I am reborn and just want to concentrate on my studies

After school the next day, Yi Yang came out of Teacher Shen Xiaoding's office, picked up the old Nokia mobile phone, looked at the call records with his second uncle, and smiled slightly.

Now he is a real general student.

At noon, Wang Sangning told him that she and Jiang Lili had made a bedroom together last night and cleaned it up, and were waiting for him to officially move there.

After coming out of the office, he went back to the dormitory. At this time, Li Maoxin, Zhou Xiang and Wang Jie were all there. After seeing Yi Yang, Li Maoxin stood up first and said in surprise: "I heard Zhou want to say, you actually I have to go to day school... I really didn’t expect it!”

Wang Jie said: "I didn't expect that you have relatives in Hanning City."

Zhou Xiang said with some embarrassment: "Sorry, after you told me about this in the morning, I told them when we had dinner together at noon."

Have you had lunch together already? Yi Yang glanced at Zhou Xiang with the kind eyes of an old father caring for his silly son, and nodded happily.

Last night, Yi Yang forced Zhou Xiang to apologize to Li Maoxin. Of course, this scene was still a bit disgusting. In short, both of them were made blushing. The scene felt like a confession at one time, and Wang Jie's goosebumps stood up.

Men have a peculiar nature. After a fierce conflict over a trivial matter, the two parties will probably have a cold war for a period of time, and the relationship will drop to a freezing point. However, as long as one party sincerely apologizes, no matter what the cause of the conflict or how awkward the relationship was during the cold war, reconciliation will The relationship between the two parties will often go further in the future.

Now that the duo of Li Maoxin and Wang Jie have accepted Zhou Xiang, this matter has come to a successful conclusion.

And this is just a starting point. Zhou Xiang has some inferiority in social aspects, but other than that, he is essentially a person worth dating. Li Maoxin and Wang Jie also have a lot of minor problems, but they are very compatible with each other. , naturally compatible with Zhou Xiang, and even in the next two years or so, the relationship became better and better.

Yi Yang shook his head: "What's there to apologize for? It's not like I've said anything about my privacy, but I didn't tell you about it because it happened suddenly."

"Alas, the only brother in our dormitory who has good sleeping habits and doesn't snore or grind his teeth is gone." Wang Jie sighed deeply.

"You still have the nerve to say this, you are the one who snores the loudest in our dormitory, right?!" Li Maoxin said dissatisfied.

"Fart, it's obviously you!"

"Nonsense, Zhou Xiang, tell me, who is it?"

"Uh... uh... maybe it's me..." Zhou Xiang smiled.

"Well?"

"It depends on what you think about it, when will you have this kind of awareness!"

"Damn, you still have the nerve to accuse me..."

Seeing that they could get along smoothly, Yi Yang once again smiled like an old father.

There weren't many things that needed to be packed. Except for two quilts packed in a big bag, the rest was just a suitcase.

After the formal farewell, Li Maoxin suddenly proposed: "Thousand-year cultivators sleep on the same pillow. Let's live in the same dormitory. If we don't have a thousand years, we should have five hundred years. Let's get together as brothers, right?"

Wang Jie seconded the proposal.

Yi Yang thought for a while and said, "Okay, let's just have the weekend."

Zhou Xiang saw that it was inconvenient for Yi Yang to carry his things alone, so he took the initiative to help him get his suitcase. Yi Yang was not polite about this, and they walked out of the dormitory together.

Zhou wanted to say: "Thank you Yi Yang."

"Thank you too many times."

"ha……"

While walking, Zhou wanted to say: "Yi Yang, I really think you have a high emotional intelligence."

Yi Yang was slightly startled and smiled: "You really don't know how to praise others..."

"Hey……"

After a pause, Yi Yang turned serious and said, "But since you mentioned this..."

"What exactly is emotional intelligence?" Yi Yang glanced at Zhou Xiang.

Zhou Xiang was slightly startled.

There is no absolute connection between EQ and IQ, but EQ is definitely related to cognitive ability.

Zhou Xiang was naturally not the first person to praise him for his high emotional intelligence. Even in his previous life when he was doing poorly, someone had said similar things, but he did not take this matter to heart, and he never thought that he had emotional intelligence. How high is that?

But back to this question, is my emotional intelligence considered high?

Yi Yang recalled his previous life, whether he was a repairman or himself who had read a lot of books and had excellent grades, he seemed to have a talent...to understand other people's emotions.

Simply put, it is to capture the other party's emotional state, then analyze it a little, infer why the other party has such emotions, and finally predict what kind of interaction method will affect the other party's ability to produce what kind of emotions.

Although this is a kind of talent, if you think about it carefully, this ability is not static. The previous life was much worse than this one.

What causes this is the gap in cognitive ability.

