The strongest rocket soldier

Chapter 834

The original intention, the original intention of being a human being, may have too much beauty.

However, as they walked, most people forgot the purpose of their departure, and began to compare themselves in order to satisfy certain desires in their hearts.

It has to be said that Chinese people love to compare.

The so-called comparison is actually another manifestation of jealousy.

Others do a lot of irrational things because they have surpassed themselves in a certain aspect or in multiple aspects, and finally because of their own jealousy.

Compared with other countries in the world, our people love face more. You give others face in many things, but just for the sake of so-called face, more people deliberately cover up their own weaknesses. In order to save face, I have to buy a car that I can't afford, just for the ridiculous face, which is also a performance of comparison.

But often, it is this kind of irrational comparison that hurts us.It is this kind of face comparison that distorts people's souls more and more. The short-term psychological settlement and subsequent loss will make people feel a huge gap afterwards, resulting in negative emotions. In the end, it will be completely destroyed. It should have been a beautiful life.

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When he reached a corner on one side, Ding Xiaojun first looked behind him, and then turned his gaze to Wang Na who was following him.

"Wang Na, it is said that you actively donate money, which is commendable, but it is too irrational for you not to consider your actual situation." Ding Xiaojun said, opening the money in his hand, looking at He held the money in his hand, shaking it, not knowing what to do with it.

"Squad Leader Ding, I don't want to be a latecomer. In our class, the least donated is 500 yuan. I can't do less than them." Wang Na said.

"Wang Na, you're just a conscript. Don't you know how much allowance you have a month?" Ding Xiaojun asked back.

"I..." Wang Na didn't know what to say when she heard footsteps coming towards her.

Ding Xiaojun turned his head and took a look. Seeing that it was Ding Tingting, he didn't pay much attention to it. He turned his head and said to Wang Na: "Donation is a good thing, but it should also be combined with your own actual ability. Don't just think about it." If others donate too much, you have to compare it with others. This is 570 yuan, which is not enough for your one-month allowance. In contrast, you donate a month's allowance is already quite a lot, we can't have the mentality of comparison, we must have the correct values ​​of life, understand?"

Wang Na just lowered her head and did not refute.

Ding Tingting walked over and only heard what Ding Xiaojun said about the comparison. She looked at Ding Xiaojun without knowing the situation and asked, "Squad Leader Ding, what happened?"

Ding Xiaojun glanced at Wang Na again, and then said to Ding Tingting: "Nothing serious happened, it's just that she donated all her money."

Ding Tingting didn't think so far. Hearing that her soldiers donated so much awareness, she thought it was pretty good. She glanced at Wang Na and said, "It's a good thing to have this awareness. If the soldiers of the whole company donate If you have such awareness, then our company will really become a model company."

Ding Xiaojun frowned, no, this Ding Tingting didn't understand what he said.

"Company Commander Ding, first of all, I won't talk about the issue of consciousness. I'll talk about the reality first. Now, it's only a few days before the beginning of the month, and I donated all the money. How will I live the rest of this month? Female soldiers are no better than male soldiers, but they cost more for daily necessities every month than male soldiers. Could it be possible to borrow money from comrades or family members in the future?"

After listening to Ding Xiaojun's words, Ding Tingting finally realized that, yes, the actual problem is more realistic. It is true that female soldiers have to buy some daily necessities by themselves, and they cannot be missing.

Looking at Wang Na now, Ding Tingting also felt that this soldier was acting too impulsively. No matter what, she had to consider the reality first.

"Company Commander Ding, besides that, I have to say one more thing. She wants to donate all the money at once. It has nothing to do with ideological awareness. It's because she feels that others have donated too much. You can't be behind others, tell me, will this kind of comparison mentality harm her." Ding Xiaojun said again.

"Squad Leader Ding, the soldiers have a mentality of comparison, so it's not necessarily a bad thing." Although Ding Tingting also felt that Wang Na's behavior was ill-considered, she didn't want to say no to such a big place.

Ding Xiaojun didn't agree with Ding Tingting's words, and he said: "Company Commander Ding, if it's a positive comparison, it's good, such as comparing training and operation with others. This kind of self-destructive comparison behavior, I think, must be prevented from continuing to develop, people will have a psychological gap if they have a comparison mentality, this will only develop people in a bad direction, think about it."

Ding Tingting was speechless when Ding Xiaojun refuted it. Indeed, the psychology of comparison has far more negative effects than positive development. This is a reality, a reality that most people have experienced.

At this moment, Ding Tingting looked at Wang Na who lowered her head, without the expression she had at the beginning.

Seeing that the atmosphere was getting worse, Ding Xiaojun took out the piece of 570 that belonged to Wang Na that he brought over, counted out 300 yuan from it, folded it, put it away, and then he walked to Wang Na's In front of him, he said to Wang Na.

"Wang Na, if you make a mistake, you must face it bravely. We are soldiers, and soldiers cannot face the mistakes they have made with silence. You should raise your head."

Wang Na really raised her head, but her face was full of grievances.

"Your starting point is not wrong. This is neither praise nor criticism. What happened today may be a hurdle that you must go through in your life. I am very glad that you have such a situation under our care. We It can also detect, prevent, and help you lead to the right path in time. Remember, as human beings, we should not compare ourselves with others, let alone compare ourselves with the reality of harming ourselves. It won't bring you any sense of superiority. This is 270 yuan. You take it back, and the remaining [-] is your donation. This is the end of this matter. Don't mention it to anyone in the future. Understand? ?”

Wang Na took back her money, nodded, and did not respond verbally.

(End of this chapter)