Gan Family Instructions

Chapter 3 Brothers
There are people and then there are husband and wife, there are husband and wife and then there are father and son, and there are father and son and then there are brothers: the relatives of a family are just three.From now on, as for the nine clans, they are all based on the three relatives, so those who value human relations must not be unreasonable.Brothers, people who are fractal and connected, Fang Qiyou is also young, parents carry left and right, front and back, food is the same, clothing is passed on, learning is linked to business, travel is shared, although there are conflicts. People can't help but love each other.Even if they are strong, each wife should be his own wife, and each son should be his son. Although there are honest and honest people, there can be no less decline.Di Si is thinner than his brothers. Now, if you make a thin person, if you are generous with your kindness, it is like a square bottom and a round cover, which will not fit.But those who have deep friendship and brotherhood and are not moved by others will be exempted!

When two parents are dead, brothers should look after each other like form and shadow, sound and sound; love the remains of the ancestors, cherish the aura of our own body, what do you think of being brothers?When you are brothers, you are different from others. If you look deeply, you will easily complain, and if you are close, you will be easy to get rid of.For example, if you live in a living room, you can plug a hole and paint a hole, so you don’t have to worry about it being ruined; just like a sparrow and a mouse don’t take care of it, you can’t guard against the wind and rain, and the wall is sunken and there is no way to save it.The servants and concubines are like sparrows, and the wives are like wind and rain, what a shame!
If brothers are not in harmony, the nephew will not love; if the nephew does not love, the group will be weak;In this way, the road is based on the face and the heart.Who can save it?People or people in the world all have love, but those who disrespect their brothers, how can there be more and not less!A person may take tens of thousands of teachers and gain his deadly power, but lose his favor to his younger brother, how can he be distant but not close!
Di Si, the land of many disputes, so that the flesh and blood live there, it is not as if each returns to the world, feels the frost and dew and misses each other, and waits for the sun and the moon to look at each other.What's more, people who travel on the road are in a place where there are many disputes, and those who can be inseparable are rare.Therefore, those who are in charge of public affairs and private affairs, and who are responsible for heavy responsibilities but have little righteousness; if they can forgive themselves and do it, and caress for their sons, then this trouble will not happen.

A person's brother should not be treated the same as his father. Why do you complain that loving your brother is not as good as loving your son?It's a reflection that's not clear.Liu Jing of Peiguo, who was next door to his elder brother Liandong, did not respond to the number of shouts, and only answered after a long time; .

Xuanshao, the king of Jiangling, his younger brothers Xiaoying and Zimin, three brothers, they loved each other and loved each other.When Xitai fell, Xuan Shao was surrounded by soldiers because of his burly body. The two younger brothers fought to hold each other, and each asked to die on his behalf.

(End of this chapter)