From the perspective of understanding the emotional state of others, whether it is oneself in the previous life or oneself in this life, they all have stronger sensitivity than ordinary people. Many people in life are numb, even if their friends around them are already sad, or just He couldn't tell whether it was a false happiness or not. At this point, Yi Yang seemed to have an innate intuition, that is, he could detect the joy, anger, sorrow and joy of the people around him and sympathize with them.

But emotional intelligence is not limited to this. Many people can also detect other people's emotions, but more importantly, the ability to judge why others have such emotions. Otherwise, blindly paying attention to other people's emotions will be a waste of time. He has become a flattering personality like Yi Xiaoqing...

This requires you to have stronger cognitive abilities.

For example, if you do not recognize the pain of learning, even if you know that your child is tired of learning, you cannot understand why he is tired of learning, and it will be impossible to guide your child to not be tired of learning.

You don’t have to experience something personally, but you must be able to understand that thing from a higher perspective, so that you can think about the problem from the other person’s point of view, sympathize with his experience, and come up with an appropriate way of interaction... This is Emotional intelligence that Yi Yang understands.

At this point, the lack of reading in the previous life limited his vision, so even if he had the sensitivity to detect emotions, he could not develop high emotional intelligence.

So...you still have to learn.

Of course, learning is not limited to books. For example, his father, although he did not study much, entered the society early and did some big things. These processes are also accumulation of learning.

Walking to the school gate, Yi Yang said: "Emotional intelligence... To be honest, I don't know what emotional intelligence is, but I think you have to make yourself comfortable first..."

Zhou Xiang was slightly startled: "Huh?"

Yi Yang smiled: "If you have any similar troubles, I can help you analyze it and send it here. Thank you."

Zhou Xiang nodded: "Okay."

After Zhou Xiang left, Yi Yang waited for a while at the school gate. A Beetle slowly stopped in front of him. The window was rolled down. Jiang Lili said with some pride: "Since I drove the Cruiser last time, I will drive it again now." Little Beetle, I feel that the car is becoming more and more convenient, it is almost like the human and the car become one, hehe..."

Yi Yang nodded casually, "Sister, please stop the car first."

"good……"

Then Yi Yang lowered his head to carry the luggage, but just as he turned around, he heard a "Boom!" sound. He was stunned and quickly turned around, only to see the front bumper of the little Beetle hit the trash can on the side of the road. .

Yi Yang was speechless: "Human...man and car become one?"

Jiang Lili stared blankly ahead, pulling her hair painfully...

"hateful……"

…

Deng Zhoupo looked at his sister speechlessly and said, "Don't you usually like Malatang the most? Now you have changed your taste?"

Deng Wenxiao nodded: "I don't like spicy food recently."

Deng Zhou looked at his sister who seemed to be worried in silence, picked up a piece of potato slices, and said, "Have you encountered something sad?"

"No la……"

"Have your studies declined recently?"

"No."

"So your parents scolded you?"

"..."

"Also, your hairstyle has shocked me for a whole year. Didn't you vow not to cut your hair short at the beginning? Why now..."

Deng Wenxiao blushed a little. At this time, her waist-length hair had been cut to shoulder length. Although it was not particularly short, it was in great contrast to her previous image.

She thought about how Yi Yang would react if he saw her like this...

A little nervous, a little expectant.

"No, brother, please stop guessing." Deng Wenxiao said dissatisfied.

Deng Zhou sighed slightly, "I'll come back and issue a certificate that I can stay for three or four days. I originally said that I would take you to eat in a few restaurants, but you are in such a bad mood, I am not interested anymore."

Deng Wenxiao shook his head: "Don't just talk about me, let's talk about you... that, about becoming a high-level athlete..."

Deng Zhou smiled slightly: "Don't worry, I got the first-level athlete title last year. It's not a big problem to go to Qingbei. This year is mainly to train new people. I just follow the team to guarantee the bottom and get the top two."

"That's awesome, brother."

"Hehe, having said that, fortunately I didn't listen to my father's words and went to high school in Hanning City. With the basketball level in Hanning City, let alone the top two in the country, even the top eight is difficult."

"Although I don't understand this very well, our school has made great progress in the past two years. I heard that last year... it seemed that it entered the quarterfinals, right?"

"It's just luck. To be honest, I haven't even paid attention to your school. Last year, we beat you by more than 20 points! Did your school enter the regional competition again this year?" Deng Zhou said contemptuously.

Deng Wenxiao was a little unhappy and said, "Humph, I will definitely beat you this year!"

Deng Zhou was a little surprised. He didn't expect that his sister, who had never been interested in basketball, would defend his school so much. In the past, when he said that he would blow up the high school in Hanning City, she would just smile and say something like how great his brother is.

My sister has changed...

Deng Zhou was inexplicably sad.