I have a lot of employees under me and have seen too much assessment materials before. I never judge a person's ability based on one thing.
Everyone makes mistakes, and your boss will have her own review criteria. Of course, in the final analysis, there is only one assessment criterion, which is whether you can do your job well and make your boss worry-free.
Therefore, you should have the courage to admit your mistakes, take the responsibilities you need to take, and minimize the losses caused by your mistakes. This is what you should do now.
I think after you've done this, your boss will definitely look at you differently. As for your classmate Michelle, you don't have to worry too much about her behavior, because your boss will also have his or her own considerations. It's not that she's blind to it, but she has her own considerations."
Han Tao knew what Guan Juer was worried about, so he analyzed it for her carefully and comforted her with a smile.
"Well, thank you, Brother He, I know what to do!"
Guan Juer nodded, and after digesting Han Tao's words, she looked at him with some grievance and said:
"Brother Han, what should I do if I still feel wronged? I clearly meant to help, but this is the result. Don't you think people can be more sincere with each other?"
"Guan Guan, this is what I'm going to talk to you about. You're no longer at home, nor in the ivory tower of school, and you're not interacting with ordinary people.
You're in the workplace right now, understand? It's full of intrigue and deception, and stepping on others to get ahead is even more common. I once told a friend a few words, and I'd like to share them with you today.
I hope you can remember that in the workplace, you cannot be too familiar with all your colleagues. One or two close friends are enough, and it’s okay to just have coffee or dinner with the others. You must not be open-hearted with everyone, okay?
Otherwise, you will be in the same situation as you are now, and you will have to pay a heavy price. However, your colleague Michelle is not a smart person either. She thinks that she can completely get herself out of this matter by having you take over. That is impossible.
I guess your leader might not say anything, but she will definitely be evaluating this person in her heart. Think about it, if a person doesn't want or dare to take responsibility, how can the leader entrust her with important work in the future?"
After listening to Han Tao's advice, Guan Juer wiped her tears and nodded, "I understand, Brother Han. I feel much better after hearing what you said.
I won't dwell on Michelle's problem anymore. I will write the inspection report properly, do my job well, and complete this erroneous report to make up for my mistake!"
"That's the right way to think. Most people grow through their failures. When you go back, write your self-criticism first. As for the unfinished work, wait until tomorrow when you go to work. It's easier to make mistakes if you're too tired.
In addition, this self-criticism letter must be clear and sincere, and it should only state the cause of the matter, your mistakes, and the solution.
In today's workplace, everyone is racing against time, and no one likes long speeches!"
After Han Tao finished speaking, Guan Juer nodded and said, "Okay, then I will divide this self-criticism into three parts. In the first part, I will clearly state the context of the matter. In the second part, I will admit my mistakes. In the third part, I will write about the solution!"
Guan Guan quickly sorted out her thoughts and faced up to her responsibilities. Han Tao's words made her understand a truth: it is not terrible to make mistakes in the workplace. What is terrible is to shirk responsibility after making mistakes, not being able to face up to one's own shortcomings, and not being able to grow from mistakes. This is the real taboo in the workplace.
"Very good, just write it like that. If you have any questions, feel free to come upstairs and find me!"
Han Tao looked at Guan Juer with satisfaction as she spoke, knowing that she had finally gotten the point.
Guan Juer, seeing Han Tao smiling and nodding in approval, couldn't help crying, "Oh, Brother Han, although I understand the truth, I feel so uncomfortable!
It's someone else's problem, but I have to admit my mistakes against my will. It's so unfair, you know? After graduation, I've been doing more and more things against my will, but I have no choice but to endure it. I feel so tired of growing up and working!
Looking at Guan Juer's tearful face, Han Tao shook his head helplessly and continued to comfort her, "Guan Guan, you don't have to worry so much. If you lose your job one day, Andy and I are willing to hire you.
You are serious and responsible about your work, working overtime until late at night every day. You have devoted too much to your work, so we know very well that you are a very serious person who can get things done.
Likewise, I believe your boss and I share the same view, so I don't think you'll lose your chance at a permanent position because of this. Believe in yourself, your efforts will not be in vain."
Hearing Han Tao's words, Guan Juer immediately burst into tears and laughed, "Brother Han, are you telling the truth? You're not saying this just to comfort me, are you?"
"Of course not. Any leader would like a girl as hardworking as Guan Guan!"
Han Tao looked up at the innocent and lovely Guan Juer, then scratched her nose and said with a smile:
"Can you put away your magical powers now? You're already so old and still crying. It's okay that you can't stand such a small grievance! Stop making love quickly, otherwise when we get home, Xiao Qiu and Xiao Mei will think I bullied you!"
Hearing this, Guan Juer blushed, and she quickly sat up straight, wiped away her tears, and said, "Brother Han, I'm not squeamish, nor can I bear being wronged, I just didn't think it through for the moment.
My mother told me before that she didn’t want me to work in a big company alone, saying that I would be under too much pressure and it would be too hard, and I would not be able to bear it sooner or later.
