Female CEO's personal driver

Today's society is a human society, not a legal society. In such a society, all kinds of relationships are crisscross. If you can't handle relationships, you can't do work. Haven't you heard some responsible personnel say that the so-called work now is to balance all aspects of relationships, use relationships to solve contradictions and use contradictions to control the situation, This is what a politician should have. A person in charge is like a fish pond. Everyone wants to be a loach in the fish pond. They all want to be slippery. Haven't you heard that: "no matter how good the report is, it's better to drink, work can be less, and food can not be less." many important decisions in the circle of leaders are made at the dinner table, This is why these responsible personnel are happy to participate in various occasions, and the dinner in this circle has certain uniqueness. If you participate, your speech at the dinner may become gossip; If you don't participate, your rumor may become a speech at the dinner party.

As the saying goes, if you don't handle your business well, you will be criticized, and if you don't handle your private affairs well, you will be kicked. Therefore, no matter where you go in the future, you must find a way to have a good personal relationship with your boss. Only by having a close private relationship with your boss can you have a good working relationship. This is our most basic national condition. In addition, you must ask for instructions and report in time, If you have nothing to do, go to the boss and let the boss remember you all the time. Even if you just nag with the boss in the past, even if you just have a drink and tea with the boss in the past, you have to go. Don't be afraid to be scolded. The boss scolds you that you are your own person. Haven't you heard: you can't find the boss's office today, and you can't find your own office tomorrow.

Another point is very important in the circle of responsible persons, that is, the relationship between superiors and subordinates must be clear and good. You know, in our country's responsible person field, it is natural for superiors to punish subordinates, and nine times out of ten, there is no good fruit to eat. Even if you overturn the mistakes of your superiors, you will be regarded as disloyal and unfilial by your new superiors in the future and will not be reused for life. There is a brotherly relationship between peers. Even if there is a contradiction, it generally does not hurt the root. If you really turn your colleagues to the ground, you will be regarded as unkind and unjust and be guarded against.

The person in charge you depend on will always be transferred, retired, toppled or stepped down. Even if he rises and changes to another person, can he continue to maintain his voice over this person? I'm afraid it's more likely to disappear gradually. Because this new man is also like a new branch, with his own growing trunk and developed branches. What's more, what do you rely on to establish and maintain a close relationship with a powerful person? Is this close relationship a unilateral dependence or a mutually reinforcing relationship? If it is the former, you will always be in a state of fawning on others psychologically; If it is the latter, the situation is even worse, because you have me and I have you. However, you can't intervene in his administrative career in an all-round way. You are just one side, one level and one point of him. You are a small knot in his complex relationship network. Once his side has problems in other sides, other levels and other networks, you can't help being involved, and your career may be over.

It is dangerous for your boss to be unable to control your subordinates; For subordinates, being unable to control your boss will make you uneasy at any time. There is no right or wrong standard in the circle. Whoever has more power is right. Therefore, it is better to do more than one thing, which is the principle of being responsible for people's life. In this society, there is a difference between having a backer and not having a backer. If you want to be in charge, you must face the middle. Whether you want to be a person in charge in life, whether you can be a person in charge and whether you can be a person in charge are not the same thing. Those who want to be in charge may not be in charge, and those who are in charge may not be in charge.

Laws and regulations are formulated by the National People's Congress, and specific law enforcement personnel should be appointed and removed by the authority of the responsible party. Violations of law can be allowed, but violations of power can not. If you break the law, you can still be saved, because those with power can intercede for you; If the violation of power is not illegal, it will be dead. As long as the person with power has a word, the black hat on his head will have to be taken off. Why do so many people fight for power, but not many people sacrifice to protect the law?

In life, there are many cases of fighting openly and secretly for a person in charge, but few people dare to take up legal weapons to protect themselves, or can protect themselves. Justice and evil, law and power are always twin brothers, often around people. It is the trend of this society to promote the person in charge to make a fortune.

Things in the circle just don't understand. Things related to the common people should be fast or not; Things involving the person in charge and the interests of the person in charge should not be too fast. Nowadays, everything in society has two sides. What is open is one side, and what is hidden is another side. The latter often works, and the former is only for the common people.

Now, like shopping malls, the person in charge of the market pays attention to reality in everything, and everything must be exchanged at an equal value. Why do some people in power make money and things when they have power, because the contrast between power and non power is really too great. Don't trust those systems too much. It's useless to have systems without implementation; With a system, it is useless without supervision. There are two ways to do things in the circle: one is to get a seat by giving gifts; The other is to give gifts after finding a seat. The former is mostly the method adopted by the person in charge of running, while the latter is the thanks after the ability is reused.

