Good Dad System

When Pei Naochun woke up, he was lying on a large white bed. Looking around, he could see the familiar decoration style. Most people who have stayed in star-rated hotels can see at a glance that this is the place Hotel suite.

He lay flat on the bed and rested for a while, and finally sorted out the memories in his mind. He was originally a director-level doctor. He was invited by many hospitals to do flying knives or participate in academic conferences all year round. In City S, he has to complete two guided surgeries for a local hospital before he can go back. At the same time, there is an academic conference sponsored by a pharmaceutical company, which bears the name of the society. As a professional member of the society, he was also invited to attend. Participation, like this, once you come out, you can only go back for half a week.

And today, this meeting has just started, and it will take two days to end, which means that he has to wait for two days before returning home. Pei Naochun holds the mobile phone in his hand, presses the screen to turn on the screen, and appears in the On the other side is a group photo of a family of four. This photo was specially taken at a local photography studio. It was taken in an ancient style. From large to small, they were carefully dressed up, smiling and looking at the camera. Anyone can have a good time between them.

But neither the original body nor Wu Fangfang, nor anyone around, could have imagined that half of the family would be scattered later.

In fact, this family does not turn against each other. Even if she is bitter, Pei Zihan has never really "hated" her parents and sister. She just learned to accept the facts and began to convince herself that most of the time, she She is the one who is not taken seriously in this family. She chose to leave, to some extent, with a bit of "revenge", but from another point of view, she is actually contradictory and yearns for her own life. Leaving will make the parents realize their importance, make them need to lift themselves up, and then regret and save her.

This is indeed quite contradictory to say, but it is indeed her voice, telling herself that it will be better to leave; on the other hand, she repeatedly expects that she will get the "attention" she has been missing for several years.

She recognized that her parents loved her, but she always felt that she was the one who would be given up in the two-choice choice-although this question was naive, it really lingered in her heart for a long time.

Pei Naochun just got up with his mobile phone to wash up. Last night, he completed an operation at the First People's Hospital of S City, from 8:00 pm to 4:00 am. Later, he accompanied him to hold a case analysis meeting, The leader of the hospital went to the hotel to fall asleep after eating, and didn't wake up until now.

[Wu Fangfang: Nao Chun, remember to buy gifts for the two children when you come back this time, Ziyu has been struggling all day! ]

The phone lit up and he received a message from his wife. Pei Naochun frowned when he saw it. Many memories belonging to the original body came to his mind. In the original body's memory, he brought a gift back this time, which also caused a lot of confusion. There was a big "gift storm", and it was so noisy that both the two children and the adults felt uncomfortable at home.

Things haven't happened yet, but preparations have already begun. Pei Naochun frowned, with a lot of troubles in his heart. The balance between the two children is sometimes difficult for adults to grasp. It's not One size fits all.

So, what is he going to do?

...

When it finally came to the end of the get out of class, the students flocked out. The parents at the school gate wished that they would become a giraffe, or that their children would have their own logo on their heads, so that they could become the brightest star in the crowd, but they were used to it. The parents of their children have long recognized the child at the front of the line. As soon as they see the little one, they can know at a glance who their children are at the back.

"Zihan, mother is here." Wu Fangfang held her little daughter with one hand and raised the other hand, and picked up the child from the teacher. A lawyer of her level should have more freedom in commuting time, otherwise it would just be a pick-up and drop-off. Two children are enough to make a person devastated.

Wu Fangfang and her husband have discussed this matter for a long time. The first plan is to send the children to the elderly and pick them up later. The elders in the family are quite happy. A precious granddaughter, but one is unbearable for a long time, and the other is that the two cannot live without the children at home. The second plan is to find a boarding teacher and ask the children to go home after finishing their homework, but this plan is also not feasible at present. There are many rumors about the kindergarten teacher being bad to the students and not paying attention to the food, etc., even if they are a little afraid...

The plans were proposed one by one, and they were rejected one by one. Finally, after hesitating for a long time, the couple decided, gritted their teeth, and carried the parenting tasks of the two daughters on their backs. Except for the busiest period of the two couples, they would take turns to pick up and drop off as much as possible, and at night. The homework guidance also divides and cooperates according to the busy situation.