She also said that I was a girl and that I didn't need any help at home, but I didn't want her to see me dying, so I came to Shanghai to work alone. My boss criticized me this morning, and I didn't even tell her when I called her just now!
After saying this, I don’t know what touched Guan Juer’s heart. She wiped her tears again and said:
"Brother Han, what should I do? I don't know why, but the more I talk about it, the more upset I feel. I think my mother predicted my current situation!"
Han Tao looked at Guan Juer, who seemed to be still a child, and smiled, "Then don't let your aunt see you die. You have to believe in yourself and be strong!"
"Well, I've put in so much effort for this job. I believe that with my own hard work, I can get a full-time position just like those students from prestigious universities. I definitely won't be rejected!"
After saying that, Guan Juer clenched her fists and secretly encouraged herself: "Guan Juer, you can't give up. You are the best. Come on!"
"That's right, life is not without its ups and downs. It all depends on how you overcome them. Come on, Guan Guan!"
Looking at Guan Juer who had regained her confidence and was full of fighting spirit, Han Tao rubbed her hair and spoke in support.
In this way, the two chatted all the way and made a few jokes, so the atmosphere in the car became more and more harmonious.
However, Guan Juer soon realized that the way they were interacting seemed a little too intimate, so she shyly lowered her head and was embarrassed to look at him, but a ripple was stirring in her heart.
At the same time, she was also very fortunate, because she knew clearly that Han Tao was the most suitable person to help her learn to deal with workplace crises, because Han Tao himself had absolute strength.
……
Chapter 202 Guan Juer’s Mother’s Godly Assistance (1)
At 11 o'clock in the evening, a black BMW 7 Series drove to the entrance of the Song of Joy community and slowly slowed down.
Guan Juer was in the car, looking at the night view outside the window. Suddenly, she remembered that she had taken the initiative to hug Han Tao just now, which made this good girl feel a little shy.
Han Tao, who was standing by, accidentally saw her face gradually turning red, and couldn't help but curl up the corners of his mouth.
Then he slowly reached out his hand to her. Noticing Han Tao's little movement, Guan Juer blushed and pretended not to know, but her breathing became slightly disordered.
Afraid of scaring Guan Juer, Han Tao did not make any other unnecessary movements except holding hands. He just slowly held her hand, and then the two of them interlocked their fingers.
Guan Juer was in such close contact with the opposite sex for the first time. Her face turned slightly red and she turned her head away, not daring to look at him.
“Ding-ling-ling…”
Suddenly, a cell phone rang, interrupting the ambiguous atmosphere in the car. Seeing that it was her own phone, Guan Juer was shocked and quickly let go of Han Tao's hand.
Seeing Han Tao looking at her with a smile and not angry, Guan Juer adjusted her mood, blushed and picked up her mobile phone to take a look. The caller ID showed "Mom".
She hesitated for a moment before pressing the answer button and saying, "Hello, Mom!"
"Guan Guan, are you almost home?" A gentle female voice came from the other end of the phone, asking about her situation.
Guan Juer nodded and replied:
"Mom, don't worry, you and Dad, I've already entered the community!"
"That's good. Mom was worried sick. You have such a crappy job, working overtime every day, and you're still coming home so late on Friday.
I think you should just quit and go home to find a job so that you can spend time with me and your dad.
Just listen to your mother. I'm really worried about you being all alone in Shanghai!"
"I'm really fine, Mom!"
Guan Juer shook her head, then smiled and replied to her mother on the phone: "You really don't have to worry, I can hold on. The current situation is only temporary. I'll be fine once I get through the internship!"
"Why are you so persistent? I tell you, if you don't pay attention when you are young, when you reach my age, the problems will find you on their own.
Guan Guan, you are a girl, you don't need to put so much pressure on yourself, boys have to endure hardships and build a career, girls just need to find a good man and marry him! "
When Guan Juer's mother heard that she had to wait until the end of the year to get a permanent job, she immediately became anxious. After all, there were still nearly seven months to the end of the year, so when would it end?
"Stop arguing. Pressure is motivation. Why did you ask her to come back? To live off her parents?"
Before Guan Juer could respond, a man's rebuttal came from the other side, followed by the sound of someone snatching the phone.
A moment later, Guan Juer's father grabbed the phone and continued, "Guan Guan, don't listen to your mother. Suffering a little when you are young will benefit you throughout your life.
You've seen a lot in the big city, which is much better than wasting your life in our small town. Your family doesn't need you to make money. The only thing you lack is experience. You must persevere. Dad supports you!"
"I know, Dad. I'll definitely stick with it. You try to reassure Mom. My two new neighbors are amazing. I've learned a lot from them!"
"That's good, your mom is just worrying for nothing. In today's society, is there any job that doesn't require overtime?
Only those who endure the most hardships can become the best. When your mother and I were young, our lives were much harder than yours now!"
"Give me the phone number quickly, and you say I'm worrying about nothing. Is this what I'm worried about?
What do you know? My daughter is not a child anymore. She works overtime all day long. How can she have time to meet a suitable boyfriend?
