Female CEO's personal driver

The boss's secretary must have an overall and strategic way of thinking and thinking ability, think and seek what the boss wants, and consciously and actively resonate with the boss in thought. The boss is not a saint and can't listen to opinions at any time. To be a good consultant, you must have a "tacit understanding" with the boss. When giving advice to the boss, on the one hand, you should respect the boss's ideas. For the boss's decision-making, we should deeply understand its connotation and grasp the boss's decision-making intention. After careful consideration, you can put forward your opinions in the way of asking for advice to provide enlightening ideas for the boss, rather than competing with the boss in some aspect. On the other hand, we should take care of the boss's mood. When communicating and talking with others, a cultured person will always take care of others' mood and will, pay attention to discretion in speaking, so as to win the trust of others. As a well-trained secretary, it should be more so for the superior boss. We should not only think twice before acting, but also think quickly and clearly. Pay attention to the occasion, grasp the time, observe the face, and express your opinions tactfully.

Secondly, the essence of the boss secretary is to serve the boss. An excellent secretary combs all kinds of trivia in order by helping the boss properly deal with trivial affairs, so that the boss can draw himself out and concentrate on doing big things, so as to improve work efficiency and save working time. For the Secretary, this job is not easy. It requires the Secretary to develop good habits in his work. There is no trivial matter in the Secretary's work. A mistake may lead to irreparable losses. A mistake will also cause trouble to the boss's work, affect the overall situation of the work, and greatly reduce his impression in the boss's mind. This requires the Secretary to strive for high standards and strict requirements in the process of handling documents, meetings and affairs, strive for excellence, be meticulous, and strive to achieve the work goal of "zero error, zero error and zero defect". As a secretary, you should be honest, treat people sincerely, be loyal to your career, take peace and ambition as the principle of life, don't be happy with things, don't be sad, and put being a man in no way, because you are an accessory of the boss. Frankly, you are like a shadow of the boss. In many cases, You need to wait around the boss and be an unknown person. You can't be arrogant and domineering, especially for the boss's family or relatives and friends. You should act like a slave, just like Lin Wanjiang's secretary, although you are not inferior to Lin Xuemei in level, or even higher than Lin Xuemei to some extent, Moreover, some bosses, Department bosses and even senior officials have absolute face, but when facing Lin Xuemei, he is absolutely respectful. There is no way, because Lin Xuemei is Lin Wanjiang's daughter and Lin Wanjiang's close relative. You know, the premise for Lin Wanjiang to be a big boss is a person, a person with seven emotions and six desires, and a father, It's the father who loves his children. If you make his daughter uncomfortable, it's tantamount to making him uncomfortable in disguise. If you make the boss uncomfortable, can the boss make you comfortable? This is the simplest truth. Therefore, all those who serve the boss, without exception, worship the boss's family like their ancestors, in order to fear that the boss will be there

In some special moments, you hear bad words about yourself through your family. If you have extraordinary ability, it's OK to say. If you don't have any extraordinary ability, you can only rely on the boss, then you are advised to be honest, because the boss is not a saint and can't really completely separate your feelings from your work, As long as he is slightly mixed with a little personal feelings in his work, your little shoes will come overwhelming. Don't think this is an exaggeration. It is absolutely true in real life.

The two brothers of a family drive for the boss. The boss is happy, and the second is sad all day. One day, the boss drives to pick up the boss. This scene happened to be seen by the second brother. Then he pulled his brother aside. 'brother, am I right? Is this true? Your boss drives to pick you up. Our boss has never been able to. Even if the car is put in his garage, every time I run to their house and get the car out and wait for the boss. Brother, teach me. How do you get along? "

At this time, the second is already physically and mentally exhausted, and even faces the consequences of being opened by the boss.

"Want to learn!" The boss slapped his younger brother on the shoulder, "then buy a toy gun for your boss's little grandson today and let the little guy have fun."

"What? Buy a toy gun for his grandson? Why? " He couldn't understand the relationship between getting on well with the boss and buying a toy gun for the boss's grandson.

"It is said that you have the best driving skills in your unit?" The boss patted the second on the shoulder.

"Well, yes, how else would the boss choose me to drive for him?" The second son is very confident about this. He was born in the army and is very upright, but his driving skills are quite poor. There is no road he has not run in the prairie or the Gobi desert. It is precisely because of this that he was favored by the boss and became the boss's full-time driver, because the boss's life is precious and he is afraid of death, Naturally, I'm looking for a driver with excellent driving skills. However, it is precisely because of his honesty that the boss has always been very kind, so that the two very special roles of the boss and the driver are not so harmonious now.

"What you have now is such a capital, so do as I say. Remember, you must buy good things. Everything in the boss's house is good. Don't buy toys for three or five yuan as you do for your son. You must buy them for at least three or five hundred." My brother patted my brother on the shoulder meaningfully, "do this thing well first, and I'll tell you what to do with the rest later."

As he spoke, his brother gave him a meaningful smile, then got into the driver's seat just vacated by the boss and drove away.

