Lady Caisang: My husband is a little sweet

Chapter 435
After breakfast, tidy up a little bit, and wait for Second Uncle Yan, Gu Tou Gu Chengming, and the two aunts to come over, and it's time to serve tea.

Everyone sat down according to their seats, Cheng Shui served tea and water beside them, and Yan Qinghe took the new wife to recognize her.

For the first three days, the strict father, the Gu clan, would not go out, so there would naturally be relatives and neighbors who came to see the new daughter-in-law, so how the new daughter-in-law behaved was very important.

The three days passed quickly, and Gutou and his youngest son were ready to leave.

"I see that your life is getting better and better, so I feel relieved. I, as a father, didn't handle the matter well. I am an old man who is about to die, so I can leave at ease." The old man said with a sigh .

"Father, what are you talking about? You will surely live a long life." Gu Shi said with a serious face, but everyone knows that when a person reaches his age, it is really uncertain when he will leave.

Speaking of it, the elders of the two families are relatively long-lived, sixty or seventy, which is rare in ten miles and eight townships.

The old man smiled and looked at his grandchildren, great-grandchildren, and great-grandchildren, "I have a plan in my heart, you live a good life, we are leaving, and Guangya will get married at the end of this year, you must come!"

"Sure, sure, father-in-law, don't worry." Yan's father said, he wanted to ask about the situation of Mrs. Gu, but he couldn't say it out loud.

"Eldest sister, don't worry, I will take good care of dad." Gu Chengming said seriously, it is actually very sad for a good family to become like this.

Gu Qingya looked to the other side, Yan Qinghe, Yan Qingpu were talking to Gu Guangya, they didn't know what to talk about, they patted each other on the shoulders, as if they had reached an agreement.

Sending off Gu Chengming's family, the rest is not a big deal, just to prepare for Yan Qingcha's wedding, only half a month later, on September 22.

Speaking of which, at the beginning of the year and the end of the year, the Yan family has several happy events in a row, which is relatively rare in the village.

Yan Qingcha was detained at home, not allowed to go out, not allowed to do work, just to raise it to be more tender.

My brother-in-law is Liu Hong, the eldest son of the Liu family in the village. He moved here from the county seat. He has studied but never passed the exam. He is currently working as an accountant, and his three-year filial piety period has just passed.

The Liu family has no relatives, and there are few people who can help with things, but they can't stand the fact that there are many Yan family members in the village. If we help a little, the whole air will rise.

Coupled with the help from Yan's father and Yan Qinghe, the banquet can still be organized in a decent manner, but Liu Hong has ambition and saved money, so he came by himself in terms of money, which made Yan's father and Yan Qinghe more satisfied up.

As for her future brother-in-law, Gu Qingya has met both sides. She is tall and strong, but she is darker. Jiang Rongan will be more clear and say that he is not bad.

There are two marriages within a month, and next year, the topic of conversation in the village is probably still the two of them. There are not many people who can get together by such a coincidence.

The day before Yan Qingcha got married, Gu Qingya went to her room to look for her with the handbook she had promised to give her.

"Sister, the booklet you gave me earlier was pretty good. This book can really tell me what to do after marriage?" As the wedding approached, Yan Qingcha became nervous instead.

"Many things in the booklet are about some truths, and there are also many precautions for keeping healthy. You are not required to follow them rigidly, but to apply them flexibly." Gu Qingya said and handed the booklet to her, "You can Take a look ahead and don’t feel nervous.”

"Sister, who doesn't get nervous when they get married? Didn't you too?" From a girl to a woman, the change of identity, speech and behavior have to change accordingly. Who wouldn't be worried?

"Life is lived, as long as the husband and wife are of the same heart, what obstacles can't be overcome?" Gu Qingya asked back, "Later, mother will come over to chat with you."

"Okay." Yan Qingcha took two deep breaths, "As long as I'm almost like my parents after I get married."

"Father and mother are old couples, and any edges and corners have been rounded long ago. You and your brother-in-law still have to grind. When you are angry, don't do impulsive things. As long as it is not serious, don't just say go back to your mother's house." Come on, you know?"

"Why, Eldest Sister?" She could understand before, but Yan Qingcha felt that Gu Qingya's last sentence was wrong.

"Our family is already high and there are quite a few brother-in-law's houses. If you go back to your mother's house to find a backer because of a trivial matter, what will your brother-in-law think?"

"And they are all in the same village. What's the matter? Parents don't know? So, when encountering things, don't be busy with grievances, but first reflect on whether it is your fault or his fault, or both .Men sometimes care about saving face, as long as it is not a serious fault, you take the initiative to admit your mistake, or nothing will be lost."

Yan Qingcha was thoughtful after hearing this. Being a girl and being a daughter-in-law are indeed two different disciplines.

"It's really not a simple matter."

Hearing Yan Qingcha's whisper, Gu Qingya couldn't help laughing, "That's natural, you see me and your brother-in-law are getting along well, but we also quarrel, there must be differences of opinion."

"Also, as a wife, you can't know nothing about your husband's outside affairs. You have to be clear about the problems and troubles he encounters, and give useful advice or advice in a timely manner, analyze the seriousness of them, and cultivate It's a habit for the two of you to discuss something."

"Hey, I want my mother to say these things. Now I'm taking my mother's job. Don't be bored if you listen to it again at night." Gu Qingya joked.

"Elder sister, how could it be? I hope you can tell me more." Yan Qingcha took Gu Qingya's hand and said coquettishly. The two sisters hadn't been so close for many years. She suddenly felt sad. In fact, the eldest sister also not easy.

"What are you going to say, um, after you get married, you have to focus on your husband's family. Think about everything from your husband's position, and you will naturally know what is the most suitable." Gu Qingya stroked Yan Qingcha's Head, "If you are married and still miss your natal family, that is the worst. You pay attention to the people around you. Is this kind of family living happily?"

Yan Qingcha listened, suddenly her eyes turned red, and tears fell down like this, "Will there be less opportunities to be filial to your parents in the future?"

Gu Qingya was silent and didn't speak. When she was a girl, she always thought that she would still grow up anyway, why would she not have the opportunity to take care of her parents, but the chance to be in love with her from time to time was only in the days before she got married.

With Yan Qingcha's temperament, it would be unexpected if no one mentioned it. Just now, she heard Gu Qingya say that her husband's family was the main one, and then thought of Gu Qingya's situation, she felt as if she understood everything.

"Big sister, it's not far anyway, I'll go home often to see my parents." Yan Qingcha wiped away her tears, not daring to look up at Gu Qingya's expression.

Gu Qingya couldn't help laughing, she was just regretful, life stages are like this, always arrive at the next stage, and then understand what to do in the previous stage, but there is no way to start over.

　At the end of the writing, I suddenly felt emotional...

　　
　
(End of this chapter)