Other girls have people to pick them up after get off work, but she's all alone in Shanghai. Didn't you hear what she said on the phone just now? "Go aside and don't interrupt me from talking to my daughter!"
After a round of scolding, the phone was snatched back by Guan Guan's mother again. She choked with concern and asked, "Guan Guan, are you still listening?"
Hearing this, Guan Juer got out of the car and replied, "Mom, I'm listening. What else can I do for you? If you're not in a hurry, I'll tell you when I get home, okay?"
"Guan Guan, don't hang up the phone yet. Mom wants to ask you, is the boy who came to pick you up the one who just moved next door to you?
He was able to come pick you up so late, you must be very familiar with each other, why haven't I heard you mention him before?"
"Mom, the new neighbors who moved in on our left and right are all girls. Brother Han doesn't live next door, he lives upstairs!"
"So he lives upstairs. How old is he? What does he do for a living? What does he look like?"
When Guan Juer's mother heard her daughter say that Han Tao was the upstairs neighbor, she always felt that the relationship between the two was not that simple, so she immediately asked three questions in a row.
Glancing at Han Tao, who was walking quietly and keeping a distance behind him, Guan Juer smiled inwardly, realizing that Han Tao was giving her some space, so she whispered into the phone:
"Mom, Brother Han is about 28 or 29 years old. He's a senior partner at a prestigious law firm in Shanghai and the CLO of Jingyan Group. He's quite handsome. Why are you asking this?"
"Lawyer? To be a senior partner at such a young age, and even to be the chief legal officer of a large company like Jingyan, you seem to be quite talented.
Guan Guan, do you have a photo of him? Send one to us. Mom and Dad have so many years of experience working in public institutions, so they can tell a person's character pretty well at a glance. Your dad and I will check it out for you!"
"Mom, don't talk nonsense. We are just neighbors and ordinary friends!"
"What a silly girl! Would an ordinary friend pick you up after 10 o'clock? How many ordinary friends have you met who are as thoughtful and considerate as this boy?
Are you a stupid mother or don’t you know it yourself? You really make your mother mad. You have never been in love and have never seen it. He must be interested in you and wants to pursue you, do you know that? "
"oops!"
Guan Juer exclaimed in surprise when she heard this, and quickly covered her phone with her hands, whispering, "Mom, please be quiet. Brother Han is not far behind me. If he hears, it will be so embarrassing!"
As soon as Guan Juer finished speaking, her mother excitedly said, "That's perfect. Since he's with you, give him your phone and I'll chat with him!"
"Mom, please don't make things worse, okay? You don't even know Brother Han, why are you talking to him?"
Guan Juer was shocked by her mother's words and couldn't help but slap her forehead with her hand.
Guan's mother said, "You silly girl, you are so clueless. The boy came to pick you up so late, shouldn't I, as your mother, thank him?
I really don't know why I gave birth to such a stupid child like you. Hurry up and give him the phone. I can at least say thank you to him!"
"No, Mom, I'm going upstairs... I won't talk to you anymore, bye!"
"What's wrong with you, kid? Don't hang up the phone. Mom hasn't finished talking yet!"
"Mom, I...I don't know how to say..."
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Chapter 203 Guan Juer’s Mother’s Godly Assistance (2)
Guan Juer had been obedient for a long time, so it was difficult for her to refute her mother's words. However, due to her girlish modesty, she was too embarrassed to tell Han Tao about her mother's request.
Just when Guan Juer was hesitating, Han Tao looked at her from behind. He had vaguely heard some of the conversation between mother and daughter, so he smiled and said:
"Guan Guan, it's your aunt calling, right? They must be worried about you. Do you want me to talk to them?"
"Sorry, Brother Han, my mom wants to thank you for picking me up today!"
Guan Juer stared at Han Tao with wide eyes, hesitated for a moment, and responded embarrassedly.
Han Tao nodded and stretched out his hand, saying, "It's okay. Give me the phone. I want to talk to Auntie!"
"Oh…"
Guan Juer looked at Han Tao embarrassedly, but after hearing her mother's urging on the phone, she finally nodded slightly in agreement, and then said to the phone: "Mom, then wait a moment, Brother Han will answer the phone!"
After saying that, Guan Juer handed the phone to Han Tao with a red face, then quickly lowered her head and looked at the tip of her shoes, not knowing what to do.
Han Tao took the phone with a smile, "Uncle, aunt, hello, I'm Guan Guan's friend Han Tao, and also her neighbor. You can call me Xiao Han!"
"Hello, Xiao Han, I'm Guan Guan's mother. Thank you for coming to pick up our Guan Guan so late at night. I'm really sorry to bother you!"
Guan Juer's mother's gentle and kind voice came from the phone.
Han Tao looked at Guan Juer and replied with a smile, "Auntie, you're welcome. I just happened to have an appointment today and haven't gone home yet, so it's just a small favor. It's not a big deal!"
"Is it really such a coincidence?"
Guan Juer's mother smiled slightly and then asked a soul-searching question.
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