But Rao is mentally prepared. In practice, it is enough to exhaust the two couples. Pei Zihan and Pei Ziyu are not too naughty children. Speaking of daily pick-up and drop-off - the hours of kindergarten and elementary school are not the same, homework guidance in the evening, teachers ask parents to check, sign, and recite homework and so on, while in kindergarten, there are often some manual work Homework, or new ideas full of whimsy; coupled with the fact that the couple's own jobs are relatively busy, they must both perceive frustration at the same time.

But no matter how frustrated they are, they can't have problems with their children. The couple gritted their teeth and survived day after day. The words that always comforted each other were the words on their mouths - no matter how strong they were, Just wait until the child is older.

Perhaps because of these, both Wu Fangfang and Pei Naochun felt that their temper was getting better and better over time, especially in the case of the two children. Patience bug.

Pei Zihan obediently followed behind her mother. The alley in front of the school was very congested. If the three of them wanted to walk side by side, it would be too much and would block other people's roads. Therefore, the usual method is for mother to hold her sister or It was holding my sister in front, and she followed behind.

The crowd was crowded. As a mother, Wu Fangfang was a little nervous subconsciously. She immediately turned to look at her daughter: "Zihan, you have to follow closely, grab your mother's clothes, don't lose it, you know?" She didn't have time to send Pei Ziyu back. At home, if you keep the child in the car and worry about something going wrong, even if it is a little difficult to hold someone, you have to bring the child.

"...Well, okay." Pei Zihan nodded, she stretched out her hand, and tightly grabbed the corner of her mother's clothes. As soon as she raised her head, what caught her eye was her sister's obediently lying on top of her mother. Pei Ziyu saw She raised her head, shook her hand excitedly, and reached out to hold a hand with her sister.

"Pei Ziyu, don't move!" As soon as Wu Fangfang noticed Pei Ziyu's movements, she was very helpless, and patted her daughter gently. The child is getting bigger and bigger now. It is not easy to hold, but it is relatively short. , She was probably worried too much, and she was always worried, but after a while, Ziyu grew taller and could easily lead her away.

"Okay." When Pei Ziyu heard her mother's words, she immediately lay on her mother's shoulder obediently, her eyes flickering, her body did not dare to move, she just looked down at her sister who was walking behind.

Pei Zihan didn't say a word, she moved forward silently, sometimes she felt that she must be a "bad boy", if she was a good boy, how could she be jealous of her sister?

But it’s really been a long time. They go out together, and it’s usually the younger sister who is being held. Although she also understands that “she has grown up” and shouldn’t rely on her parents like a child, she still feels lost and even I can't help but think, if there was no sister at that time, would the parents at this moment hold her hand and hug her to coax her every day?

Maybe, maybe not, but she'll never have a chance to know the answer.

Passing through the crowd, it was enough to make people sweat. The moment she got into the car, Wu Fangfang let out a relaxed voice. She looked back and saw that the two daughters had already sat obediently in the child seat, and they were there. In a daze, Wu Fangfang let out a sigh of relief and started the car skillfully, ready to drive home, but after driving for a while, she heard Pei Zihan screaming from behind.

Wu Fangfang almost braked suddenly. She was startled and looked back through the rearview mirror. Tears were already on Pei Zihan's face. She hurriedly asked, "Zihan, what's wrong? Why did you suddenly cry?"

Pei Zihan turned her whole body to the direction of the window, the seat belt didn't seem to restrain her, she struggled to keep her hands and feet away from her sister, and Dou Da's tears poured out drop by drop, everyone looked panicked, Pei Ziyu was holding a mineral water bottle with a dazed expression, maintaining the movement of delivering things forward, very helpless.

"Mom!" Pei Zihan couldn't help complaining, her voice was deformed because of tears, "Look at Ziyu, what did she take, tell her to throw it away! Tell her to throw it away?"

Wu Fangfang frowned. The road outside was a little crowded. There was a junction in front of her, and a car was turning out, blocking the people on the road. She could also take a little distraction to study the situation behind her. She narrowed her eyes. Noticing the mineral water bottle in Pei Ziyu's hand, but if she didn't turn around to take it, she really couldn't see what was inside, so she asked, "Ziyu, what is in your mineral water bottle?"

Pei Ziyu was a little confused and explained honestly: "It's a little snail, it's very cute! I caught it with my classmates!" The kindergarten she is studying in has some interesting courses, and the teacher will organize the students to raise all kinds of small animals , plants, including pets like silkworm babies and snails. Since she was a child, she was not afraid of cockroaches and snails that people are usually afraid of.

