The Secret of Second Marriage

I said, "It's the fourth day since the apology video, Xue Fan, I am your wife Jiang Man."

After learning that you had an affair with Ms. Yang Yufei, I chose to move out with my daughter.

But in order to prolong your affair, you and your mistress actually had your mother come to the hotel where I was working on a business trip, verbally abuse me, and stab me. I almost lost my life because of it.

The betrayal in my marriage, coupled with my near-death experience, dealt me ​​a double blow, causing me to completely break down. In a fit of rage, I posted the video of you and your mistress having an affair online.

But this can never be an excuse for me to violate other people's privacy. Everyone's portrait rights and privacy rights should be protected by law.

Knowing full well that my spouse has questionable character, values, and morals, I shouldn't have posted the information about you and Ms. Yang checking into a hotel and making purchases for him online. I'm sorry.

I'm so sorry, I deeply regret it and I apologize to you here!

After I posted the video, I drove back.

I returned to the film set, and less than 10 minutes later, Xue Fan called me and said, "Jiang Man, we've been husband and wife, please don't be so cruel to me. I'm begging you, please don't post the apology video online."

You posted an apology video in front of our company today. Do you know how much damage your willful behavior will do to my and our company's reputation and structure?

I've already sent my dad to a nursing home.

I promise I won't bother you about this again. Jiang Man, can you please not be so cruel? Why go to such extremes!

All my classmates, colleagues, and superiors are paying attention to this. If it's not handled properly and causes a public relations crisis, I'm doomed.

No one in the industry will hire me anymore, Jiang Man. You've driven me to the point of having nothing. I won't let you get away with this!

Even if it means death, I will haunt you for the rest of my life... You will never be able to get rid of me!

"Xue Fan, we've come this far, ask yourself honestly, don't you have made any mistakes at all?"

You call me cruel, saying that when you were with your mistress and forcing me, did you never think about how desperate, how much pain, how suffocated I felt?

Stop saying one thing to one person and another to someone else, and stop putting on an act for me. I'm asking you, do you even have a shred of conscience, or feel that you've ever wronged me?

My emotions also fluctuated, and tears streamed down my face uncontrollably. After all, he was the man I had loved for 10 years.

It's truly a cruel joke of fate that we've come to this point.

If there is an afterlife, I absolutely do not want to meet this scumbag who broke my heart again.

Xue Fan remained silent for a long time, then suddenly sighed and said, "Jiang Man, everyone has two sides. One is an angel, and the other is a devil."

I am a hardworking, ambitious, and family-oriented man.

I admit that I am hypocritical in real life, a true villain, and a sophisticated egoist.

I'm the one who wronged you! After I achieved success, I looked down on you because you were just a housewife and wanted to abandon you.

It was I who schemed against you over money. I always thought you were a naive and innocent housewife.

You never manage the accounts, and you entrust me with the money with complete peace of mind, letting me handle social engagements outside. Everyone says I married a good wife.

I also thought I had married a good wife. Later, as my career progressed, I gradually became arrogant. All the leaders and wealthy people around me had multiple wives and concubines, and other women on the side.

I gradually started to feel dissatisfied. We've been through the seven-year itch. I'm exhausted from work every day, and when I come home, I have to pretend to be a good husband in front of you. Do you know how stifled I feel?

What I need is a young body and fresh excitement.

That day, when I went to pick up my daughter from her dance class, I saw Yang Yufei.

She was strikingly beautiful, had a great figure, and fair skin. Wearing a red dress for dance practice, she gave me a pure and pitiful feeling.

To be honest, her image is particularly attractive to men.

I admit I was initially attracted to her, and after a while, she added me on social media.

I didn't want to cheat on her; I just wanted to quietly watch her enjoy her peaceful life.

But when I went to pick up Tangtang that day, it started raining. She looked into my beautiful big eyes, hesitated, and asked me pitifully if I could give her a ride because it was raining and she had forgotten her umbrella.

I sneered inwardly, and that's how my husband got involved with his mistress.

Xue Fan continued, "Of course, there's also your reason. After a family has a child, the couple will experience a long period of adjustment in their sex life."

After you had Tangtang, you devoted all your energy to taking care of the child and doing housework. You were so busy every day that you were physically and mentally exhausted and lost your previous enthusiasm.

If a man doesn't have sex for a long time, he becomes very sensitive and finishes quickly.

As a man, I'm also a little dissatisfied. Besides, you don't care about your appearance to save money, and all you do is talk to me about which restaurant's produce is fresh, and what gossip the ladies in the neighborhood are talking about.

I had no interest in any of that. I met Yang Yufei, who said she admired me and wanted to be my confidante.

