The beautiful boss is on

Zheng Yanhong thought of the time when they were in trouble together. She confided more and more bitterly: "for me, he has experienced many hardships. When I abandoned him several times, he didn't retreat. He moved me again and again with his indomitable love. So if I have confidence in any man in this world, it's him Alone!

But now Even he didn't want me Even if I brought the wrong jade bracelet, I have already wiped out my self-esteem and apologized to him. I even begged him to go with me and earn some money for him. Why would he rather not have me? Bodhisattva, tell me, tell me... "

The Bodhisattva on the lotus platform is naturally compassionate as always, and even more silent as always. It seems to be everywhere, but it will never give you any answers, waiting for you to slowly understand. As for when you can understand, Bodhisattva will not tell you. Generally, when you understand, it must be understanding.

However, Zheng Yanhong was waiting for the Bodhisattva's answer. Although this Bodhisattva is not the one on the lotus platform, but an old voice behind her, it is no less meaningful to her than a real Bodhisattva. In fact, people who have realized the Tao are different from Bodhisattvas.

"Amitabha, the benefactor has not realized what is wrong with her at this moment. Your mistake is to look up at yourself but despise your lover."

Zheng Yanhong is terrified and helpless, because she suddenly finds that her attraction and control to Zhao shensan have completely disappeared, and her frustration will kill this arrogant woman.

At this moment, I suddenly heard Master Wu's voice, almost as excited as the sound of nature. I turned around and looked at the ugly master, but it was as if I saw my own parents. I felt a strong sense of dependence, and cried bitterly: "master, where do I look down on Xiao Zhao? I don't have any If so, how could I come to beg him in a low voice and almost die on the lotus terrace for him? For whom did Zheng Yanhong do this in my life, why didn't he appreciate it "

Master Yiwu sighed with compassion:" Alas, little girl, you haven't found your arrogance to the bone and become the master of your nature. Just these words you said Listen to me, it's totally another kind of domineering, not to mention Zhao Xiaoyou, who wants to spend his life with you. It's reasonable for him to choose to give up and continue to follow you! "

Zheng Yanhong was even more wronged and wronged. She asked: "master, where am I arrogant and domineering? You didn't find that in order to find Zhang zhaoshensan, I'm so humble that I don't even have self-esteem. He refused to ask Zhang to go. How can you still misunderstand me?"

the master laughed: "ha ha, don't worry, little girl Since you have not completed your mission to the mountain and are still full of grievances, you must not be in a hurry to leave, right? I'll play a game with you. I'll translate those words you just said into the meaning I understand. Listen to them and see if you can accept them, OK?

ZHENG Yanhong didn't expect that the master had such a humorous side. How could she know the year of master When he was young, he was also a person who had experienced a series of changes in the world, such as wealth and poverty. He had a profound understanding of the so-called "Tao" even earlier. His personal cultivation had reached the level of the sixth ancestor Huineng and others, so he couldn't help laughing and talking. But his heart was empty, and he had a better understanding of human relations. The uninhibited nature of "wine and meat pierce the intestines, Buddha stay in the heart" was also obvious There is no lack of, in order to enlighten the suffering of Zheng Yanhong deliberately relaxed humor.

"Don't you understand what I'm saying? If you need a master translator, you can translate. I'd like to hear what's domineering." Zheng Yanhong was unconvinced and muttered.

"I'm Zheng Yanhong, a daughter of a distinguished family. If I want to marry you, Zhao shensan will be a petty officer. Instead of being grateful, you'll run away from your marriage, and I'll come to you with patience. I've given you a lot of face, endured a lot of grievances, and I'm willing to die on liantai. How can you be so ignorant Do you think that no one wants it except you and me, and even I don't accept your gift "

the master said with a playful smile. He imitated Zheng Yanhong's arrogant manner in his tone, and learned it perfectly. He was really very domineering.

Zheng Yanhong was silly when she heard it! She looked at the master with a smile and wanted to refute, but she found that when she carefully thought about the words, her face was praying, but every sentence was really domineering with a superior gift!

