sleepless tonight

Chapter 528

I thought I missed it, but when I found Logan's name in the address book, I clicked on it and found that there was no conversation between me and her, which means she didn't send me a message.

I took a look at her circle of friends, she was visible in three days, but she didn't delete me.

After thinking about it, I took the initiative to send her a message: "Happy New Year."

I didn't get a response after I sent it, so I put the phone aside and went to sleep.

When I got up in the morning, I drove Su Ran back to the teahouse and had breakfast. Su Ran stayed and helped look after the teahouse. My parents, my two children, and I were going back to our hometown to celebrate the New Year.

"On the first day of the new year, there are no people there, and you don't have to stay in the store all the time. You can go wherever you want to play, just close the store." My mother didn't forget to tell Su Ran when she left , "You really don't want to go back with us?"

"I'll guard the shop here." Su Ran said.

"Go to bed when you are sleepy, and go around if you want to go out to play. My mother is right. There are no people on the first day of the new year, so you don't have to stay in the store all the time." I told Su Ran.

"You don't blame me for not going back with you, do you?" Su Ran told me.

"What's your fault? We're just boyfriend and girlfriend now. If you want to go back with me, won't you lose your identity?" I smiled and said, "I don't care, it's nothing. I went back to so many relatives, one by one. Asking, it’s too much trouble to deal with, it’s like watching animals in a zoo, it’s not interesting.”

In fact, I don't really want to go back, but my parents still have this kind of relationship, so it's impossible not to move around, so I can only go back with my two children.

People of the older generation pay more attention to face and family ties. In fact, it is not right to value family ties, because relatives may need to borrow money for some difficulties, but they may not be able to borrow money, even if other relatives have money. He will not be willing to borrow you.

The relationship between relatives is a bit distorted. Walking around each other during Chinese New Year seems to be just because it has become a habit and an indelible part of the concept of the older generation.

Only then will it continue, and it will continue to do so.

But in fact, many times this kind of walking is unnecessary in my opinion. Although there is a blood relationship, many relatives have become indifferent. They have their own families and their own lives. What's the point of walking around?

During the holidays, get together to have a meal, and then compare the achievements of the children with each other, compare their lives, and brag about each other.

It's actually quite boring.

Why are many young people afraid to go back during the Chinese New Year?
It's because many relatives always like to ask some difficult questions, such as whether they have friends, how much a month's salary, how is their job, when they plan to have children, etc. They don't seem to care about you. Instead, I want to use this to get a joke so I can have a good laugh, or to show my ability as an elder, and make a comment.

I don't have any special views on family affection. In my heart, I really hope that relatives who are related by blood can be harmonious and help each other, but this kind of relationship does not mean that you can be harmonious if you want it. If you don't want to, if it's just your blind effort and wishful thinking, then it's meaningless.

I drove back to the village, stayed for two days, walked around with some relatives, drove an Audi car, and the family's clothes were all famous brands, but at least they were clean and tidy, very grand.During the Chinese New Year, some relatives who didn't move around very much also came.

It is estimated that after hearing what the third uncle said, he ran over deliberately. The third uncle went to the city to ask me to borrow some money. Later, I gave him an idea to let him bring some people to do house renovation.

This kind of thing will definitely not be hidden in the countryside, and it will definitely spread.When I went home, it led to such a result, wave after wave of relatives, and even some people who were not related by blood, but people from the village also ran to my house, to pay New Year's greetings to my parents, and to my parents. The child's red envelope scared me.

I've been low-key enough, but I didn't expect so many people to come to pay New Year's greetings when I went home. In the past so many years, I have heard as many good things as I have heard in the past two days combined.

"It's hard work, and I'm going to enjoy the blessings. Life will definitely get better and better in the future. I really gave birth to a good son."

"Chen Jin is promising now, and he can help introduce jobs to his third uncle. He also lent so much money to his third uncle to let him build a house. Now, he may not have an income of 600 million yuan a month. Bar?"

"I heard that I bought a villa in the city. The villa must cost tens of millions of dollars, right? I'm really rich. What kind of business have I done? I've made so much money, can you take me with you?"

There were many similar words. Chen Ke and Chen Le's pockets were full of red envelopes, at least 100 yuan, most of them were three or four hundred, and there were even two or three thousand yuan.

"I didn't see so many red envelopes when I came back before." When I opened the red envelopes at night, my mother saw the red envelopes piled up on the bed and sighed again and again, "The minimum is 100 yuan, and the most can be two or three thousand. Two children How can I give such a big red envelope?"

"If someone wants to give it back, I can't return it. I remember everything, and I just return it when I walk around." My dad said.

"The rich are far away in the mountains, and the poor are in the downtown area, and no one asks." I added next to it, "When I came back, I never saw so many people coming to my house to visit. People, it is really true."

"Aren't all people like this? Can you still expect others to be there for you, without thinking of getting any benefits?" My dad is very open-minded, "Who treats you well and who treats you badly, you just have to know in your own mind." , but what should be moved around is to move around. When the family was in trouble before, they asked them to borrow money, and they didn't say they refused directly. They borrowed more or less, a few hundred, a few thousand, not much, but since If someone else lends it to you, you have to think about it."

"It's fine for you to read well, I don't really want to move around." I shook my head, "You and my mother should understand what they mean, this one wants to help in the steamed food restaurant, and the one wants to arrange himself My son-in-law is going to be a cook in my shop, and if I really want to let them in, how will I manage the steamed food restaurant in the future, and those who are not related to me by blood, what will they do? What are you thinking?"

Some friendships do need to be recited, but reminiscing about the friendship should also be divided into seriousness and seriousness. When there is difficulty, a few hundred dollars or a few thousand dollars is like sending a beggar. Is it a help?Not really.

It's really because when you encounter difficulties, he throws hundreds of dollars and thousands of dollars to send you off like a beggar. In the end, when you look back, you are prosperous, you are happy, and he comes to you to do things and arrange People go to your store and ask you to borrow tens of thousands of dollars, or even millions of dollars to do business.

If you agree, others probably won’t think of your feelings, and they may point you behind your back and say: Look, there is a fool who has a lot of money, tens of thousands of dollars, tens of thousands of dollars, or even hundreds of thousands of dollars. Ten thousand yuan is nothing to him, as long as you borrow it, as long as you ask, he has it and can give it to you.

Do others miss you?Do not.

I only think you are stupid, I only think that you are stupid and have a lot of money, and the loaned money may not come back. If someone asks you to borrow it next time and you don't borrow it, then you will be infamous.Just like Zhu Zhiwen.

People are very selfish, and some people who suffer from jealousy, they don’t know right from wrong, they don’t care about right and wrong, they don’t know basic ethics, they only think that if you have money, you should give it to me, if you don’t For me, if it is deducted, if it is wrong, it will be criticized.

For such a person, there is really nothing to say, there is no need to argue, just stay away.

"You didn't move around very much. When your father and I get old, the relationship between your generation will be so weak. Let alone the elders, I haven't seen how you move around among the same generations." My mother said.

"Now everyone pays attention to small families, how can there be a big family?" I said, "In addition to Guangdong and Guangxi, there are places like Fujian, which may still pay attention to these things, and still preserve the imprint of the family. Other places have long been disrupted. I I also want to show friendship, but others only want to come here to win the autumn wind, so why should they be regarded as fools? I didn’t say no to those who really helped my family, but those who came along by the way, count their red envelopes Come on, just go back later."

(End of this chapter)