Not that you have no ability, but that no one cares about your ability. Don't always think that a boss who knows people will get you to an important position suitable for you. The matter of Bole Xiangma can only appear in books. In order for Bole to find you, you must make Bole have enough benefits, make him feel that it is good for him to find you, and after Bole finds you, Another sentence is that we must understand how to say it. Now, don't we all focus on an organization? You should understand that the so-called organization is not really an organization, but a person. Therefore, if you are lucky to be promoted, you must say: Thank you for the appreciation of a boss and the cultivation of the organization. What will happen to me? Instead of first saying thank you for the cultivation of the organization. Without the appreciation of the boss, what is the use of being cultivated by the organization all your life, At that time, it will be finished in the post of section member? "

Li Wenlong never thought that there would be so many Taoists in the circle. He never thought that a sentence with the same meaning must be said in a different way on some occasions. Otherwise, he would violate the taboo of the circle. Otherwise, he would wait to nest in a seat to provide for the elderly. Before, Li Wenlong also felt that "listening to your words is better than reading books for ten years". Now he found that this is really the case. At this moment, Li Wenlong was like a hungry beggar, and Lin Xuemei was holding a delicious cake for his birthday. After getting up to pour water for Lin Xuemei, Li Wenlong couldn't help saying, "sister Lin, what else, Hurry up and listen! "

"Want to hear?" A very small woman, Lin Xuemei tilted her head and smiled at Li Wenlong. With this smile, Li Wenlong understood why there was such a lyrics as "one smile charms the city, and then the country" in the beautiful woman's song. At this moment, Lin Xuemei's smile can really reverse all living beings. Li Wenlong looked at it foolishly and forgot that he was holding a kettle to store water in his cup, Until I felt wet at hand, I suddenly woke up. I couldn't help wiping the saliva at the corner of my mouth and smiled at Lin Xuemei apologetically.

"Lin... Sister Lin, I really want to see your smile every day." put down the kettle in his hand, Li Wenlong couldn't help reaching out to touch Lin Xuemei's cheek.

"Wen long" listened to Li Wenlong's words. Lin Xuemei put away her smile. Her eclipsed expression made Li Wenlong's hand freeze in the air. He knew the reason why Lin Xuemei suddenly changed, but he also knew that he could not change the fact. Seeing each other's smile every day would become a luxury in the near future, It is impossible for Li Xuehua and Lin Xuehua to be responsible for everything, and it is impossible for Lin Xuehua to be responsible for everything.

"Sister Lin, I'm sorry, i..." Li Wenlong's hand stayed in mid air. He didn't know whether to take it back or continue to follow the route he wanted to take just now.

"Wen long, I'll never marry again in this life" stretched out her hand. Lin Xuemei held Li Wenlong's hand in the air. "All my things are yours alone. Although I can't be your real wife, I think I'm your real wife. I guard my body for you and raise children for you... "

Later, Lin Xuemei's tears ran down her cheeks. Thinking that she would soon leave Li Wenlong and Baodong County, where she had lived for many years, Lin Xuemei felt like a huge stone blocked in her heart.

"Sister, i..." Li Wenlong got up and went over

"Forgive me, I really can't..."

Li Wenlong knew that at such a moment, what he said was in vain. Since he couldn't give Lin Xuemei anything, he simply didn't mention it again, because he really couldn't hurt Kong Jiayi.

"Well, stop talking. What do you think I'm doing?" He gently pushed Li Wenlong away, opened his bag, took out a piece of paper and wiped the tears on her face. Lin Xuemei resumed her true colors. "I'd better tell you more about the things in the circle. You know, people in the circle are not for themselves. Heaven will kill them. No one will tell you to take care of their hearts. Even if there is, it will certainly be utilitarian, otherwise, No one is stupid enough to pass on their summarized experience to others. Being in charge of the field is like playing magic. You can never know what the protagonist will change for you next. Therefore, if you want to mix in the circle, it is not enough to have the ability to see through the magic skills. You must also have rights, backers, money and power, You can control people who play magic. Even if you don't have power, if you have a big enough backer behind you, the backer will provide you with inside information. Of course, in a society where everything is money oriented, having enough money in hand can balance many things. Moreover, the three complement each other, especially between power and money. Of course, With all this, you may not be able to enjoy the person in charge field. If you mix in the circle, you have to learn to do whatever you want. It is particularly important that you can't pay the truth. This is a truth and the true meaning of the person in charge field. If you mix in the circle, few people can get a good return for paying the truth.

Some words can only be pointed to the end, not too clear. This is an unwritten experience in the circle.