sleepless tonight

Chapter 361 Material and Spiritual Freedom
"It's full of junior high school students and high school students. It's not suitable for me to go in and listen to the class. It will affect their class. You take the fruit. I just came to see you and Teacher Liu. Now that I have seen it, I won't go in and disturb the students in class." ."I said.

"What are you afraid of? These students are here to make up lessons. They are not as strict as in the school. Besides, even in the school, there will be people attending the lectures. It is normal." Chen Wenjing didn't want me to leave, so she asked me to stay, "In the classroom Most of these students are from No. [-] Middle School, and some are preparing to take the No. [-] Middle School exam. You came out of No. [-] Middle School and took the college entrance examination twice, and your grades are very good. You had hoped to enter Tsinghua University and Peking University. Even if you entered Wuhan University with one less exam, these are all experiences, if you really don’t want to attend lectures, then pass on your experiences.”

"Learning is not only about doing questions and memorizing, but also from the bottom of your heart that you want to make progress independently, study independently, and want to be admitted to a good university. With this understanding, learning can get twice the result with half the effort. You go up and follow Tell them about your learning experience, your learning experience, your learning method, or your perception of learning, which can help them to a great extent."

"There is nothing to say about the benefits of this." I shook my head, not wanting to get involved in this matter.

"Don't be so irresponsible, they are all your juniors, you should help them." Chen Wenjing grabbed my arm involuntarily, pulled me into the classroom forcibly, stood on the podium, "Students, I would like to introduce someone to you. The person next to me is your senior. He graduated from No. [-] Middle School. He is very good. He came to see you today. His original ability can enter Tsinghua University and Peking University, but he failed in the English test. Something was delayed, and one exam was missed, but even so, he entered Wuhan University."

"Wu University is a vice-ministerial-level national key university directly under the Ministry of Education. It is one of the first batch of double first-class A-level universities in the country. It is a key university in the 985, 211, and 2011 plans. Wuhan University is surrounded by East Lake water and sits on Luojia Mountain. It is a national 5A tourist attraction East Lake. Part of the scenic area, being able to enter Wuhan University also represents strength."

Chen Wenjing looked at me after the introduction: "Say something to your classmates."

I couldn't break free, I was already standing on the podium, and it was impossible to go out again, looking at the interested students below, thinking that many of them might have the same thoughts and ideas as I did before, since I couldn't leave, I think it's better to tell them about my life perception, maybe it can be of some help to them.

"Live and learn, some people may think that even if I don't go to college, I just need to study, and I can achieve something in the future, but this kind of thinking is bad." I looked up and glanced down, and many students All eyes fell on me, and I was very interested. This kind of opening is what they are willing to listen to and can attract them, "People must follow the rules of society to survive in society, otherwise they will be bruised all over. "

"Some of you may feel that you are covered with bruises and bruises. I am not afraid of fear, I am not afraid of power, I am not afraid of worldly concepts, I want to maintain my own personality, and I want to be worthy of my original intention. This is a premise. If you decide to live alone in the future, you can have such an idea, and you can also implement it. You can be indifferent to your ambitions, you can live in seclusion in the mountains, but it is impossible to be so chic and self-conscious in life, because you still have responsible."

"Because everyone still has their parents to look up to, and when they get married, they have a family to take care of, and children to raise. Parents gave birth to you, raised you, and worked hard all their lives. They expect you to be successful. Why? They want to count on you to be successful? Why do you have to force you to study? Do you think they don’t understand what’s in your heart? Their ideas are too pedantic, and they don’t understand the awe-inspiring ideals in your heart.”

"That's right, they may really not understand the thoughts in your heart, they don't understand the lofty thoughts in your heart, they have been forcing you to study, they do this, they just hope that you will have a better life in the future, because you are promising and have a good life , in fact, it can be almost equated."

"If you want to live better and live more freely, but you can't let go of some responsibilities, then you must reach a high level materially. Simply put, you want to make yourself rich. How can you do that?" Can make yourself rich? Learning is not the only way, but learning is the best way."

"Some of you may have seen the news that the graduates from Tsinghua University sell pork, but that is an exception, and they sold pork to a famous brand and a chain operation. If it is just an ordinary person, it may be a lifetime. It’s just selling pork, but it’s because he has studied and went to university, and his mood and thinking are different from ordinary people, and he sells pork because he wants to do that. If he doesn’t sell pork, he can do other things, It is no problem to be able to go to work and be a white-collar worker, but do you think that a person who has not gone to college or studied can go to work when he wants to? Can sit in an office and have relatively abundant income Salary? Tough."

"The company just uses your academic qualifications to trap you. Why? Because many people are waiting in line with academic qualifications to join his company. Without academic qualifications, no matter how capable you are, they will not let you in."

"Let me give you a simple example. Just say that people in our village may have this situation around you. When you go back to the village, you may find that your childhood playmates got married early. Eighteen or nineteen-year-old There is no lack of it, they may become pregnant in half a year, or become a father, their life is like the older generation, step by step, get married, have children, and support a family."

"There is no time to travel, no time to go out to realize yourself, and stay at home all your life. Most of your parents should have never gone to college, because it was not easy to go to college at their time. You can compare it. Imagine, and you can also feel, are their ideas different from yours?"

"On the one hand, you feel that your parents don't understand you, but on the other hand, you develop in the direction of your parents and don't improve yourself. This is very contradictory. Going to school can improve yourself and make you more options."

"If you don't go to school, if you don't study, you may be like your parents in the future. You will spend your whole life around your home. To be precise, you will not be around your home, but around that small world, trapped in one place. You can't go anywhere. , I can’t do other things if I want to do other things, but after going to university, my horizons have broadened, your concepts and ideas have changed, and the people you meet will be more like-minded with you, not less than 20 years old, The family is urging you to get married and have children, you can get married at 26 or even 30 years old, you have time and ability to realize your own value and do what you want to do."

"Even if you get married and have children, because you have gone to college, your ability to find a job has become stronger. Others work hard for twelve hours a day, or even more hours to get paid, but you may sit in the office, After playing for seven or eight hours, blowing on the air conditioner and drinking tea, you can get so much money, and you can spend the rest of the time freely."

"Taking myself as an example may be easier for people to accept. I have taken the college entrance examination twice. I am nearly 30 years old. There was some accident in the first college entrance examination. I did not go to college. After eight years, I I took the college entrance examination for the second time. Mr. Chen has told you just now that I did not take the English exam this time, but I still reached the admission score of Wuhan University. During these eight years, I had a child. I originally wanted to Living comfortably, but is it possible? The family is so poor that they even have to borrow food from someone, and they have to go to the vegetable market to pick up rotten vegetables to eat."

"My child wants to eat a meal of meat, but I can't satisfy it. In the end, I figured it out and wanted to work hard to make money. Now I'm successful. I own five steamed food restaurants, and I can afford vegetables and rice. Affordable fruit, able to take children out to play, there is nothing wrong with choosing comfort, but you have to reach a certain material foundation to be able to obtain comfort, and to achieve this material foundation, the best way for you now is to study, that is, to go to college. "

"Comfort does not mean doing nothing, but to work harder to realize the freedom of money in order to obtain material and spiritual freedom."

(End of this chapter)