Seeing that the topic was about himself again, Han Tao's heart moved, and he said thoughtfully:
"Uncle Jiang, Nansun has lived a life of luxury since she was a child. You are worried that she won't be able to adapt to the dull life after marriage. Of course, your intention is very good.
However, you really have to be cautious when selling your house to invest in stocks. When the stock market rises sharply, it is very likely to fall suddenly. You'd better sell some of your stocks to avoid heavy losses!
Speaking of which, Brother Zhang is considered a leader among his peers. In today's social situation, without a good family background, one has to rely on one's own efforts, which requires time to settle and accumulate.
So, I think you should give Brother Zhang some time and opportunities to prove himself.
If Nansun is in need, or if you encounter any problems and urgently need money, Brother Zhang will just stand by and watch.
At the same time, she is also unwilling to sell her own house to help with the emergency. So it is understandable that she doesn't care about Nansun, and it is also understandable that you oppose it! "
Seeing Han Tao speaking for him and feeling the goodwill he conveyed, Zhang Anren was grateful in his heart and quickly expressed his opinion:
"Brother Han is right, uncle, don't worry. As long as Nansun needs it, a house is nothing. Even if I have to sell everything I have, I will raise money to help Nansun!"
Han Tao smiled slightly, gave him a thumbs up, and without waiting for Jiang Pengfei to express his opinion, he continued to persuade him sincerely:
"Then let's wait and see, uncle. I understand your concerns very well. As the saying goes, parents devote all their energy to their children and grandchildren. How pitiful are the hearts of parents in the world!
But we also have to put ourselves in her shoes. Nansun is not a child, so I have to respect her choice.
Whether a person is suitable or not cannot be judged solely by financial resources, but also by character and responsibility!"
Listening to Han Tao's advice to her father, Jiang Nansun raised the corners of her mouth happily, and Zhang Anren beside her also showed gratitude.
He felt that they had met too late. He believed that his feelings for Nansun were just as Han Tao had expressed, and could not be measured by money.
As for Jiang Nansun, she couldn't help but feel secretly proud. It seemed that the decision to let Suosuo invite Han Tao to be their guest was the right one.
"Be careful, don't get burned!"
As she spoke, Aunt Jia walked towards Zhang Anren holding a new cup.
Zhang Anren thought she wanted to exchange it for a cup of hot rice wine, so he quickly covered his glass and declined.
"Auntie, I don't need it, thank you!"
"No, no!"
Aunt Jia shook her head slightly, and while putting Zhang Anren's wine glass into the larger cup, she explained:
"I'm just changing the water to hot water for you. This wine is getting cold, and drinking it won't help with the cold!"
"Oh~~" Looking at Zhang Anren who knew nothing, Jiang Pengfei sighed.
He had already seen that Han Tao was trying to be a peacemaker, and although he did not agree with what he said, it did make some sense.
And he also wanted to build a good relationship with him so as to get some inside information, so Jiang Pengfei could only laugh:
"What Xiao Han said makes sense. Well, as for you and Zhang Anren, we'll just have to wait and see.
But don't rush into marriage. Wait a little while. When I make money from stocks, I'll buy you a big house as your wedding home and a nice car. Dad won't let you suffer any injustice.
Hearing Jiang Pengfei bring up the old things again, and bringing the topic back, Jiang Nansun said with an unhappy face:
"Dad, Zhang Anren will never sell the house to speculate in stocks. We don't want your big house. Zhang Anren has already bought the wedding house.
As for the car, Zhang Anren will buy it through his own efforts. It doesn't matter if it's good or not, as long as it can get you around. You can just give up on this idea!"
Jiang Pengfei glared at his daughter when he heard this. Instead of arguing with her, he turned to look at Zhang Anren and said bluntly:
"Xiao Zhang, Nansun has lived a life of luxury since she was a child. It's impossible for her to adapt to a dull life, and I won't allow her to have a bad life.
I only have one daughter, Nansun, so I hope she can be by my side. It would be best if you buy a house near us.
Otherwise, you two will definitely not be happy. This is not a question of whether the house is expensive or not, it is a question of the gap in your lives.
I hope you can understand that if you can't give her a relatively good living environment, I won't agree to your marriage..."
Without waiting for Zhang Anren to respond, Jiang Nansun interrupted Jiang Pengfei and retorted:
"What era is this? There's no such thing as class. Everyone is equal. And I'm an adult now. I can decide my own life!
I am going to marry Zhang Anren, and I will not sell that house. I will use it as our wedding house.
