Li Yinhe talks about sex

Chapter 63 Love in the New Century
Human love in the new century will become more colorful, full of differences, more diverse, and more free.

In my dream, love in the new century is a more free love.The so-called freedom is the recognition of differences and pluralism.Freedom is the wings of love, without wings, love cannot fly.And true love is born to fly.

From the perspective of the form of love, it will break free from the shackles of the marriage system to a greater extent in the new century.At present, in some Nordic countries, fully half of all love partners have adopted cohabitation, and the other half have still chosen marriage.In China, the number of people who choose to live together and give up marriage is also on the rise.I think there will be more and more such people in the new century.

From the perspective of the object of love, it will get rid of the stereotype of gender in the new century.People will go back to basics, like the ancient Greeks, only value beauty, not gender.In the past few centuries, the hegemony of heterosexuality has set too strong love rules for people. If anyone does not love the opposite sex, marry and have children, people will accuse him of being sick and force him to see a doctor .In ancient Greece, ancient Egypt, ancient China, and ancient Japan, people fell in love more freely and did whatever they wanted, regardless of whether the object of love was a man or a woman, they just blindly pursued beauty and nobility.I hope that in the new century, our love can be as simple and free as the ancients.

From the perspective of the continuity of love, it will become more diverse.The love that lasts forever and grows old together is precious, but the lifestyle of constantly changing love partners and falling in love will also be tolerated and loved by people.Because in the past century, the average life expectancy of human beings was very short, no more than 40 to 70 years, but now, not only people in developed countries have a life expectancy of over 70 years, even the average life expectancy of people in third world countries like us Life expectancy is also approaching [-] years old.In such a long journey of life, it will become more and more unrealistic to love only one person for life.Besides, values ​​are determined by people, don’t let them constrain people’s desires, maybe people in the future will choose the ever-changing love instead of the lifelong love.

It will also become more colorful in terms of love and sex relationships.Some people choose to connect love and sex, and there is no sex without love; some people choose to separate love and sex, just love and no sex.In this era of AIDS, people may pay too much for sex, so online love and telephone love will be loved by some people.Platonic spiritual love has long had a good reputation, and when it has a real need (to prevent disease) and feasible means (high technology, the Internet), it is more likely to prevail.

All in all, I hope, and I also believe, that human love in the new century will become more colorful, full of differences, more diverse, and more free.I look forward to a new century with a wider freedom in matters of love.At that time, people can love more freely and without scruples.

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