No Regrets In Flourishing Tang

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Li An is definitely a charismatic person. No matter from which angle he looks, he is very charming. The character is needless to say, the appearance is also first-class, and the temperament is unmatched by the average person.

For some superficial people, looks are the most attractive places. They only like people with beautiful looks, but completely ignore the flaws behind this beautiful look.

For example, the cosmetic fever in later generations is because almost all people attach great importance to appearance. People with good looks will have a better future, while people with bad looks will be rejected by everyone, and the appearance has even become a person. The shortcut to success, especially for women, is that a beautiful woman is always easier to succeed and better luck than a woman of average appearance.

In fact, this method of judging a person based on one person’s appearance is very undesirable and superficial, but most people in the whole world are superficial, which is an indisputable fact.

Of course, after all, overwhelming majority people judge things by their eyes, and all they can see is their appearance, and their eyes can’t see their heart.

Some people may say that a person with a good-looking appearance may be dark in his heart. So, a person with a bad appearance must be sunny in his heart? This is probably not necessary.

And since a person’s heart can’t be judged, at least he should like a beautiful one! After all, character and heart can be disguised. A person with an ugly appearance, 10000 is disguised as noble, so wouldn’t it be a big loss for those who like him.

People who like appearance are undoubtedly the largest number, and follow closely from behind are people who like money and power. Some people especially like to make friends with rich and powerful people for the sake of life.

Many young little girls of 17-18 years old will choose to marry the old fogey of fifty-sixty years old. Of course, these old fogeys are not ordinary old fogeys, but highly eligible bachelor with money and rights. They are very rich. , There are some people who have great power, they can make a little girl struggle for few decades with just one sentence, so these little girls are of course unwilling to follow the young man’s hardship, follow these rich and powerful old Foggy, how happy should be.

This has also caused many young men in later generations to find their wives, the reason is too simple, that is because they have no money, nor have the power to make themselves rich, they are in poverty all their lives, and it is already not easy to live. Where is it possible to give a woman the quality life she wants? This is simply a fantasy story.

Looks will add points to a person, and money and power can add points to a person. Maybe a person is old and ugly, but especially rich, so some people will feel sick in their hearts, but for power and money, they will also The choice simply swallowed this nausea.

A slightly smarter person will choose to look at a person’s character and judge what a person is from the person’s character.

So, what exactly is character? Moral character refers to a person’s moral character. For example, this person is very kind, the character is very noble, and transfers positive energy to the society. This can indicate that this person’s moral character is very good, otherwise it is bad character.

Li An’s character is of course very good. At least, Li An’s character is absolutely first-class and can’t be matched by anyone.

The ancients said that good and virtuous means that as long as people have good virtue, they ca n’t bear anything. On the contrary, people ca n’t achieve major events without great virtue, which is to tell future generations to be willing to take losses and think more about others. In order to achieve a career, at the same time, good virtue is a blessing, be kind and kind, in order to be respected by others.

Kindness, of course, is also a very important character of a person. Kindness is a key element of good character. People must always have a grateful heart before they can make people admire. There is a famous saying in ancient times. All respect, Heavenly Dao bless it, Fulu follows, all evils far away, Spiritual God Weizhi, the heart starts from goodness, although goodness has not been done, and the Jishen has followed, the heart starts from evil, but evil has not, The fierce god has followed. ‘

Therefore, it is necessary to be more kind-hearted and to be more charitable. Only in this way can we be frank, be normal and not lose heart, and be afraid of knocking on Realm in the middle of the night.

Another aspect of character is also very important, that is, trustworthiness. As the ancients said, people are not trusted, but they are unknown. If a person does not have credit, he ca n’t do anything well. The interaction between people is the key. It is about credit. The ancients regarded trustworthiness as one of the most important behaviors of being a person. Ou Sheng breaks the blue bridge for the soul of love, and Zeng Zi kills the pig for his son in one sentence. If people don’t talk about credit in society, no one will be willing to interact with them, nor will they win the trust of others.

Tolerance is also an important aspect of evaluating a person’s character, as the saying goes: “Tolerance is great”. People must have a tolerant heart and be able to tolerate things that are hard to bear in the world. We must learn to tolerate people who disagree with us, especially those who contradict ourselves.

Tolerance of others actually loosens their own hearts, otherwise, it will only pressurize their own hearts, and it is still themselves who are affected. To admit the difference between people, look at the strengths and strengths of others, tolerate the deficiencies of others, and divided into two to treat others. In all competitions, 2 defeats and concessions 2 gains.

As the saying goes, “take a step back to the sea and the sky”. In the Department of Rites in the Qing Dynasty, Zhang Ying responded to a letter from his relatives about the dispute with the neighbor ’s boundary wall, and returned a letter like this: “Repairing the book in 1000 is only for the wall, so let him be a few feet, ten thousand li Still there, I do n’t see Qin Shihuang. ” This is how tolerant Realm is.

Honesty and humility are an indispensable part of character, but sometimes it ca n’t be too dogmatic. If a person looks very ugly, you directly say that he is ugly, it ’s very bad and should come. White lie.

Since ancient times, honesty is the foundation of standing, and honesty is a virtue. No one is sincere and cannot be friends. “If you want to be a great leader, you must be honest.” Only by being honest and obediently and honestly can we win the respect of others and gain a firm foothold in society. We treat jobs the same way. Whether it is reporting work or reflecting problems, we must seek truth from facts.

