The concubine of the high gate

Chapter 473

The arrogant and bright woman back then has now become a cautious and forbearing woman, and she will never see the real woman again.

"In this world, apart from the royal family, there is no one who prevents a husband from taking concubines. Unless there is too much difference between your husband's family and your mother's family. However, if you are married too low, even though your husband's family treats you like a Bodhisattva, it is just In the future, your children will be a head shorter than others. Even if your natal family is strong enough to earn a future for your husband, people will say that your husband got to the top through nepotism, and no one will value his ability. Over time , he will also hold resentment towards you. Furthermore, there are plenty of couples who share joys and sorrows, but not many couples who can share wealth and honor. Although my Dingweihou Mansion is gaining momentum now, who knows what will happen in the future?

If you choose someone who is better than the top and more than the bottom, Dingweihou Mansion will give him some convenience and let him be promoted to another official.At that time, since he will be able to see the benefits of this in-law, he will support you everywhere, and no one will say too many gossips.After all, there are a lot of people who rely on their connections to get high. Whose family has a good position and doesn't want to give it to their relatives?You are nothing.

Regardless of your husband's family background, being promoted to an official position is nothing in the eyes of others.If your husband's family background is too poor and he is suddenly promoted to that position, it will naturally cause people to gossip.There are not many high schools in the capital, but if you want to go one step further, although it is only one step away, it is not so easy, and your husband's family will respect you at that time.It's just that your husband's family's character should also be optimistic.Otherwise, not only will it drag you down, but it will definitely drag down the Houfu.

Grandma tells you the truth.Even if your husband's family really did something in the future and suffered disasters, the Hou Mansion will definitely hug you to protect your children and even your husband's family.Only if your mother's family does not collapse, can you have a place to talk in your husband's family.But, then again, if you meet a good husband's family, even if your mother's family falls down, you won't make your life uncomfortable.It's just that this kind of thing can only be hit and miss.You can't really let the Hou Mansion collapse just to test your future husband, right? "Ye Mingzhu said slowly.

"Jane understands."

"Choose a few families with a simple population. They look decent, and they will be able to talk to each other in the future. Make a list and show it to grandma," Ye Mingzhu said.

"How many to choose?" Duan Qingzhen's expression became extremely strange.

"Naturally. I haven't settled on anything yet, so naturally I have to pick a few more for comparison. Then observe one by one, and test one by one. If you can, you can marry, but if you can't delete that person from the list, then the rest You have to test the selected people as your husband. The left and right will not be known by outsiders. While it is still early, you have to observe it for a year or two. Wait until you are old enough From now on, just get engaged and marry after you turn 16." Ye Mingzhu said indifferently.

"Okay, take it back and read it slowly. Don't worry, just choose carefully." Ye Mingzhu smiled and shook her head.

After breathing out, Ye Mingzhu looked at the sun outside, lay down on the soft couch and took a nap for a while.

"Mrs. Tai, you are awake. Mother Shen is here, and she is waiting for Mrs. Tai." Bi He said slowly.

(End of this chapter)