Your husband is too motivated

Chapter 60

Mr. Tang is very enthusiastic about Han Jing, but this kind of enthusiasm makes Han Jing feel extremely aggrieved. Everyone knows why he came here so early, but no one mentions it, even when he wants to mention it brazenly. Sometimes, he would use the topic to divert. Compared with Mr. Tang, Han Jing is still a little immature.

Tang Yuanshan only felt a sigh of relief. When he had to leave, Han Jing still did not see Tang Nuan. I am afraid that Tang Nuan would not even know that he had been here. It is not enough to be angry or resentful, but more or less It was nothing more than a bit of complaint, but when Han Jing was about to leave, it was Tang Cheng who sent it to him. Looking at Han Jing's appearance, Tang Cheng was a little moved. At least the people of the Wen family treated him much better, and they wouldn't let him guard against thieves. After getting in touch with Wen Chenxin, Han Jing said at the door, "You don't need to send Yun Yi off, I'll take the guards and go by myself."

Tang Cheng smiled and said, "That's right, I'm not so outsider anymore because they are all from my own family."

Han Jing looked at Tang Cheng with raised eyebrows and said, "I want you to be more polite, are you still a brother?"

Tang Cheng said with a smirk on his face, "I'll tell you one thing before you decide whether we are brothers or not."

Han Jing asked, "What's wrong?"

Tang Cheng said in a low voice, "Grandfather said that my sister's dowry is almost ready."

Han Jing was stunned for a moment, with an ecstatic expression on his face. Being good-looking means taking advantage. Such pure joy made Han Jing even more handsome, "Is that what I think it means?"

Tang Cheng asked back, "What do you think?"

"It must be." Han Jing said excitedly, "Brother."

Tang Cheng said with a chuckle, "Okay, you can go now. I don't like you too now."

Han Jing didn't mind Tang Cheng's words at all, he felt so happy that he didn't know what to say.

Tang Cheng also understood his feelings, and waited for him to calm down before saying, "Okay, you still have a lot of things to do, even if you want to get married now, you have to go through that one first."

"No problem." Han Jing is not unsure, Emperor Yan likes such happy events the most now, "I'll go back..."

"Wait first." Tang Cheng interrupted Han Jing's words. The current Han Jing is not as calm as before. He said, "I think it's better to wait until another matter."

"What's the matter?" Han Jing asked.

Tang Cheng shook his head and didn't tell Han Jing, Han Jing glanced at him and didn't ask again, "I'm leaving first."

"En." Tang Cheng waved his hand.

Han Jing got on his horse and left directly. What made Tang Cheng so cautious, and why did the Tang family let go of him marrying Tang Nuan?And... the joy in Han Jing's heart disappeared a lot. Can the environment in the palace make Tang Nuan happy?These things had to make Han Jing ponder.

But Tang Nuan didn't know this at this time. After she got up, she went to accompany her mother to have breakfast first, and then went to the main courtyard to accompany her grandmother. At this time, Mr. Tang and the others had already gone to court. Madam Tang was very happy to see her granddaughter and beckoned her to come over, saying, "Did you read the box I gave you yesterday?"

"I haven't had time to watch it yet." Tang Nuan forgot about it because of his preoccupation, "I'll watch it when I get back."

Old Madam Tang didn't care, and said, "Then sit with me, an old fellow, for a while and talk."

Tang Nuan sat in front of Mrs. Tang, she didn't act coquettishly and obediently in front of other people, but sat quietly, wrapped the silk thread in her hands, and looked at her granddaughter who was preoccupied, and Mrs. Tang didn't mind either. Talking, the warm sunlight came through the window. Mrs. Tang's room was not luxuriously furnished, and even some places seemed a bit redundant, such as the small bonsai on the window sill, but there was a sense of life everywhere. It's her room, and there are traces of her in every place, the things she needs and the things she likes, don't care about the eyes of outsiders, they are placed in the position she thinks is appropriate.

And Mrs. Tang's vision will not make these things messy, but give people a sense of comfort and relaxation. Tang Nuan threw the messy silk thread aside, hugged a cushion and looked out of the window and suddenly asked, "Grandma , At the beginning when my uncle was appointed as an official and my father hibernated, wouldn’t you be embarrassed and sad by such a decision?”