It would be best if you agree, but it doesn't matter if you don't agree. I will move out and live with Zhang Anren tomorrow!"
"Bang!" Jiang Pengfei was so angry that he threw the bowl onto the table and was about to lose his temper.
No one knows a child better than his mother. Knowing that it would be embarrassing if the quarrel continued, Grandma Jiang stopped him and said:
"Pengfei, since Nansun wants to move out, let her move out.
I've told you so many times, a daughter you raise will eventually get married, so just let her be!"
"Just move out, I don't care anyway..."
As soon as Jiang Nansun finished speaking, Jiang Pengfei threw his chopsticks over and slammed the table and said:
"Jiang Nansun, how are you talking to grandma? You're becoming more and more rude!
If you marry Zhang Anren like this, you will become poor to death. You know that poor couples have many sorrows, right?
I raised you like a princess since you were little, ensuring you have plenty of food and clothing, not to be used as a tool for a poor boy!"
Jiang Nansun had been beaten once before, and she was no longer as impulsive as she was the first time. She looked at her father Jiang Pengfei indifferently and said sarcastically:
"Dad, stop talking. No matter what happens, we won't be poorer than if we sold our house to speculate in stocks!"
"Your brain is really broken. I'm going to teach you a lesson today..."
"I agree with what Nansun said. We can take our time planning for marriage, but I also agree not to sell the house.
And I also agree that Nansun should move out. If you are not happy, then don't force yourself to live together!"
Seeing that Jiang Pengfei was furious, Dai Yin quickly spoke out in support of Jiang Nansun's decision, then ate his meal with an expressionless face while firmly expressing his position.
"Snapped!"
This made Jiang Pengfei even more furious. He looked at his wife angrily and said:
"What are you talking about, you..."
"Don't you understand what I'm saying? I've endured so much in this family for so many years, isn't it enough? Do I have to live like this for Nansun's whole life?"
Dai Yin looked at Jiang Pengfei and Grandma Jiang expressionlessly. She felt that her life had been ruined by this family, unlike her daughter who was like her.
Hearing this, Jiang Pengfei's face darkened and he asked loudly:
"What do you mean by 'enduring it'? Is this family short of food or drink? Has anyone ever stopped you from playing cards and dancing all day?
Have you ever been asked to cook a meal in all these years? Have you suffered in this family?"
"Okay, enough of the fuss!"
Before Jiang Pengfei could finish, Grandma Jiang interrupted him and said:
"Pengfei, if they're ignorant, aren't you also ignorant? Don't let the guests laugh at you. I just said that getting married early is a good thing. I think Xiao Zhang is a good candidate. He's already an excellent young man!"
"Thank you, grandma! I know Nansun felt wronged by marrying me, but I will continue to work hard to make her happy!"
Hearing Jiang Nansun's grandmother praising him like this, Zhang Anren was overjoyed and stood up and bowed with excitement.
"Hurry up and sit down, don't be so polite!"
She told Zhang Anren to sit down, then looked him up and down. Grandma Jiang nodded with satisfaction and said,
"Xiao Zhang, I'm very optimistic about you. As for whether your family conditions are good or not, that's not up to you to decide. I think you can move here after you get married."
Having said this, she looked at Zhang Anren, who was full of joy and about to stand up again, pressed her palm and continued:
"Don't rush to express your opinion. I have one condition. If you give birth to a great-grandson in the future, the first child must have the surname Jiang!"
"Pfft!"
Hearing this, Jiang Nansun's mother Dai Yin couldn't help laughing out loud. She thought Grandma Jiang's idea was ridiculous.
In her opinion, it was simply unreasonable. It was a different era and people were still thinking about such things. She herself had been harmed by the idea of favoring boys over girls all her life, and she really could not agree with this idea.
In fact, Han Tao didn't think Dai Yin had anything to be wronged about. He was not qualified as a wife or a mother.
As a daughter-in-law, she is even more unqualified. She feels wronged and depressed. She always talks about how bad her life is in the Jiang family and how Mrs. Jiang favors boys over girls. But if you think about it carefully, what has she done for the Jiang family?
She has no real job and often plays mahjong and dances. If Grandma Jiang really has a hard time with her, would she indulge her so much?
So, no matter how much she and Grandma Jiang didn't get along, Grandma Jiang had raised her for more than 20 years. But what was the result? She left right after Jiang Pengfei jumped off the building. It was really heartbreaking.
...............
