Siheyuan: You were asked to help the Jia family, but you were all sent to prison

If things go on like this, Yu Haitang will be happy before the event, pain, happiness, pain, happiness, pain... and so on, and suffer a lot.

A cheerful, lively and active young girl is likely to become depressed, taciturn, and indifferent to anything.

In this regard, Zhao Yang cannot sit idly by, after all, it is because of him.

But he couldn't tell Yu Li whether it was Haitang's self-teaching or the necessity of enlightenment.

Zhao Yang sighed, it seemed that he could only fight in person.

"Forget it, I'll go tell her!"

"You go to the cellar to clean up later, it's a bit messy inside."

After making arrangements for Yu Li, after washing the dishes, Zhao Yang took Yu Haitang into the back room.

"Brother-in-law..."

Yu Haitang crossed her hands in front of her and sat on the edge of the bed, both puzzled and ashamed.

If she knew that Zhao Yang saw her doing something with her hands last night, she might have run away long ago.

Zhao Yang was organizing his words, but before he could start, Qin Huairu's voice came from outside the door.

Is to come to do good.

Zhao Yang went out and said that there was no need for help in her family today, and asked her to go to another house to see.

After sending Qin Huairu away, he went back to the back room and sat down on the wooden chair.

"Hai Tang, there are two major themes in life, do you know what they are?"

"What is it?"

"Survive and reproduce."

"The former protects the latter, the latter stimulates the former, and the two complement each other."

Yu Haitang listened thoughtfully, "Survival is to ensure reproduction, I can understand this, just like men want to earn more money and have a better status to marry more beautiful women, and women are also the same. I want to marry a man with better conditions."

She shook her head again, "But I don't understand what the phrase reproduction stimulates survival means."

"It can also be interpreted with the metaphor you just said, so I said that the two complement each other."

Zhao Yang finished speaking with a smile, feeling that his sister-in-law did not study well, but she has a certain understanding of society.

Yu Haitang pondered for a while, and then his eyes lit up, "Brother-in-law, I understand."

Throwing bricks and attracting jade went smoothly, and the atmosphere became harmonious, so Zhao Yang guided the rhythm into the second stage.

"Haitang, whether it's what I just said or your metaphorical interpretation, they are based on the social rules of the modern background. Have you ever thought that in ancient times, when there were no classes, primitive people were also ignorant?" , How do they survive and reproduce? How do they complement each other?"

Yu Haitang thought, "It can be applied. Women will marry strong men who can hunt. Men will desperately want to hunt for food in order to get women."

Zhao Yang asked the key point: "But they were ignorant at that time. Who told them this? Who guided them to live according to the two themes of survival and reproduction?"

Yu Haitang got stuck, and shook his head to express his ignorance.

"It is the survival and evolution of nature that has created the body structure that human beings can surely reproduce!" Zhao Yang further explained, "So whether it is a man or a woman, they will feel happy when they reproduce!"

"If there is no happiness, and it is so painful for a woman to give birth to a child, why does she want to reproduce?"

"This is not enough. In order to ensure that women are willing to reproduce, nature not only increases happiness, but also lowers the upper limit of women's physical strength. Therefore, men are stronger than women and can survive better. Women can only rely on men to survive. And the price of attachment is to give birth to a man."

At this moment, Yu Haitang suddenly understood why her brother-in-law and sister were so happy about it, and why they were so happy last night.

But she soon became suspicious, "It was like this in ancient times, but if a woman could support herself, would she not have to depend on a man and have children?"

Zhao Yang nodded, "That's right, it can be like this, so 2000 years ago, someone designed a set of cultural concepts to ensure that no matter what a woman is, even if she can support herself, she should be urged to start a family and reproduce."

"Think about it, if a woman works in a steel rolling mill, her salary is enough to ensure her survival, but can she choose not to have children? Yes, it is true, but this set of cultural concepts will make parents, relatives, friends, Colleagues... exert endless drive to urge you to start a family and reproduce."

This was like enlightenment, as if she had discovered something frightening, Yu Haitang's face turned pale.

"You mean..."

"That's right, otherwise he would be regarded as a saint?"

"You don't need to be alarmed, because the set of cultural beliefs is true."

"It is because the sage designed this set of cultural concepts that our nation has survived until today. You can see that the other three of the four major civilizations have been cut off. Only we are still there, so you can know it."

Chapter 170: Dangerous Situation Notice, Tiger Hurts People!

Zhao Yang put his heart into it.

In order to guide Yu Haitang, he directly chose to let her see through the essence of the relationship between men and women, instead of popularizing physiological knowledge first.