"Yes." Mrs. Tang didn't hide it either, "They are all my children. Obviously my children are so talented, but they can't display them. Of course, I will be sad and uncomfortable, and it is inevitable that I will feel more distressed."

Tang Nuan turned and looked at Mrs. Tang, waiting for Mrs. Tang's explanation. Mrs. Tang's smile was very light and kind, "Liu girl, there is no such thing as having both in this world. In fact, shortly after getting married, your grandfather married I said this, is it because of this that I don't look forward to the birth of the child?"

"I am looking forward to it. Even if I know that one day a child will inevitably make sacrifices, I am still looking forward to his birth, his first cry, and his first cry." Madam Tang's voice was slow, She had already guessed why Tang Nuan asked this question, but she didn't give her any pointers, because some things had to be figured out by herself.

After a long time, Tang Nuan said, "Did grandma find a balance in it?"

"Yes." Mrs. Tang said without denying, "But you need to find this balance yourself."

Tang Nuan said, "I know."

In fact, Tang Nuan came to ask her grandmother after careful consideration. In fact, logically speaking, these matters should be discussed with her mother, but her mother's feelings are too delicate, and she tends to think too much. Some things are not suitable for her to know. It's like my uncle will never tell my aunt about many things. Maybe when my aunt or mother is older and has enough experience, they will no longer hide it like a grandfather. It's just... Tang Nuan doesn't think so. Maybe, because women like grandmother are rare, even Tang Nuan doesn't think he can compare to grandmother.

Grandpa will ask grandma about many things that he is not sure about, probably because the bystanders can tell.

Madam Tang suddenly said, "Han Jing came this morning."

Tang Nuan froze for a moment before saying, "I know."

Perhaps sensing the indifference of her granddaughter, Mrs. Tang sighed and said, "I'm afraid the marriage between the two of you will be brought forward."

Tang Nuan gritted her teeth. In fact, she doesn't really want to see Han Jing now, because there are some things she hasn't figured out yet. Mrs. Tang said, "Have you thought about Han Jing's concubine in the future?"

"No." Tang Nuan replied without hesitation, "He said..."

"Liu girl, don't ever place your hopes on what others have said, that others have promised this, about feelings... Men are more changeable than women, because they face more temptations." Mrs. Tang put down the things in her hands, looked Looking at her proudest and only granddaughter, she gently smoothed her hair, "Do you know where your mother went wrong?"

Tang Nuan was really stunned this time, this was the first time she heard the evaluation of her mother from her grandmother, she shook her head.

Mrs. Tang said, "She made a mistake. She didn't fight for her own position from the beginning, and she didn't even understand until now that the position in a man's heart is won by herself rather than by charity."

This is the first time Tang Nuan has seen her grandmother so unrevealed. In her memory, her grandmother has always been very...something. Tang Nuan doesn't know how to describe it. She seems to be sure of everything, so she is very Calm but a little more tolerant.

Mrs. Tang looked at her granddaughter and said, "Your father is very good to your mother. Up to now, your mother is the only one. You must have your mother in his heart."

Tang Nuan pursed her lips tightly and said nothing. Mrs. Tang poured a cup of tea and put it in Tang Nuan's hands, "But in his heart, your mother has always been in a protected position. Isn't your mother smart? She is very smart, but she I'm used to putting myself in a position that needs protection, so if something happens, do you think your father will tell your mother?"

Won't.Although Tang Nuan didn't say it out loud, she knew in her heart that she wouldn't do it, just like she would not go to her mother to discuss things, but was more used to going to her grandfather, grandmother, father and others.

"Your mother underestimated herself." Mrs. Tang's voice was very calm, "She is different from your aunt, no matter her background or other things, your aunt clearly sees her responsibilities and abilities, so she chose Come to help your uncle in another way, and your mother... When she was feeling sorry for herself, did she ever think about fighting for her position from the beginning? I would have agreed to this marriage at the beginning, and it was also a contact Those who loved your mother were optimistic about your mother, but your mother did not understand that getting married is not about relying on others for your own happiness and life, but you need to fight for it yourself, thanks to the fact that she met your father, What if it was another person? There are groups of concubines and concubines, does she still have the mood to care about these? "

Tang Nuan didn't know how to answer the successive questions, Madam Tang picked up the things in her hands again, "It's not that I haven't reminded your mother, but she hasn't understood, and some things can't be like ours. Tell her so directly and clearly."

