Learn about child psychology every day 2: Before the age of 8, you can help your child acquire a goo

Chapter 1 Preface
The most difficult job in the world may be the job of "parent".Moreover, there is no on-the-job training, no operation guide, or even experience to learn from for this profession—because every child is unique, but at the same time, this profession only allows success and does not allow failure.How easy is it to achieve zero failure under the condition of zero experience?
But no matter how difficult this job is, I believe that any father or mother will still try their best to avoid falling into the misunderstanding of education, avoiding detours and going astray.This is the great thing about the profession of "parenting".

If you have no experience, you can make up for it the day after tomorrow.

How to make it up?

Don't rely too much on the parenting experience of "tiger moms" or "sheep dads".Because each child is born with his own unique personality, they are destined to take a different growth path. "Tiger mothers" succeeded by relying on "tiger", but it does not mean that your children will also follow your "tiger" approach.

So how to make up?

Or return to the child psychology and growth psychology that have been accumulated for hundreds of years and have been demonstrated and continuously improved by countless psychologists.Although each child is unique, there are still certain rules to follow in their growth; behind some of their intricate appearances, there are still some of the same problems hidden.By understanding these laws, you can predict your child's upcoming development and progress, as well as the problems that may arise due to growth; understanding the deep psychological reasons behind various "bad" behaviors of children will help you understand which behaviors are the cause of growth. What are the normal phenomena and which ones need your targeted guidance and intervention.

Parents with zero experience need a "knowledge" key to understand their children's psychology, and they need to understand children's psychology.You must know that children of different age groups have different psychological characteristics and personality characteristics. It can be said that if you do not understand the psychological characteristics and psychological needs of children of each age group, you cannot enter the child's heart.If you don't understand psychology, you can't build a child's good personality.

How can parents understand child psychology?The best way is to read more books, and read more books about children's psychology.But in the current book market, books about children's psychology are too difficult to understand and comprehend for ordinary readers without a foundation in psychology.Based on this, we planned this set of books.

Compared with the first book, this book focuses more on the analysis of children's bad qualities that have not yet been stereotyped.It starts with some personality weaknesses shown by children in daily life, analyzes the children's bad personality defects, and intervenes.Such as timidity, shyness, sensitivity, strong jealousy, withdrawn personality, unsocial, low self-esteem, laziness, squeamishness and other deep-rooted reasons for the formation of characters, and put forward solutions to the problems.

Children come into this world with their own unique personality. At the age of 3, 80% of their personality has been formed. By the age of 8, the child's personality is basically finalized.This book aims to guide those parents who want to help their children correct their personality defects, guide and change their children's personality before it is finalized, make up for their defects, consolidate their advantages, and enable their children to grow up healthier.

Being relaxed parents and raising children with outstanding personalities is the dream of many parents.If you also have such a dream, start with "Knowing a little about child psychology every day"!Start right away, starting from the "heart", don't hesitate!I believe that as long as you persist in reading for a long time, you will be able to understand your children, so that you can easily guide your children into a journey of healthy growth.

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