Siheyuan: Why does your brother beat you up every day, Shazhu?

"There's no difference in my love for my brother or sister!"

“I just express it in a different way.”

"Just imagine, with Zhuzi's current stubborn temper, if I were to treat him with the same gentleness I used with Yushui, would it work?"

"Then he must go to heaven?"

"On the other hand, if I were to use the same ruthlessness I used on Yu Shui, wouldn't that just destroy her?"

"My purpose and original intention, from the beginning to the end, was to make the pillars and the rainwater live better!"

"As the eldest brother, I am willing to sacrifice everything for them and treat them 100% well!"

"So if I beat up Zhuzi, he will only be afraid of me, but he won't hate me!"

"Why? He's been like this since he was a kid! I take care of him at home and I protect him outside!"

"and you?"

He Weiguo looked at Liu Haizhong and his tone became serious:

"You're different. Your starting point wasn't fair from the beginning!"

“So your standards and rulers are crooked!”

"How can you convince the two little ones to do this? Will beating them alone be enough?"

"You only know that they are wrong and need to be beaten, but you never think about how to correct them or how to guide them onto the right path!"

"If they're beaten too much and their skin is bruised, they'll just hold back and become more rebellious!"

"And if they're just beaten, they won't understand why they're being beaten. They'll just be afraid, not convinced, let alone change for the better!"

"In short, in short," He Weiguo concluded:

"Fighting is the last resort, a means, not the goal!"

"We need to teach and guide more often, and pay more attention to and care for them."

"If you want your child to become a better person, your original intention should be to make him feel that you are doing this for his own good! You didn't do this."

As soon as these words were spoken, the table fell into complete silence.

Liu Haizhong's mouth was open, looking a little stunned.

He had lived most of his life without ever pondering these principles.

But He Weiguo's words really hit his sore spot.

He is indeed partial to the eldest brother, so it is difficult for him to be fair in handling things.

When encountering a problem, his first reaction is never how to guide the children to understand the truth and correct their mistakes, but to simply and rudely beat them if they don't obey!

Such an effect, as He Weiguo said, can only be counterproductive.

It turns out there are so many twists and turns here...

It seems... that's really the case?

No wonder Shazhu can change so quickly...

The two brothers Liu Guangtian and Liu Guangfu secretly exchanged glances, feeling mixed emotions.

They looked at He Weiguo with some gratitude.

Brother He is such a nice person, and what he says really makes sense!

Although... they are all a little envious of Shazhu now.

Although Sha Zhu was beaten harder than them, his elder brother was right!

The beating was done with genuine intention of doing him good.

Sha Zhu was sitting nearby, listening to his elder brother's words, and felt deeply touched.

To be honest, he usually felt a little aggrieved, thinking that his elder brother seemed a little partial and that he was always beaten.

But he understood better than anyone that his elder brother was really good to him!

This is also the reason why, although he was afraid of his elder brother, he never really held a grudge against him.

It has been like this since he was a child. If he was bullied outside, his eldest brother would be the first to rush to protect him.

Even if he did something wrong, his elder brother would never tolerate it.

The eldest brother really backed him up.

So how could he possibly hate?

Chapter 102 Liu Haizhong wants to become sworn brothers with He Weiguo!

In the end, I don’t know whether Liu Haizhong really figured it out or just wanted to make the scene look good, his tone was a bit exaggerated:

"Listening to your words is worth ten years of reading!"

"Weiguo, you are this!"

He gave He Weiguo a thumbs up:

"You are young, capable, and knowledgeable, much better than me! I really admire you!"

There is some heartfelt touching in these words, and even more of a desire to "progress" and to get closer to others.

He Weiguo waved his hand and said calmly:

"Uncle Liu, you don't have to be so polite. I just hope that if you can listen to what I said today, that would be great."

"Guangtian and Guangfu are both good guys."

"You have to understand one thing: if you want harmony in your family, you must first treat everyone equally."

In fact, what He Weiguo wants to say is: Don’t put all your eggs in one basket, and don’t put all your hopes on Liu Guangqi!

That guy will never support you in your old age and will run away!

If you are not nice to these two children now, no one will take care of you when you are old.

Since he has traveled through time, it is impossible for him to be like in the original drama, where Sha Zhu has to clean up the messes and take care of these elderly people who don't know how to educate their children until the end of their lives.

That’s unrealistic!!

But he couldn't say these words out loud.

What good will it do if I say it now, other than making people hate me?

And Liu Haizhong wouldn't believe it at all.

He has done his best to get to this point.

Liu Haizhong invited him to dinner today, and he responded with these words. I hope this guy can listen to him.

Next, everyone started eating and drinking.

The two bottles of Erguotou that He Weiguo brought were soon empty, and Liu Haizhong took out some bulk liquor to replenish them.

After drinking for a while, Liu Haizhong was obviously drunk and spoke more excitedly.

He grabbed He Weiguo's hand and shook it hard:

"Weiguo! We really hit it off! The more I look at you, the more I like you!"

"Our relationship must go a step further!"

His eyes sparkled and he said something startling:

"How about this? Let's just become sworn brothers!"

"I'll raise you and be your older brother! From now on, you'll be my real brother!"

"From now on, if you have any problems in this courtyard, tell your elder brother!"

As soon as these words came out, the whole audience was shocked!

Sha Zhu's eyes widened as he stared straight at Liu Haizhong, with only one thought in his mind:

How much did this uncle drink?

Are you starting to talk nonsense now?

Yu Shui, Guang Tian and Guang Fu were also filled with surprise and completely unable to understand.

These two people are of different generations!

become sworn brothers?

Become brothers?

Isn't this pure nonsense?

The second aunt quickly pulled the arm in the fringe:

"Lao Liu! You're drunk! What nonsense are you talking about?"

"You two are of different generations! If you two become sworn brothers, what will they call daytime and rainwater from now on? This will be a mess!"

Liu Haizhong waved his hand with a bit of "striking and commanding" posture:

"It's alright! Let's just talk about our own things!"

"From now on, Guangtian and Guangfu will still call Weiguo "Big Brother!" Weiguo will just call me "Big Brother!" This won't affect anything!"

He seemed to think that was not enough and added:

"If it really doesn't work! Have Guangtian and Guangfu change their words and just call Weiguo "uncle!"

Hearing this, He Weiguo almost spit out the food in his mouth.

This Liu Haizhong is really an amazing person!

How did he come up with this idea?

But he certainly couldn't agree to it.

He quickly waved his hands and said firmly:

"Uncle Liu! Uncle Liu! I appreciate your kindness. You think too highly of me."