Looking at the wisps of smoke from the muffler of the car, the second man fell into meditation. It seemed that he understood his brother's meaning. However, he still didn't turn that corner. He always felt that as a driver, what he needed was good driving skills, excellent thinking, and able to bear hardships. As long as he did all this well, he would be an excellent driver, But now, his brother's teachings seem to overturn his previous view. According to his brother, as a driver, he seems to have to curry favor with the boss's family first.

Although he couldn't turn the corner, he still found a large shopping mall nearby and bought a favorite toy for the hot children according to his brother's instructions. He watched the hundreds of pieces disappear on his salary card. The second child was very distressed. You know, his son has never bought hundreds of toys for him since he was born to three years old, Now this time, I'm going to pay five or six hundred yuan. I'm going to spend a month on vegetables. Don't you think it hurts? However, if you can really have a good relationship with the boss like your brother, it's OK

, you know, the boss is still young and there are still several years of good time. In the remaining years, if you can really mix up like your brother, do you still worry about the hundreds of dollars? Think about your brother, who is also the boss's driver. He can hardly spend his own money on other people's treatment and food and drink at home. Maybe this is not a normal phenomenon, but it is a familiar hidden rule. Follow the boss. As long as you deal with the boss, the boss will squeeze some from between your teeth. For the simplest example, On a business trip with the boss, it's impossible for the boss to buy one when shopping. Of course, there are also bosses who really buy one, but you can't blame the boss. It can only be said that you have a bad relationship with the boss. In most cases, the boss will take at least two copies. The driver swipes his card and pays the money behind him. When he comes back, he will be treated the same as the boss. In addition, the boss is very good at coming, During the Spring Festival, the boss will throw several VIP cards to him while solving some actual problems for him. It is also an affirmation of his hard service over the past year. With these extra money, the treatment at home is also different!

Look at the second guy. Although he can get some benefits on weekdays, he just takes back some remaining wine when he eats with his boss. The key is to live at home. What's the use of wine? You really have boxes and boxes. You can get it at home. If it's not nice to say, you can take it out and exchange some money. The key is that you take one bottle and two bottles. That's not enough to show filial respect to the elderly on both sides. Where else can you take it out and exchange money! Compared with the boss, the life of the second is quite tight. Basically, he lives on his salary. Therefore, when taking out these hundreds of pieces, the second is like cutting the meat on his heart. Can you say it doesn't hurt? However, thinking of the possibility of improving his relationship with the boss, the second man picked up his spirits.

Press the doorbell and it happened that the boss opened the door. When he saw the second man, the boss didn't have much smile on his face, just a simple sentence came, and then he turned around. At this time, the boss's three-year-old grandson ran over. The second man hurriedly presented the toy gun in his hand. Child, it's really nice. He thinks who gives him good things. At present, he called Uncle sweetly, Ah ah, yelling and shuttling through the rooms with the newly bought gun, the little grandson was happy, and the boss also showed a rare smile on his face. At the moment, he asked the second to sit down, so that the boss could ask him to sit down. The second was flattered. You know, this is the first time in the New Year!

The boss said something to the second in the car. For the first time, when the boss got off the car, he said something meaningful. When the boss closed the door, the second busy called the boss, "brother, it worked.".

"It works, doesn't it? Then you quickly go to the vegetable market and buy some fresh vegetables, meat and eggs and send them back to the boss's house. Remember, they must be fresh seasonal vegetables. The quantity of each kind does not need to be too much, but the variety must be complete. In short, everything should be used well, and don't be afraid to spend money, "the boss said solemnly.

"Brother, didn't I become a cook?" The second said reluctantly that this thing is no different from a housewife's nanny.

"Brother, if you can really be the chef of the boss's family, it's OK," the boss said meaningfully. "You have also been in the army. You know that the leader of the cooking team in the army is often easy to get ahead? Even the squad leaders and soldiers of the combat class are not necessarily popular with the squad leaders of the cooking class. Why? It's because the monitor of the cooking class has the capital to come. You think, as long as you squeeze a little out of your food and drink on weekdays, it's enough to send it to the company commander's instructor's house. In peacetime, the boss measures a person's ability not by whether you can fight, but by whether you will come. It's the same in society. Everyone goes to work and does work, Moreover, you know what's going on in public work. How can you be outstanding? That is, find a way to rely on the boss. As long as you rely on the boss and make the boss have an impression on you, it's difficult for you to be underdeveloped. Therefore, if you have a chance to get close to the boss now, take advantage of it and don't lose it, Let you buy some vegetables for the boss's house. What's the matter? To put it in a bad way, let you dig a toilet for their house. You have to go too. "

"Brother, I can't do it." the second is a little embarrassed. If it's acceptable to buy toys for the boss's little grandson in the morning, he can't buy food and drink for the boss's house now. People with his character really can't do well.

"If you can't do it, you'll wait to move!" Bang Dang, the boss hung up the phone.