Eight years have passed, he's still going strong, but his girlfriend is having a mental breakdo

My name is Liu Cong. My wife hid her debts from me when we married.

We met while traveling. She's beautiful, loves to travel, loves baking, loves coffee... I felt like I'd found my soulmate, and she was eager to marry me.

And so, naturally, we got married in a whirlwind romance.

After we got married, my family found her a job. Unexpectedly, right after our honeymoon, my wife burst into tears and confessed that she had overspent when she was single, hadn't planned her life well, and had ended up with over 20 yuan in debt.

I was stunned. I never imagined that my wife, who was so considerate in every way, would be in debt. After careful consideration, I realized that she was just a young girl who left her hometown to marry me and followed me faithfully, giving me her whole heart. I couldn't let her down.

So, I forgave her... or rather, I didn't blame her at all. The debt of over 200,000 yuan is a heavy burden, but I chose to face it together with my wife.

[But we've only been working for a short time and have no savings. My wife said her debts were urgent. So, I discussed it with my parents and asked them to help her pay off the more than 200,000 yuan.]

That was the end of it. Later, my wife became pregnant, and I was overjoyed to become a father for the first time.

To my surprise, my wife burst into tears again, saying that there was actually more than 100,000 yuan in outstanding loans, but she didn't dare to tell me for fear of upsetting me.

The loan of over 100,000 yuan has now ballooned to 200,000 yuan due to compounded interest. If it's not repaid soon, debt collectors will start calling everyone I know.

I feel like the sky has fallen. But life goes on. Especially with my wife pregnant, it's been really tough.

So I went back to talk to my parents, hoping they could give me money to pay off the loan.

My parents sensed something was wrong. This time, they didn't agree immediately. Instead, they told me to go home and ask if it was really just the 20 yuan they were short. Could there be more?

I was filled with anxiety. When I got home, I asked my wife, and she burst into tears, swearing again that it wasn't happening, and this time it really wasn't.

After confirming the details, I rushed to my parents' house. This time, they only gave me 100,000 yuan. They had already spent their retirement savings on my wedding over the past two years, plus the more than 200,000 yuan they gave me last time; they had no money left.

I had to borrow money from friends, plus some loans I took out myself, and scraped together enough to pay off the 20 yuan.

[I was under a lot of pressure this time, but thankfully my wife had tearfully sworn that we really only had 200,000 yuan in debt left. And after I helped her pay off the debt, she really has become much gentler.]

As long as we can make ends meet, the past hardships were merely trials to strengthen our relationship. My wife was too young back then, and I'm willing to share the consequences of the mistakes she made.

Fortunately, things are finally looking up. I've already paid off over 400,000 yuan of my wife's debts! But just a few months later, before the baby was even born, my wife tearfully complained that there's still 200,000 yuan in debt!

My wife's story is the same as before: she thinks she can pay it back by working hard, but she's afraid to tell me for fear of upsetting me, and she doesn't dare tell her parents either... which is why the debt keeps piling up.

This time, my parents were adamant: they didn't believe a word she said and told my father-in-law and mother-in-law about it.

The elderly couple clearly knew nothing, and they were devastated. But their daughter was pregnant and about to give birth; they couldn't abandon her at this critical moment.

The final agreement was that my father-in-law and mother-in-law, feeling sorry for their daughter, agreed to help pay off 100,000 yuan. My parents borrowed some from relatives and took out a loan for the remaining 100,000 yuan. The whole family did their best, and finally, we paid it off.

This time, my wife cried her eyes out, vowing to mend her ways and live a better life.

The following year was indeed peaceful, and the baby was born smoothly. Although the baby is quite ugly and doesn't resemble me much, the child is still young. I've heard that babies are often ugly when they're young, so I hope the baby will look better as they grow up.

But what happened next completely devastated me. One day, I came home from get off work and saw a deliveryman standing at my door. After asking for my identification, he asked me for money.

I asked why. The deliveryman said it was because my wife had borrowed 2000 yuan from him.

I'm furious, but I also can't understand why my wife would borrow money from a deliveryman.

I went home and asked my wife. She admitted that she had indeed borrowed it.

I'm completely baffled. Why would the deliveryman lend her money?

[Puzzled, I checked the security camera footage and discovered that while I was out, my wife invited the deliveryman inside, and he didn't come out until half an hour later...]

[Waaaaah...]

I think I might have been cheated on.

I really... I feel even more humiliated than Wu Dalang!

I ran to the small lake in the park and shouted at the water: "Who's your favorite rapper in China?"

I heard someone shout from the pavilion in the lake: PG-ONE

Then I heard someone shout from a small boat in the middle of the lake: "The celebratory wine is ready for you, but don't get too cocky. Sing every song well, and go back to Harbin to see your hometown folks!"

Thinking of Brother Liang made me feel much better.

I silently recited Liang Ge's name and got through the most difficult period.

It was Brother Liang who gave me the courage to live.

Then, while scrolling through videos, I saw a comment saying that when a woman cheats, it's either the first time or countless times.

[Under Liang Ge's video, someone commented that Sister Lu definitely has more than one girlfriend.]

A question arose in my mind. If Liang Ge is like this, could I be like him too?

So, I made some inquiries and found out that my wife had borrowed money from almost all my friends.

I was so angry I almost died! This time, I've completely lost hope in my wife... no! I've lost hope in my ex-wife!

I quickly divorced my ex-wife, ending the marriage. But what was the point? Money and feelings were poured into the bottomless pit of that marriage.

However, my wife wasn't going to let it go. During the divorce proceedings, she insisted on keeping custody of our daughter and then demanded child support.

She demanded an exorbitant five thousand dollars a month, and she kept arguing with me, leaving me exhausted.

What worries me even more is that my parents have suffered because of me. They are at the age where they should be enjoying their retirement, but they have squandered all their retirement savings and even taken out loans.

The elderly couple are both working now, sweeping the streets. And then, their ex-wife still frequently comes to cause trouble... I'm truly exhausted.

In a very short time, the elderly couple seemed to have aged more than ten years. They missed their granddaughter, but his ex-wife was using child support as leverage to deliberately prevent them from seeing her.