The master understood that what existed between Zheng and Zhao was not a simple jade bracelet event, but their mentality, which was an insurmountable gap. Zheng Yanhong's inherent arrogance and Zhao shensan's suppressed inferiority transformed into excessive self-esteem were destined to be the absolute contradiction of incompatibility between water and fire.

It didn't appear before, and it's just that they need to constantly face all kinds of challenges, and more affectionately hide the contradiction. Now it's time to get married, naturally because of the fuse of the jade bracelet incident.

Although he had no compassion for the two young masters, he could not understand the love between them White sex, more understand that even if Zhao shensan this time under the cruel end of the love with Zheng Yanhong, in the future he will never be happy relief, but because of the loss of love and even more lost fighting spirit, so a good young man can be decadent from now on!If we can resolve the contradiction between the two young people and help them do good deeds for the people, isn't it great merit? The contradiction between the two people is not immutable. It's just that they don't know the truth in the mountains.

That's why the master painstakingly asked Li Wenbin to tell Zheng Yanhong that Zhao shensan was here. He also taught Zheng Yanhong to restrain her arrogance and sincerely persuaded Zhao shensan. He even used the method of letting her die and later life. Naturally, he hoped that she would completely put away her pride and let Zhao shensan feel her change and have confidence in their future life.

It's a pity that this woman seems to be smart. It's easy to change her nature. A conversation not only failed to resolve the contradiction, but also touched Zhao's inferiority complex and finally became more uncontrollable.

The master had to come forward again, and let Zheng Yanhong understand her essence with a game. Seeing that the little woman had been numb, he continued: "how about my translation is not far from each other? Have you ever thought about what husband and wife are? Although I am a monk, my understanding is to help each other in this heartless world Do you understand this correctly?

"well. That's what I understand, master! But... " Zheng Yanhong is busy trying to show how sensible she is.

But the master raised his hand to stop her, and then said, "since you agree with my understanding, I'll go on. Don't argue and listen. Since husband and wife are in such a relationship, do they need to be absolutely equal and pay equally or are they not far from each other "

ZHENG Yanhong nodded again.

"Well, the relationship between husband and wife is like withdrawing money from the bank. You always have to deposit it before you can withdraw it for spending. If you don't want to deposit it and just want to withdraw it, will the bank give it to you? Even if you are familiar with the bank again, if they give it to you once or twice, they will give you a third time or a fourth time? I don't need to explain. You must be so smart. A woman should understand you two In life, it must be Xiao Zhao who pays you a lot of love free of charge. From the beginning, you feel that you can get something for nothing. As time goes by, you feel that you don't pay too much for him. It's like the principle of "Sheng Mi en vs. Mi Qiu", right? "The master's advice is painstaking.

“…… Is that so? But I I didn't give him nothing. I gave him support in his career and warmth in his life again and again. I gave him a wife who could give him, and even a career supporter who could give him. How could it be a unilateral demand? "Zheng Yanhong was still unconvinced, and he said in a low voice.

"Ah, silly girl, it's your saviour mentality that misled you! You always feel that it is enough for you to give Xiao Zhao the power and gentleness of women. Don't you know that these are just the most insignificant efforts in your relationship.

Because you have always ignored a problem, that is, it is true that you have given Xiao Zhao help in his career, but if you do not have his personal ability, can you achieve today's achievements? Just as you have helped a man on the horse, do his achievements belong to you as a recommender

ha ha ha, you underestimate Xiao Zhao! He is an extremely intelligent and arrogant dragon among the people. Your initial promotion really gave him a good platform for development, but later he went on step by step with his own efforts. Did he really complete it with your support

in fact, according to the Yin skill Feng Shui of my family, even if you don't trust him, he won't always be willing to be subordinated to others, and it's time to start Sometimes he would like to go to guida.

Not only that, but he is also a talented man who has read a lot and understood the theory of sages. These days, he talks with me about the past and the present, and he has a lot of experience in various fields. Based on this, can he not figure out the subordination between you two "