Tang Nuan understands her grandmother's scruples, and she understands some of her words. I am afraid that this family will not be as harmonious as it is now.

"If you are not deaf or dumb, you are not a family member." Madam Tang said, "They have been getting along like this for decades, and I am afraid it is a foregone conclusion. Six girls, anyone can look down on you, but you must not look down on me." Myself, because the girl's family is already at a disadvantage when it comes to getting married."

Tang Nuan took a deep breath and said after a long time, "I understand grandma."

Mrs. Tang responded casually, "You can't underestimate yourself, but you must also see yourself clearly. You can take on as big a task as you are capable. Nothing can be done overnight. The safest thing is to subtly influence it."

Tang Nuan felt that her mood was even more disturbed. She originally wanted to talk to her grandmother about the future of the child, but now she was taught this. If her grandmother's words entered her ears today, she must not say it out of her mouth. grandfather.

"Think about it carefully." Mrs. Tang finally said to her granddaughter, "Make a decision before acting."

Tang Nuan complied, drank the water in the glass in one gulp, then put the empty glass on the kang table, and lay still on the recline with the cushion in her arms. This posture is very unattractive. Yes, but Mrs. Tang acted as if she hadn't seen it, because she knew that her granddaughter's days of freedom were limited.

"Grandmother, I won't be like my mother." Tang Nuan's voice was very calm, as if talking about something dispensable, "It's not that the situation of father and mother is bad, but that it's not suitable for me. "If it's true that she can only stay in the house or garden every day like a mother, calculating what to eat and wear for her husband and children, whether to make new clothes, and where to socialize, Tang Nuan thinks If I can't stand it, I will be unhappy.

Mrs. Tang responded, and Tang Nuan lowered her head and picked the cushion in her arms, "This is difficult, but this is the path I chose, so I will go on."

"And the child..." Tang Nuan pursed her lips and said, "I decided to let the older one take care of the younger one." This way, the relationship cultivated since childhood is more solid, "Eat and live together." She would miss the child, "I will try my best A bowl of water is level, and then..." Then, Tang Nuan was a little confused and melancholy, "Choose the most suitable one."

For some reason, Tang Nuan didn't feel relieved when she made such a decision. Instead, she felt a little empty. She felt uncomfortable just thinking about it. If she really faced the child, would she really be able to do it?

"Whether it is a man or a woman, the first child is always different." Mrs. Tang said, "In my dynasty, the eldest son succeeded to the throne. Although it is for the sake of stability, I think it is also because the parents In the eyes of children are equally good, they do not know how to make a choice, so the right to make this choice to God."

Tang Nuan looked at Mrs. Tang, and Mrs. Tang said, "Since this is a tacit understanding that has been followed for a long time, it naturally has its reasons. Six girls, it is not always the new things that are good, and the old ones can always be preserved." Naturally, there is a reason for it.”

"grandmother……"

Mrs. Tang said, "You still have a lot of time to think about this matter. You can even ask Han Jing for help at the right time. Relying is not weak, sometimes you have to rely on each other."

Tang Nuan didn't speak, and Mrs. Tang didn't want Tang Nuan to understand immediately. Some things will be understood after she really experienced them. She just told Tang Nuan, "Remember the most important thing, you must always believe Your child is the best, don’t start to think and doubt before the child is born, what if he is not good enough, what if he is not good enough, a person’s qualifications are important, but how to grow up , how to cultivate is equally important.”

This is the difference between men and women. Tang Nuan discovered the difference in how her grandfather and grandmother looked at things. Mrs. Tang said, "No matter what others think of your child, you have to believe that your child is the best. Maybe he doesn't." He loves to read, but he must have advantages in other aspects, what you, as a mother, have to do is to discover his advantages and give him confidence."

(End of this chapter)