In this bottle, there are a total of ten snails, large and small, the largest is no more than a finger joint, and the smallest seems to be broken with a little force. They are crawling around in the transparent bottle. , If you are afraid, you will immediately be horrified and unable to move.

Since childhood, Pei Zihan was most afraid of all kinds of insects. Since she was a child, she looked cute like Yuxue, and she had pigtails. Whether in the community or in school, she was the most recruited boy." The type of "love", many little boys express their love in a very simple and rude way, such as grabbing pigtails and throwing small insects, basically they have come here. Through this special training, Pei Zihan's fear of insects has been carved into his bones, just look at it. When you arrive, you can jump three feet away, and you can't wait to have the insect repelling function.

Just got into the car, my sister suddenly stretched out her hand and handed over a water bottle, and said with a smile, "Sister, this is a gift for you." Pei Zihan just looked down, and then she lost her soul, and she couldn't get out of the safety seat for a while. Otherwise, she would have fled to the back seat long ago, but her sister still stretched out her hand. She felt that she could see the snail squirming inside as long as she opened her eyes.

"Why are you giving this?" Wu Fangfang also felt unbelievable, "Throw it away, this thing is useless."

Hearing her mother's words and looking at her sister, Pei Ziyu felt a little aggrieved. Tears welled in her eyes: "This is a gift for my sister!" She likes these little things very much, don't look at there are only a dozen snails in them , This was carefully selected by her and her classmates. You must know that not all snails have white shells. They named such snails together, called Xiaobai Snails. Only ten, she came up with such a bottle, she thought her sister would like it.

"I don't want it!" Pei Zihan replied sharply, she gathered up her courage, waved the backpack she was holding in front of her, and hit it on the mineral water bottle, trying to send this thing as far away from herself as possible, but with the sound of clattering , not only was the mineral water bottle hit directly on the ground, but there was also a small red mark on Pei Ziyu's hand, which was caused by the drooping strap of the backpack when waving it carelessly.

The pain in her hand, the little snail also fell to the ground, and Pei Ziyu, who was still holding back her tears, couldn't bear it anymore, her tears fell in a string, and she burst into tears: "It hurts - sister, you hit me. The little snail!" She didn't mention how sad she was, she worked so hard, she had saved several days of candy, and only entrusted a few classmates to help her. Not only did her sister dislike it, she even beat her!

The cries of the first two children were intertwined, one after another. Wu Fangfang in the front only felt that one and the other were big and almost collapsed. When the two children began to cry at the same time, she often had the urge to flee the scene. The noise of the car, and the sense of collapse that she couldn't think of a problem made her a little breathless, but as a parent, how could she escape, she rubbed her forehead and couldn't get out of the car, so she had to ask: "What's wrong? Say, don't cry anymore, come, Zihan, you talk first."

Named by her mother, Pei Zihan immediately sniffed and began to explain: "Just now my sister insisted on giving me a little snail, which frightened me. I saw the snail in the mineral water bottle crawling around, but she refused to take it away, so she took the schoolbag. I wanted to knock the bottle off and hit the snail on the floor, it seems that I accidentally hit my sister's hand."

"I see, that Ziyu, tell me, what's the matter?"

Pei Ziyu sobbed and rubbed her face with her baby fat hand: "The little snail is a gift I want to give to my sister. If she doesn't like it, she will destroy it." She subconsciously felt the pain. She asked her mother for help, stretched her arms and sent it forward, "My sister's schoolbag hit me, you see, it's all red!" She is not a child who likes to complain, but in front of adults, most of the children subconsciously think To talk about their grievances.

Wu Fangfang already understood the situation, and the car in front began to move. While steering the car, she tried to solve the problem for her two daughters: "First of all, Zihan, apologize to your sister first, look, you hit your sister. Now, my sister's hands are red, right? No matter what my sister does, how can you do it? What if you break your sister?"

Hearing this, Pei Zihan felt even more uncomfortable. Although she felt guilty about hurting her sister, she subconsciously wanted to justify herself: "I didn't hit me on purpose, it was accidental! And it was my sister who had to scare me first. !"

"Whether it's intentional or not, hitting your sister must be very painful, right?" Wu Fangfang tried her best to contain her anger. Before becoming a parent, probably everyone had good expectations for herself, and so did she. In the past, she used to She firmly believes that she will be a good and gentle mother, but after becoming a parent, she does find that there are too many times when children can easily ignite their parents' anger, and want this dormant volcano to erupt immediately. .

