sorry, we cannot hire you."

Hathaway, who was rejected, was not discouraged because of this, but made up her mind to start from scratch and practice smiling hard like she did when she first entered the TV industry.She laughed all the time, and at first family and neighbors mistook her for being unemployed and deranged.In order to avoid misunderstanding, Hathaway had to close herself in the toilet to practice.

After a month of practice, Hathaway ran to the HR manager of the insurance company and smiled on the spot, but what she got was a cold sentence: "I'm sorry, it still doesn't work!"

Hathaway was not discouraged, and she still practiced hard at home. She collected many smiling photos of public figures and pasted them all over the room so that she could observe them at any time.

After a while, Hathaway went to see the HR manager again, but got the same answer as last time: "It's better, but it's still not attractive enough."

Hathaway was born with a stubborn temper, and she still refused to admit defeat and continued to practice hard at home.

Once, Hathaway met an acquaintance on the road, she greeted him with a very natural smile, and the other person said to her in surprise: "Ms. Hathaway, I haven't seen you for a while, you have changed so much, look Get up and look like a different person from the past."

After hearing this sentence, Hathaway's confidence increased greatly, and she immediately ran to see the HR manager again, smiling happily. "Your smile has a taste, but it's not really a genuine smile," the manager pointed out.

Hathaway still didn't give up, and went home to practice hard for a while, and finally got her wish and was hired by the insurance company.

Since then, Hathaway has attracted many customers with her "charming, heartfelt, baby-like innocent smile", and has become the top local life insurance salesman, with an annual income exceeding one million US dollars.

From Hathaway's personal experience, we can see that whether in life or at work, smiling is very important. It can warm the hearts of others, shorten the distance with others, and win the hearts of others. trust.

A wise man once said this sentence: "Your face is to show the most precious gift God has given to mankind - a smile. Be sure to make it the greatest asset in your life." Hathaway is this sentence A faithful practitioner of the word, the reason why she can succeed is because she has practiced a smile that makes customers irresistible.

Hathaway's experience also shows that charming smiles are not all born with, but can also be obtained through acquired practice.However, you must remember that a gentle smile must be from the heart and sincere, because an artificial smile will not bring beauty, but will destroy your original image.

"If you have a smile, you also have charm." This sentence is not false at all. A smile is a powerful weapon for you to cultivate your charm, and it is also a magic weapon for you to attract others.

Of course, women who know how to smile must also know how to smile. If the smile is stiff or contrived, it will also make others feel bored.Only by knowing how to smile genuinely and from the bottom of your heart can you become a truly popular person.

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Elegance is a kind of harmony, very similar to beauty, except that beauty is a gift from God, while elegance is a product of art.Even if a truly elegant woman just sits silently, that kind of detachment and casualness is enough to stop everyone's attention.

——French writer Geneviève Antoine d'Ario

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Every move of a woman is always the target of people's attention, and her walking posture is often the most eye-catching body language.No matter in daily work or in daily life, the way a woman walks can best reflect a person's demeanor and vitality. It is the basis for others to evaluate our posture, and it is also the point of elegance.

Just imagine, if a woman walks with hunchback, head down, sluggish, slow, or even splayed feet, "duck steps", or uneven shoulders, swinging her hands back and forth, do you think she is listless, lacks confidence, Lacking poise, is her "elegance" vain and powerless?
Think back, how do you usually walk?Are you walking gracefully enough?Walking posture can reveal a person's temperament. If you want to highlight your own temperament and become the focus of everyone, you must master the correct walking posture and step out of your own momentum.Generally speaking, we need to follow the following points: 1.Walk with confidence with your head held high
In "A Dream of Red Mansions", there are two descriptions about Lin Daiyu's walking posture: "When she is quiet, she looks like a beautiful flower shining in the water, and when she moves, she looks like a weak willow supporting the wind." Affects a man's heart and arouses a man's desire to protect.However, women in modern society are independent, self-reliant, and strong. They no longer need to be like Sister Lin. Instead, they should face forward, look straight ahead, hold their heads high, walk with confidence, and don't pretend to be pretentious. Fascinating taste.

2.The stride length should be small, the pace should be tight, and the gait should be light
When walking in this posture, it gives people a sense of quietness, elegance, elegance and exquisiteness, just like a "serenade".Especially when you wear long skirts or cheongsams, you will find that your body line is stretched, your curves are more beautiful, the curves of women are obvious, and your charm is instantly magnified.

To this end, you can put on a pair of high-heeled shoes about 6 cm. At this time, you will feel that the chest is raised, the abdomen is retracted, the whole leg is tilted backward, the waist is obviously collapsed, the hip position is obviously raised, and the calf is also changed. The back of the instep has become a beautiful square shape, the foot seems to be much smaller, and the steps of walking are naturally smaller, with a charming appearance.

3.make oneself walk in a certain rhythm

Look ahead, hold your head high, keep your shoulders flat, swing your hands neatly, your knees and ankles should be flexible, and have a distinct sense of rhythm, so that you can walk in a certain rhythm, just like a model's walking posture. It gives people a vigorous, brisk, leisurely dynamic beauty.

In fact, no matter men, women or children, people prefer people who walk lightly and quickly, and what determines this walking posture is the rhythm of walking.Walking with a distinct and coordinated sense of rhythm can make people feel that we are like a gentle spring breeze, which is wonderful.

4.Hypothetically reinforce self-training

An imposing walking posture is not achieved in a day, but depends on self-cultivation at ordinary times.Usually you can train yourself, draw a straight line on the ground, you can imagine that you are a model, the straight line is your T-shaped stage, keep your eyes on the ground, walk in a straight line like no one else, this way you will look more imposing.

5.Mentality affects pace, adjust emotions at all times
Although the walking posture is determined by the nature of the person, it is also closely related to the mood of the person. It is like the melody of the dance hall, which is the rhythm of the emotion.Rather than talking about walking lightly, heavily, slowly, hastily, steadily, sinking, or chaotically, it is better to say that the human heart is stable or out of balance, or calm or impatient, or peaceful or at a loss.

Therefore, there is no need to deliberately study how to walk with more momentum, those are only external, and the aggressive momentum exuded from the inside out cannot be learned at all.Once you don't pay attention, your walking posture will change accordingly with the changes in your heart, which will disrupt your elegant magnetic field.

Therefore, when walking, the most important thing is that you have to adjust your mentality, maintain a stable mood, hold a positive and optimistic attitude, and have sufficient self-confidence to walk steadily and straight, so that you can walk naturally There will be momentum, and this momentum is often the most real and the most infectious.

(End of this chapter)