Female CEO's personal driver

A man has a low requirement for his wife, that is, he can be "henpecked" at home and can become "kneeling at the head of the bed (cabinet)", but his wife should show respect for him in front of outsiders. Men have this vanity of saving face. The reason is very simple: if a man is known that he can't lift his head at home, he can only be a slave outside. Men often frown and have a headache when dealing with the roaring women, but in order to save face and get rid of embarrassment, men will say: "good men don't fight women, men don't see women in general." Men often lose things, but in order to save face, they are not ridiculed as "muddleheads". Instead, they will say, "it doesn't matter. The old doesn't go and the new doesn't come."

There is no lack of timid men, but these timid men are different in love. They will spare their lives for face. No wonder people often say: "men in love are the bravest." There are many stingy men, but when these stingy men shop, they will appear "atmospheric" for face, rarely bargain, and don't care about wronging money. No wonder people often say: "men are the most generous when shopping." Men love face. When they are tired, they should also be very relaxed, when they are weak, they should also be very strong, when they are unable to protect themselves, they should also be able to protect others, and when they are helpless, they should also be able to use endless methods. Men love face. They dare not rejoice when they succeed, sigh when they fail, cry when they are sad, and ask for help when they are at a loss

Therefore, as a woman, we must take this into full consideration. When considering a man's face, we should not say sympathy, but care. A man must not only take care of his face, but also his family. Society also has a set, and naturally takes into account men's face.

"Wear it. I've already bought it." Li Wenlong stuffed the bill into Lin Xuemei's hand. "Put it away. If there's anything inappropriate, you can come to her."

"Why did you just..." Lin Xuemei looked at the waiter behind her. "This is too expensive."

"As long as you like it," Li Wenlong whispered in Lin Xuemei's ear. "As long as you like, I can buy you anything expensive."

Although Li Wenlong's words are deceptive, I have to say that Lin Xuemei is still a little drunk, because this sentence is too destructive to women.

With boundless happiness, Lin Xuemei put Li Wenlong's arm on her arm, but she soon loosened it, because she had no way to take into account the influence. Who makes herself a public figure at least!

The evening meeting is arranged in a secluded farmyard. Current bosses don't like publicity, especially this kind of wine shop. The more hidden, the better.

Wine is good wine, and the food is planted by the shopkeeper himself in his own three-thirds of an acre, which also caters to the current boss's preference for green and pollution-free taste.

"Is everything on track?" On such private occasions, Xiao Yuanshan tried to put down his figure, but the smell of the superior was still coming out unconsciously. There was no way. People who had been in high positions for a long time were like this. Even if they wanted to hide it, they couldn't hide it.

"Thank you, boss Xiao, for your concern. Everything is OK. I'm waiting for the road to be built in the spring." Li Wenlong respectfully added wine to Xiao Yuanshan.

"Well, I've always remembered about you. Next year's plan has you there, and you can directly solve the situation in Lanshan county." Xiao Yuanshan knows what Li Wenlong said and the purpose of coming to find himself. Anyway, this kind of thing is to do things that go with the flow of human feelings. If you don't give them away, you don't give them away. Moreover, Lin Wanjiang told you this, Has the final say, but Xiao Yuanshan also needs the following attitude. The boss wants to be supported by the people below. He hopes to be pursued by the following people. This is what the boss will give you. He will do it for you. But when he does it, he can do it for you. Three days and five days are the same for him. It's also him after a year and a half. You can't find a higher boss for this time, can you?

It is precisely because of this that Li Wenlong asked Lin Xuemei to bring herself to find Xiao Yuanshan alone, in order to make the other party think about their own affairs and to enable the other party to allocate their own money as soon as possible.

"You haven't done what I told you last time, have you?" With Lin Xuemei, Xiao Yuanshan naturally wants to sell great favor.

"Well, i... I failed you." Li Wenlong lowered his head in shame. That time, Xiao Yuanshan gave himself a great idea, but he didn't grasp it well. It's really sorry for others.

"The past is over. It's OK at the beginning of the next spring, but the effect may not be so obvious. At that time, I'll arrange a deputy boss to go with you. You're like this..." Xiao Yuanshan has been at home this time. He told Li Wenlong many details in detail. For a man who has worked in national ministries and commissions, Naturally, the Tao in this is very clear, but Xiao Yuanshan will never tell all about it. After all, he has to leave some behind hands for himself. If the people below can do everything quickly, what else should he do? Then didn't he become a dispensable person? Therefore, bosses generally like to stay behind in handling affairs, and generally make subordinates think of him when they feel they can't.

At present, Xiao Yuanshan is the same. Although he told Li Wenlong all the steps and precautions, he still retains some things that only he can do.