When I was on a business trip, I took her on a date and booked a very high-end hotel.

She was dressed exceptionally beautifully, both innocent and charming. You know, young girls like that have an irresistible allure for adult men like us.

That day I had a few drinks, and I gave her a beautiful diamond ring worth tens of thousands of yuan. She liked it very much and thanked me.

I was still clear-headed. She helped me back to the hotel. I was struggling internally. At that moment, I thought of my virtuous wife and lovely daughter. On the other hand, who could resist temptation? I wanted to be a beast and a devil.

We ended up having sex, albeit reluctantly.

After we finished, I saw a little red on the sheets. She told me it was her first time, that she had given me her virginity, and that I had to take responsibility for her.

I was restless and uneasy, but in the end, I couldn't resist the struggle of my conscience and chose to give her some money and never see her again.

Yang Yufei agreed.

She was different from other women; she didn't pester me...

However, ever since that day I've been completely lost and can't concentrate at work; I keep thinking about her.

As the ancients said, a wife is not as good as a concubine, a concubine is not as good as a maid, a maid is not as good as a stolen one, and a stolen one is not as good as one that cannot be stolen!

I endured this for over a week, but I couldn't take it anymore, so I called her again and asked her out. We went to a hotel again...

"Stop talking, I don't want to hear it anymore."

I know in my heart that, having come this far, this man is finally willing to be honest with me…

He said that simply to appeal to my emotions, to tell me about his shamelessness, his self-blame, his dilemma, and his struggle with his conscience and moral bottom line.

He wasn't the utterly wicked person I perceived him to be.

I asked him a stupid question that every woman would ask.

I said, "Xue Fan, did you ever truly love me?"

After a long silence, Xue Fan replied, "Jiang Man, I loved you. You may be a beautiful movie, but my life can't be just about watching one movie, you understand?"

"Alright, now that we've come this far, what do you want to do?"

I say.

Xue Fan suddenly said nostalgically, "If only we could go back to the past. We got married smoothly, had a lovely daughter, and our little family was living happily together. My career was also getting on track day by day."

I used to think that a simple, happy life would last forever. Until Yang Yufei appeared, igniting the excitement and impulse within me.

Man, I suddenly feel that this kind of extramarital affair is playing with fire. Yang Yufei, you are not the pitiful, kind, and gentle person I first met.

She's getting more and more involved, and her desire to control me is a thousand times, ten thousand times stronger than yours.

Even if I regret it, there's nothing I can do. We've been husband and wife; let's not fight anymore.

Man, let's part amicably. I agree to the divorce. See you at the Civil Affairs Bureau tomorrow. You can come and discuss the terms; you need to take down all your apology videos, okay?

I'm begging you, I really don't want to be ruined... please?"

Let me think about it.

I never expected my husband to beg me so desperately over the phone, crying his eyes out.

I still have a little bit of lingering affection for him.

It wasn't because I loved him, but because he was, after all, the father of my child, and for my daughter's sake, I didn't want to kill him.

Moreover, if I really lose his job, ruin his reputation, and he can't make money in his career, and then he keeps bothering me, that would be real torture for me.

My career has just started to improve.

I'm going to believe in humanity this time. Maybe my husband and his mistress really do realize their mistake.

While I was in silence, his phone rang again.

He said, "Wife, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I was wrong... You can hit me, scold me, whatever you want, just don't keep apologizing online, those videos have already gone viral."

The company leadership gave me an ultimatum: if I didn't resolve the issue by noon, my career and future would be completely ruined.

I know I cheated on you, I'm so sorry. I can give you custody of Tangtang, I can give you the house and all the money, I just want to save face one last time, okay?

"Xue Fan, swear you're telling the truth. If you dare lie to me, may you be struck by lightning, sent to hell, and never be redeemed!"

I say.

Xue Fan swore an oath as I requested.

I said, "I can let you off this time. See you at the Civil Affairs Bureau at 8 a.m. tomorrow."

"Okay, Man, whatever your request is, I'll sign it."

My husband, Xue Fan, said this with utmost sincerity.

After I finished negotiating the terms with him, I was about to click the button to delete the apology video, but for a moment, out of a sense of caution, because I had been deceived by my husband and his mistress more than once.

When a marriage is on the verge of collapse, a wise woman should not believe crocodile tears.

Now is the time for me to have the upper hand and to talk to my husband about divorce. I can't just completely trust this scumbag like this.

So in the end, I chose to hide those apology videos instead of deleting them.

In order to better negotiate the divorce, I even hid all the videos and set my account to private, hoping to calm things down a bit.

My husband saw that my account was now private and sent me a WeChat message saying, "Honey, thank you so much this time. I'll remember this kindness."