sleepless tonight

Chapter 449 You Are Not Happy

"There are several steamed vegetable restaurants with a monthly income of hundreds of thousands, which is not considered well-off." Su Ran's mother hit me directly, denying my understanding of life.

"Hundreds of thousands a month and millions a year, why can't you call it well-off?" I was a little surprised that Su Ran's mother's definition of well-off was too high.
"Of course not." As if typing too slowly, Su Ran's mother sent a voice directly. Her voice didn't sound old at all. It felt like the voice of a woman in her 40s, very soft and very soft. Qing Liang, "First of all, to live a well-off life, you must at least have an apartment in a big city, right?"

"The house price in the center of Wuchang is 4 to [-] yuan per square meter. In two or three years, I will be able to buy a flat in the center of Wuchang." I said, "It doesn't even take two or three years, maybe more than a year. To be able to buy a house in Wuchang, if you just pay the down payment, the time will be faster.”

"How can paying a down payment to buy a house be called well-off? Well-off means that there are no debts and no pressure in life. If you have to repay the loan every month and have financial pressure, this cannot be called well-off." Su Ran's mother denied it. I said, "Let's not say that you don't have a house in Wuchang now. Even if you have a house, Wuchang can't be called a big city. The big cities I'm talking about are big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen."

"It is impossible for all people to live in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, and it is impossible for only those living in Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen to be eligible to become well-off families. Your statement is too one-sided. Wuchang is not a first-tier big city, but it is also a second-tier city. It’s nearer to the front.” I said, “The basic living facilities are relatively complete, and it’s also very convenient to live here.”

"You don't need to tell me how Wuchang is. I lived in Wuchang, and I came to BJ from there." Su Ran's mother quickly took the initiative to speak, "You haven't been to BJ, have you? Have you ever been to Shanghai? You probably haven’t been to Shenzhen or Guangzhou either. You haven’t been to these places, so you can’t feel the difference between Wuchang and these cities. I advise you to go out for a walk if you have time, and practice well. Experience the difference between these cities, and at that time you will understand that compared with these cities, Wuchang is a small rural town."

"You said that you can live a well-off life in other cities. This is true, but those people don't just have houses in one place. In Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, they all have houses and can afford houses, but you now What's the situation like? You don't even have the ability to buy a house in the center of Wuchang, and you dare to call it a well-off life."

"I can always succeed if I work hard, and it doesn't take too long. I can afford it in a year or two." Su Ran's mother said this, looked down on me like this, and I was a little unconvinced.

"People can't compare themselves to the bottom, they have to look up, and compare with those who stand on the high ground. There are so many rich people, why don't you look up to those rich people? Just be satisfied with the status quo?" Su Ran's mother said , "Your current situation is very bad in my opinion, not only the problem of the house, but also the medical problem. With the few steaming restaurants in your hand, if you get a serious illness, all the steaming restaurants may be closed down. Transferring out may not be able to afford medical expenses."

"How do you look at a well-off life? It's nothing more than looking at whether it's well-off in terms of housing and health. Another point is tourism, but I won't talk about tourism. I can go abroad at least three or four times a year. Traveling, this is barely possible for you, but that’s all you can do. Housing and medical care, you can’t do it.”

"I have bought medical insurance." I said, "The national social security system is relatively complete now. Although I don't have a job, I can buy urban residents' medical insurance, and I can reimburse a certain percentage of serious illnesses."

"It depends on the help of the state to cure diseases. Can this be considered well-off?" Unexpectedly, after I said such words, Su Ran's mother disapproved even more, "I will have a physical examination every six months to help me. The doctor is also very famous in the world, early detection of problems, early investigation, instead of waiting until the body has a problem, and then relying on the national insurance to treat the disease, in case of a disease, you can use your own money to treat the disease, Can you go to a country with developed medical treatment to see a doctor anytime, anywhere, can you do this?"

I fell silent and stopped talking.

I really can't do what Su Ran's mother said, and her words have deepened my understanding of rich people. I thought Shao Siqi's family was already a rich man, but the same conditions as Su Ran's mother Than, the difference is too far.

"If you can't give a woman happiness, you have to stay away from her, keep a distance from her, and don't hinder her from being happy." Su Ran's mother meant something.

I understood what she meant. She said so much, sent me photos, and said so much to me in voice, not because she was optimistic about me, nor because she wanted to help me or motivate me, but for the last In a word, keep me away from Su Ran and don't hinder Su Ran's happiness.

"How do you know that Su Ran will not be happy following me?" I didn't expect to send a message to Su Ran, but I got such a result. Her mother saw it, and her mother gave me a blow, and it seemed clear that she was against it. I'm with Su Ran.

The right family is not only in ancient times, but also in the present, Su Ran's mother probably thinks so.

"You can't even reach the level of well-off, and you can't even provide Ranran with basic material conditions. How can you give her happiness?" Su Ran's mother said.

"I believe that as long as I am given time, I will definitely be able to reach the condition you mentioned before the age of 40." I am confident that I will reach the height that Su Ran's mother said in about ten years.

"Before 40 years old? You are less than 30 years old now, and it took more than ten years to reach this height?" Su Ran's mother asked me back.

"You don't believe me?" I asked back.

"No, I believe, I believe you can achieve it. But when you reach this height, how old is Ran Ran? Can she afford to wait? Do you still want her to share the joys and sorrows with you and fight with you? Women should not be tortured by the difficulties of life, they should be born to enjoy life, but they are young and beautiful, with good skin, just like youth, do you have the heart to let her live a simple life with you?" Su Ran's mother said.

"Based on my current conditions, she lives with me, and she doesn't have to wash the dishes and cook. I cook at a very high level, and I can cook for her. It's not that I can't afford cosmetics. I can also Provide it to her, if you want to travel and broaden your knowledge, I also have the ability to give it to her." I was very unconvinced, Su Ran's mother was too demanding, "And now love is free, son is not a fish, how do you know the joy of fish? What Su Ran thinks in her heart, whether she is happy or not, you have no right to make decisions for her. "

"I'm her mother, why don't I have the right to make decisions for her?" Su Ran's mother said, "You are still too young to understand the principle of being in the right family. Only when the family is in the right family can love in such a situation be happy. How can you be happy if you are not in the right household, have different ideas, and have different living habits?"

"It's true that you are his mother, but you left her when you were young, leaving her and her father alone. Even when Su Ran's father died suddenly in the office, you didn't come back to attend his funeral. You were still outside Traveling, your heart is so ruthless. In your eyes, there are only material things. Only these external conditions can be called happiness. Happiness does require a certain material basis, but it is not as high as you said. Really follow If you measure happiness by your requirements, I am afraid that there are not many happy people in the world." I said, "You married a rich man, have you lived happily these years?"

On the phone, the conversation record paused for a while, and Su Ran's mother finally typed: "I'm very happy."

"Hehe." I think Su Ran's mother is being stubborn, "If you want to be really happy, you won't pause for so long, but just say it out. I'm afraid you haven't been happy all these years, have you?"

"Whether I'm happy or not, at least I don't lack material conditions." Su Ran's mother said, "But you can't even provide the basics. I won't agree to the matter between you and Ranran."

(End of this chapter)