During the banquet, Xiao Yuanshan tried to communicate with Lin Xuemei more, but Lin Xuemei always responded simply. She didn't talk too deeply about everything and always led her words to Li Wenlong, which made Xiao Yuanshan depressed and helpless. She had no choice but to meet Li Wenlong's requirements as much as possible, Finally, seeing that there was no hope to solve his own problems, Xiao Yuanshan let his mobile phone ring. After receiving the phone, Xiao Yuanshan got up and left.

"Eat quickly. Just now you were just drinking." after Xiao Yuanshan left, Lin Xuemei said to Li Wenlong with pity.

"No way, the wine table is like this, the boss ate vegetables, subordinates drink," Li Wenlong put a dish into his mouth and said to himself, "that's a good mouthpiece, can drink half a kilo of 82, so the staff should train, drink 82 drink half Jin, so the staff should be heart, can drink Baijiu, beer, the staff should be transferred, can drink beer, drink. The worker leaned aside

, can't drink, no future; One drink nine Liang, focus on training; Drink only drinks, not by the boss; Can drink but not lose, boss secretary; As soon as you drink it, your official position is difficult to be guaranteed; Often drink too little, talent is hard to find; Half run, promotion is still early; Lead the whole journey, future boss "

"Don't listen to that. It's all fabricated by others, but we can't despise it. Eating with the boss and having a circle dinner is not only a meal, but also a 'Bureau'. There is a lot of knowledge in what to say and do when participating in this bureau. Say right and do right, you may make progress; Otherwise, you may fall into a trap and shall not turn over. Dinner has been a way of social communication since ancient times. Eating and chatting with others can convey the message of "not seeing the outside" to each other. If you don't say what you want to do in advance and eat first, you won't have a sense of snobbery. If you don't drink first, you won't hurt your face. But in the face of different groups of people, what to say and do at dinner is also particular. Especially in the dinner with the participation of the boss, you should be especially energetic. After all, the boss has the right to decide your future and destiny.

Dinner is sometimes an important occasion for the boss to investigate the loyalty and social ability of his subordinates. At the wine table, ordinary people must pay attention to what they say and be careful when they encounter a minefield. Otherwise, it is likely to make the boss have bad views on you and even bring trouble to their future work and development.

It is said that the former boss of the supervision department made a mysterious speech at dinner and often had something to say. There is a young man in the office below. He doesn't care. He usually speaks very frankly. At a new year's party, the boss invited them to dinner. During the dinner, after drinking, the boss said that he could ask him any requirements and ideas. Unexpectedly, before others spoke, the boy began to pour out bitter water and say this and that. At that time, the boss didn't say anything and listened with a smile, but later he crushed the man, Obviously, he has the qualification of deputy general manager of the office, but he hasn't been able to mention it when the boss was there. I just solved the matter a while ago. At that time, I was relieved to see the man kneel down to me. Alas, to have dinner with the boss, you must first have a handle on your mouth. If you shouldn't say something, you have to hold it back in your stomach, otherwise disaster will come out of your mouth. Lin Xuemei played with the cup in her hand and began to instill circle rules into Li Wenlong.

"Well, I know," Li Wenlong stuffed a prawn into his mouth. "At dinner, we should learn to watch our words and act according to our circumstances. Well said," one sentence is worth ten thousand words ", something will happen and will be reused by the boss in the future. My uncle said that vice president Shen Jian was like this at that time. Although he had no special background, he was appreciated by the boss. When everyone eats with the boss, others are busy drinking and eating, but his eyes are always staring at the boss's every move. When the boss lit a cigarette, he would quickly hand over the ashtray. The boss wanted to toast, so he hurried to add wine. In addition, he will listen attentively when the boss makes an "important speech", show a knowing smile from time to time, and say a few flattering words at an appropriate time. It is precisely because of this that he can move from a real grassroots to a section level position. Otherwise, he may be a section member for a lifetime. "

"Alas, this is the characteristic of our country." Lin Xuemei inadvertently looked at the watch on her wrist. This action was seen by Li Wenlong and immediately accelerated the speed of eating. At present, she picked up a few mouthfuls of rice and put down her chopsticks.

"Sister Lin, let's go!" When talking, Li Wenlong's hand was unconscious

"Pay attention! What occasion is this? " Lin Xuemei hit Li Wenlong.

"Hey, hey, who has nothing to pay attention to this!"

"Lie down" pressed Li Wenlong to the bed and lay flat. Lin Xuemei said gently, "relax and close your eyes."

"Where did you learn the art of massage?" Li Wenlong asked with a smile.

"Close your eyes" Lin Xuemei reached out and closed Li Wenlong's eyes.

Close your eyes as ordered, and Li Wenlong enjoys the wonderful moment.