Chapter 107 Parting on bad terms
Jiang Nansun was shocked by Grandma Jiang's words. She felt like a flock of crows flew over her head. She was so angry that she directly retorted:
"Grandma, how come you're even more outrageous than Dad? Are you both crazy? My dad is crazy about money, and you're crazy about boys!"
Grandma Jiang glanced at Jiang Nansun and said in a cold voice, "I'm already old, and all I care about is our descendants!
Otherwise, what else can I think of? Don't rush to express your opinion. Maybe Xiao Zhang is willing. "
"Even if Zhang Anren is willing, I won't agree. We don't want to live here, and we don't want the Jiang family's property. Just give up on this idea!"
Jiang Nansun retorted without thinking. She felt that her family had become unreasonable.
Grandma Jiang ignored her granddaughter and stood up with a normal expression. She looked at the silent Zhang Anren for a moment and said:
"Xiao Zhang, you're a smart kid. Think about whether what I said is really that hard to accept. Don't rush to answer me. You can think about it again. There's plenty of time anyway."
Seeing Grandma Jiang communicating directly with Zhang Anren, Jiang Nansun stamped her feet in anger and said with wide eyes:
"Grandma, don't you think that's a bit excessive?"
"Is it too much? You always say that times are progressing, but do young people today still care whether their children take the mother's or the father's surname?
That's all I have to say. Let's end this topic for today. Don't let the guests laugh at me. I'm full. Everyone, enjoy your meal!"
After that, Grandma Jiang glanced at Jiang Nansun coldly, and then said to Han Tao and Zhu Suosuo: "Suosuo, Xiao Han, I'm sorry to have embarrassed you!
"Grandma, I come from the old times and have followed the rules all my life. Now that I'm so old, I can't change even if I want to. I hope you young people can understand the persistence of an old lady like me!"
"Grandma, I think each era has its own rules. We can't expect everyone to understand us, but we can't easily deny others either.
You have your own persistence, and young people have their own choices. Times change, so just let nature take its course! "
Han Tao neither supported nor denied it. After all, Grandma Jiang was an elderly woman who had experienced the changing times, so she still attached great importance to the orderly inheritance of her legacy.
The only mistake was the stubborn idea of favoring boys over girls. The son was over 30 years old and had no ability to live independently. He was idle all day and only knew how to trade stocks, which ruined the family fortune.
In fact, she still values this family very much. She says that girls will always get married, but she has never restricted Nansun and her daughter-in-law Dai Yin in terms of food, clothing and other expenses.
As the saying goes, without rules, there is no circle.In an excellent family, there must be a respected old man to guide the younger generation in the family to lead a correct life.
Moreover, the excellent temperament of Grandma Jiang was not inherited by her alone, but was passed down by the family above her.
Jiang Nansun is only in her twenties and is still studying. She is not aware of many social practices in real life.
Ding~ Congratulations to the host for contacting film and television characters, and obtaining 30 points of goodwill from Grandma Jiang, a supporting role in the film and television world "The Golden Years". The system rewards funds of 300 million.
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Hearing Han Tao's answer, Grandma Jiang nodded with a smile on her face, then looked at Zhu Suosuo and said:
"Suosuo, grandma is an experienced person and can see things clearly. Xiao Han is a boy worth entrusting your life to, so cherish him!"
Seeing that the atmosphere was a bit depressing, Zhu Suosuo said coquettishly in order to ease the atmosphere:
"I see, grandma. I know you're thinking about me. Brother Han is very good to me. Thank you!"
"Suosuo is the best. It's a pity. It would be better if you were a boy!"
Grandma Jiang touched Zhu Suosuo's hair and said with a smile on her face.
Zhu Suosuo laughed, looked at Jiang Nansun and Zhang Anren in a funny way and said:
"If I were a boy, I would marry Nansun and give you a bunch of great-grandchildren, letting them surround you all day long!"
"Hate you, just wait and see how I'll deal with you when I get back!"
Jiang Nansun gave Zhu Suosuo a blank look. She knew that her best friend was trying to help her and Zhang Anren out of trouble.
Grandma Jiang looked at Nansun, then patted Zhu Suosuo's hand and said:
"You're the only one who talks sweetly! Okay, you and Xiao Han sit for a while. Xiao Han has seen the world, and you know Nansun best. You two can help me enlighten her. This girl has been spoiled by her father since she was a child!"
"Grandma, don't take it too seriously! What child doesn't argue with their parents? I'd love to find someone to argue with, but I haven't seen them in years!"
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