Let her understand why she is happy and why she needs to reproduce.

Let her understand that if after using her hands, she develops knots, regrets, or feels guilty and inferior, it is entirely due to cultural concepts.

Knowing this, Yu Haitang must be able to face the matter of using hands correctly.

But next, it's time to popularize physiological knowledge.

You can't let her fall into the vortex of using her hands and can't extricate herself, it's easy to hurt her body, isn't it.

"Didn't I just say that evolution has created a body structure that humans can surely reproduce!"

"Let me elaborate on this point."

Yu Haitang nodded, although she looked serious, but her mind was a little wandering.

Zhao Yang started from shallow to deep, and his words became more and more straightforward.

Noticing Yu Haitang's shyness, Zhao Yang smiled and said, "Look, the reason why you are shy is that cultural concept is at work."

"In fact, we should face this knowledge correctly, understand it, and accept it. Next, let's put aside the cultural concept and ignore it."

Zhao Yang was calm, even though he had a relationship with the second aunt, which tore a hole in his moral code.

But for Yu Haitang, he was really not interested, let alone impulsive, not just a sophomore in high school.

Who would have thought that Yu Haitang seemed to have opened her heart, and actually took the initiative to tell Zhao Yang what happened last night.

After finishing speaking, she instinctively felt ashamed, but then realized that cultural concepts were causing the trouble, so she quickly adjusted.

"It's nothing, but you have to know how to control it."

"Otherwise it will hurt your body too much, you will lose your hair, your skin will be dull, and you will be listless..."

Anyway, no matter how serious it was, it became particularly ugly.

Yu Haitang let out an ah, feeling a little depressed.

But then he cheered up again, and his eyes sparkled.

Today is Sunday.

After twelve o'clock in the evening, isn't it next week?

At this moment, Yu Haitang's voice suddenly sounded outside, it was He Yushui.

The two hurriedly adjusted and walked out.

"Haitang, let's go, let's go to Shichahai!" He Yushui invited Zhao Yang again, "Brother Zhao, do you want to go play together?"

Zhao Yang shook his head, saying that he would not go and let them have fun.

Shichahai is said to be a sea, but it is actually a lake, divided into Qianhai and Houhai.

Qianhai is near Nanluoguxiang, so the children in the courtyard often go there to play.

Yu Li walked in at this time, and told the two to be careful and not to play on the ice where there are many people.

She still has lingering fears about the last time Jiang Ling and Jiang Jing broke the ice and fell into the water.

"Then let's go, Yushui, let's go." Yu Haitang couldn't wait to pull He Yushui out.

Seeing this, Yu Li blinked, and adjusted so quickly?

Zhao Yang also blinked, slightly dazed for a while.

This Haitang will not tell He Yushui what she just learned, will she?

Especially the self-taught mastery of this....

If He Yushui has learned it, will the lilies bloom by then?

Oh my god, young birthday!

"Brother, what did you tell her?"

"Uh, well, I just popularized the knowledge of physiology, and then she told me that I could teach myself with my hands last night... Then I told her to be restrained, not too often..."

Yu Li was dumbfounded.

You don't treat your brother-in-law as an outsider at all!

No matter what, the matter of Yu Haitang was finally settled, and Zhao Yang relaxed physically and mentally.

Afterwards, he dug out a copy of "The Legend of the Shushan Swordsman" by Huanzhu Zhuzhuzhu from the box, and then moved the reclining chair to the door, and read it with relish while basking in the sun.

Yu Li was washing clothes. The man's clothes smelled of alcohol and tobacco after eating last night, as did her clothes.

"You still live comfortably!"

"What book do you read?"

Suddenly, a slightly familiar voice resounded in Zhao Yang's ears. When he raised his eyes, it turned out that Chen Yue had come to him at some point.

She was wearing a bright red long coat with a narrow waist, a shoulder bag, and a mink hat of the same color. From a distance, she looked like a blooming jasmine flower.

"Why come here and hang around when you are free, and convey the notice?"

Zhao Yang closed the book, gestured to him, and asked with a smile.

The end of the year is approaching, and there are a lot of things going on. If there is any disturbance from above, the street office must convey the spirit and grasp the gist.

"It's to convey the notice. The situation is quite serious. Is the first master of your hospital, Liu Haizhong, at home?"

"Okay, I'll call you over." Zhao Yang got up and asked Yu Li to make a cup of tea.

"Just drink a whole mouthful of warm water. After running for several yards, I'm exhausted."

After she took the glass of water brought by Yu Li and finished drinking it, Liu Haizhong on the opposite side followed Zhao Yang.