Modesty is an important part of good character. The ancestors of later generations once said: “Humility makes people progress, and pride makes people fall behind.” Whenever you look down on yourself, it is always a good thing, on the one hand, it is conducive to your progress, on the other hand, it is conducive to getting along with others. The ancients said, “No matter what you do and the others, there can be no snobbery, no matter what industry you are studying, you can never have a rough heart.” Do anything, don’t always think of your virtue, it is indispensable, this is not good, it is easy to make people hate. Everyone loves humble people.

The last point of character is integrity. A person may not necessarily be a great person, but he can be an honest person. Those who are upright must first act with conscience. The braided king Wang Yongbin has a cloud: “Pray for a conscience to manage me, and leave some room to be a man”, which is the reason. The officers can all proceed from a conscience, that is definitely a noble person, an upright person. People must also have correct concepts of right and wrong, and they must have their own opinions when encountering problems. They can never be hello, me, or everyone. It is necessary to uphold the truth, not to say that wrong is right because of a good relationship, or to say that right is wrong because of a bad relationship.

Regarding character, Li An never thinks that his character is bad, but compared to these requirements, Li An found that there are not many qualified projects. After all, there are too many requirements for character, and, Some requirements are too dogmatic. If it is mechanically operated, it is easy to do bad things with good intentions. Moreover, if it is too dogmatic, the whole person will soon become a robot, and it will become meaningless.

Li An is afraid to pursue a particularly noble character. However, what best reflects a person’s charm is actually a person’s temperament. In other words, the better a person’s temperament is, the more popular he is.

So, what is temperament? Temperament refers to a person’s relatively stable personality characteristics, style and temperament. Enthusiastic, chic and generous people often show an unrestrained temperament, quiet personality, gentle people, mostly show noble temperament, straightforward personality, spicy and bold people, mostly show rough temperament, but gentle personality The beautiful and dignified people mostly show quiet temperament.

Regardless of being clever, noble, rugged, and serene, they can give people a sense of beauty. On the contrary, they can only make people feel disgusted by being tricky and mean, lonely and solitary, and despicable.

In real life, there are many people who only pay attention to dressing, and do not pay attention to the feeling of their temperament. Indeed, beautiful appearance, fashionable clothing, and careful dressing can give people a sense of beauty, but this appearance Beauty is always short and superficial, like a meteor in the sky, fleeting. If you are a caring person, you will find that the beauty of temperament is not limited by age, clothing and dress.

A person’s true charm is mainly due to his unique temperament, this temperament is attractive to both the same sex and the opposite sex, this is an internal personality charm.

The beauty of temperament is first manifested in the rich inner world, and the ideal is an important aspect of the inner richness, because the ideal is the motivation and goal of life. Without the pursuit of ideals, the heart will be empty and poor. Another important aspect of beautiful temperament.

Being sincere, kind-hearted is indispensable. The cultural level also affects the temperament of people at a certain level. In addition, it must be open-minded and open-hearted.

The beauty of temperament seems intangible and actually tangible. It is expressed through a person’s attitude towards life, personality characteristics, words and deeds.

Everyone is pursuing beauty, pursuing beauty without misunderstanding beauty, blaspheming beauty, which requires each of us to understand the true meaning of beauty from life, combining beauty appearance and beauty temperament, beauty morality and beauty language to show Beautiful temperament from the inside out.

Of course, the beauty of temperament also requires a certain economic basis. If you are living in a very poor life and every day is tired to fill your stomach, then it is very difficult for this person to maintain temperament. How can a person who is anxious to walk has temperament? It can be said that how can a person with financial difficulties not walk faster? If you go slowly, how can you still work and earn money to support yourself?

Li An’s temperament is of course first-class, because Li An is rich enough and smart enough, no matter what he does, he does not need to be too impatient and can maintain his good image very well.

And this is not easy for people with low status. The low-ranking soldiers ca n’t wear gorgeous clothes, have no time to dress themselves up, and do n’t have the opportunity to improve themselves. They can only stay in that way, but Li An Can live a very leisurely life, not what they can compare.

Therefore, a person’s temperament is also related to his identity. Different identities will inevitably have different temperaments. Officials will have official temperaments, working people will have working temperaments, actors. There will be the temperament of an actor, the soldier will have the temperament of a soldier, and the temperament emanating from a person can often determine the identity of a person.

Of course, this is what it looked like in ancient times, and it ’s not very accurate in later generations, because people in the later generations will pretend to be, obviously a poor person who is almost unable to eat, but he has to disguise himself as a rich man, obviously a village woman , But he has to dress up as a princess, obviously an unemployed wanderer, but he has to make himself look like a rich boss, that is to say, from a person’s appearance, he can no longer see his identity, let alone It is very miraculous to tell whether a person is rich or poor, and it is also a phenomenon unique to later civilizations.

Li An remembered that in the Great Ming Dynasty, Imperial Court had regulations. People of different identities must wear different identities. Dragon robe can only be worn by Emperor. What kind of clothes do ministers of different ranks wear, and merchants have the lowest status Therefore, it is not allowed to wear gorgeous clothes, otherwise it would be illegal and subject to punishment.

And there will be no such problems in the civilized society of later generations. Everyone can wear clothes according to their own preferences. Even if you wear dragon robe every day, exactly the same as the country ’s number one leader, there is no problem, there will be no Anyone who comes over to prosecute you will not give you a crime. The benefits are also obvious. Society is more equal, at least in terms of clothes.

And this also caused the problem of not being able to tell a person’s identity with clothes, because everyone’s clothes can be worn casually, except for some special industry uniforms.

Li An ’s narcissistic behavior not at all made Li Xiaolu disgusted, but made her feel more attractive. After all, Li An ’s identity and face value, character and temperament are here, no matter from what angle See, they are incomparable by ordinary people. Even if they say something that should not be said, it is normal.