"Yes, but..."

"There's nothing wrong with it. If you beat someone, you have to apologize. You are four years older than your sister. Are you still bothering with your sister?" Wu Fangfang was helpless and angry. In her opinion, Zihan was a little older. , I should be more sensible than my sister, why do I hurt my sister, and I have to apologize so much, "You are a big sister, you can't let your sister, you have to care about her so much?"

In fact, Wu Fangfang herself did not realize that her behavior had deep meaning.

On the one hand, it is a universal concept. The older you are and the longer you are, the more experience, knowledge, and wisdom you have. There is a certain rationality for the elders not to care about the younger ones, and the older ones give up the younger ones.

But on the other hand, this also shows that people always subconsciously want to solve the "easier to be solved". Among the two children, the older one is usually asked to be more sensible, and the older person is also more sensible. If you can understand the truth, it is easier to analyze the ins and outs of things carefully and explain it clearly, and suppress the relatively big one to understand, compared to the child who does not understand.

Pei Zihan lowered his head and pouted: "But I'm very scared."

"Of course, my sister is wrong." The traffic in front began to move, and Wu Fangfang's attention was mostly on the steering wheel. "Ziyu, I can't scare my sister with these insects in the future. Do you know that my sister doesn't like them, did you hear me?"

"I heard." Pei Ziyu's hand didn't hurt much anymore, she wiped away her tears after a little rest, and just waited to pick up her little snail later.

"Zihan." Wu Fangfang called out to her eldest daughter again, frowning, and she felt that this child was particularly disobedient today, "Look, my sister knows that she is wrong, so you don't apologize to your sister, shake hands, and later Still good friends and good sisters, right? If you do something wrong, you have to admit it..."

Listening to her mother's ramble, Pei Zihan only felt confused. She was wrong, but isn't her sister wrong? Why did my sister just respond, but she knew she was wrong, and she had to apologize to her sister?

"Zihan!" After finally arriving at the traffic light, and finally being able to stop the car, Wu Fangfang turned around and grabbed the hands of the two daughters simply and rudely. Apologise and this is over."

"I'm sorry, I shouldn't have hit you." Pei Zihan answered in a low voice, she only knew that she was very sad.

"It doesn't matter." Pei Ziyu shook her sister's hand. She was carefree and really felt that it didn't matter. The pain just now was long forgotten.

Wu Fangfang didn't dare to look at it for a long time, she turned around and showed a satisfied smile - it's great, the problem is solved, and the two sisters can be as beautiful as before.

She couldn't help but reason while driving: "Didn't my father and I always reason with you? These brothers are united, and their strength is to go to one place. You two sisters are together. Being born in our family means that we are destined. How uncomfortable is it for parents to be noisy every day? Right, Zihan is a sister, you must be a good example, give more concessions to her sister, and take care of her more, Ziyu is a sister Yes, you should also listen to your elder sister and be a good younger sister, okay?" Similar rhetoric rang out about 18,000 times in this house, some people listened to it, and some people became more and more unable to listen to it. .

"Okay." Two non-overlapping voices sounded in the carriage, one was in high spirits, the other was depressed.

There is still a mineral water bottle lying on the black car blanket, and the snails in it are crawling around. Even if they are barely locked in the same water bottle, they are doing their own things. The sisters in the position, the thoughts at this moment are also completely different.

Pei Zihan was just looking at her fingers and chasing her hands together. She was very angry and sad, but she didn't know who to turn to. She still couldn't understand why she did the same thing, and she and The treatment of the sister is completely different.

It's because I did something wrong that I said I was wrong.

Or is it just because I'm the greater one that all the faults are mine?

...

On the night two days later, the house was brightly lit as always, and the children were finishing their homework. Wu Fangfang was looking at and writing her own paperwork. There was a sound of unlocking the door, and three pairs of similar eyes looked at the door at the same time. As expected, As soon as the door was opened, it was Pei Naochun who appeared there. He was holding the suitcase in his hand and looking at his favorite family members with a smile on his face.

"Dad, you're back." The first time Pei Zihan found her father, she immediately got out of the chair, looking very excited, but there seemed to be a gust of wind blowing in front of her, and a small cannonball hit her father's arms, it was Pei Ziyu, she was Rubbing against his father, he shouted happily, "Dad, where's the gift! What about the promised gift, I miss you so much!"