How to raise a passer-by wife

"Because people are different." Xiao Linhui understood what Xiao Lin's mother meant, "Everyone is different, and the people you meet are even more different, unlike mathematics and physics, where what is right is right and what is wrong It's just wrong—the experience of the past is of little help to the future."

"So his father and I are not sure whether our experience and our views on love are correct for him when he reaches the age of dating."

"And then?" Kobayashi Hui realized that she seemed to want to learn more about the origin of Kobayashi Kongqing's character.

"So what we can do is to try our best to let him not be troubled by other things when he meets love." Xiao Lin's mother recalled the past, "We have made various plans to help him learn how to get bread, so that he doesn't have to worry about it. Consider whether to choose bread or love."

"It's really a good way."

"Kongqing was very obedient when he was a child. Whatever we arranged, he would do, and what we asked, he would accomplish. So we have never found any problems."

"question?"

"I didn't find any mistakes in our education, and he has his own ideas." Xiaolin's mother further explained, "Through various forms of works, he learned about other family models and realized that as a child, he does not need to completely obey his parents. Arrangements to complete the parents' request."

Kobayashi Hui thought for a while, and tentatively guessed, "Rebellious period?"

"His rebellious period was different from others." Xiao Lin's mother showed a somewhat helpless expression, "He will still obey our arrangements, fulfill our requirements, and then on this basis, do what he likes."

"What do you like?" Kobayashi Hui vaguely realized something.

"Arrange others, make demands on others, and stimulate the nerves and emotions of the other party, expecting the other party's resistance."

Kobayashi Hui: "..."

Chapter 419 Parenting Experience

Should it be said that it is Kobayashi Kongqing, or should it be said that it is Kobayashi Kongqing's rebellious period?

But after hearing what Xiao Lin's mother said, Xiao Linhui finally understood why Xiao Lin Kongqing's character was so awkward.

On the one hand, he has no resistance to his parents' arrangement, and feels that they have arranged it very well.

On the other hand, he knew that his family was different from others, and wanted to know more about other family models.

He wondered if other family models were better than his.

But it is not so easy to let him suddenly disobey his parents' arrangements.

Accustomed to the past family model, Kobayashi Kongqing has no intention of changing hastily.

After all, this mode is stable and efficient.

So he treats other people the way his parents treat him, sees how other people's reactions are different from his own, and then observes the final result.

If other people don't follow his arrangement and the result is good, he can also try to change his family pattern.

If other people don't follow his arrangement and the result is not so good, then he doesn't need to change.

Bold assumptions, careful verification.

That's probably how it feels.

wrong.

Kobayashi Hui found a problem.

"If you say that..." Kobayashi Hui was curious, "He shouldn't be so powerful at the beginning, and basically no one would listen to him, and the final result may be good or bad. In this way, he should Just realize that other family models are good too - why now..."

"This involves another issue." Xiao Lin's mother sighed, "When the other party resisted and resulted in bad results, he thought his family model was right."

"What about when the opponent resists the arrangement and the result is better?"

"He thinks he didn't arrange it well."

"Ah..." Kobayashi Hui thought for a while, but he could understand it. After all, Kobayashi Kongqing was imitating his parents' arrangements and plans. As a minor, his goal was to be an adult. Except for problems, the first thing that came to mind was Of course, I am not as good as my parents.

But if you do that, it becomes...

"Infinite cycle." Xiao Lin's mother concluded, "The result of the resistance is not good. He thinks his family model is correct. If the result of the resistance is good, he thinks that his arrangement is not good, so he will try harder next time. Wait until the next time. When you come out, continue the process."

Kobayashi Hui sorted out Kobayashi Kongqing's train of thought.

Make a plan → arrange others → the other party obeys the arrangement → your family model is correct;

Make a plan → arrange others → the other party resists the arrangement → lead to worse results → your family model is correct;

Make a plan → arrange others → the other party resists the arrangement → lead to a better result → I did not understand the arrangement → try to improve myself → make a better plan → arrange others...

With the continuation of this endless cycle, Kobayashi Kongqing's plans are getting better and better, he is more and more comfortable arranging others, and more and more people obey him.

Basically no resistance.

Then he wanted to verify his family model, so he kept stimulating the other party's emotions, trying to arouse the other party's sense of resistance, and help him verify his family model.

In the end, he formed his unique behavior pattern: formulate a perfect plan, make demands on others, and stimulate the nerves and emotions of the other party, expecting the other party's resistance.

This is... not forgetting the original intention.

Sora Kobayashi's rebellious period continued.

until......

Kobayashi Hui pursed her lips and the corners of her mouth turned up slightly, "Kongqing also has such stupid moments."

"Generally speaking," Xiao Lin's mother pointed out, "others will think he is sick."

"It's okay..." Kobayashi thought for a while, "It's pretty cute."

"I don't think it's cute." Xiao Lin's mother looked at Xiao Lin Hui with a smile, "but luck is true."

"Ok?"

"Because he has been very obedient, we didn't find any problems. By the time we found out, it was too late." Xiao Lin's mother held Xiao Linhui's hand. If the child has problems, the parents are most worried, "Such a person, want to It is really difficult to meet someone who is suitable for me, and to know and love her—fortunately, there is you."

This is what Kobayashi's mother said at the beginning, and now she said it again, and Kobayashi Hui has a new experience.

"It's the same for me." Xiao Linhui chuckled, "I was lucky to meet him."

"If he bullies you, come to your mother, and I will deal with him then."

"Hmm..." Xiao Linhui thought for a while, Xiao Lin Kongqing often bullied her, but that kind of bullying didn't seem to be said to her mother.

Xiao Lin's mother noticed that Xiao Lin Hui's expression was different, "What's wrong?"

"It's nothing..." Xiao Linhui responded, wanting to change the subject, "By the way, how did father and mother meet?"

"This..." Xiao Lin's mother showed a look of reminiscence, "I just went to college at that time, and when I met him, I thought he was a junior high school student, so I took special care of him."

Sibling love... Kobayashi Hui nodded.

"And then when I was a sophomore, he graduated."

Kobayashi Hui: "...?"

"Later I asked him why he didn't tell me earlier, and he said he was going to give me a surprise, and then he proposed."

Although it is only a few simple sentences, I feel that if I give it to Kasumigaoka Shiwa, at least three volumes can be written.

"Although I have planned a lot, but now that I think about it, I still need to learn some parenting experience first." Xiao Lin's mother looked at Xiao Linhui, "So when are you going to have children and how many do you want?"

"Hmm...haven't made up my mind yet." Xiao Linhui looked far away.

boy...

It was already evening when I left home.

Both Xiao Lin Kongqing and Xiao Lin Hui carried a lot of things, some of them were for them, and some were gifts for Xiao Lin Hui's parents.

"husband."

"Ok?"

"How many children do you want?"

"Eh?"

"Huh?" Kobayashi Hui was a little surprised, "Didn't you plan it?"

"How should I put it..." Kobayashi Kongqing organized the words, "I have thought about this."

"Then?"

"At first, I wanted to make a plan, but later I felt that it was unnecessary."

"why?"

"How should I put it... I don't have much confidence in parenting." Kobayashi Kongqing confessed, "I'm not sure what the child will be like and what it will look like. When I think about my every move It will have an unknown impact on the unknown future of another life, and I am a little panicked."

Chapter 420 Two Extremes

Xiao Linhui nodded, "Hearing what you said, I also feel a little panicked."

"Right, there are too many variables." Kobayashi Kongqing said, "I don't want my children to be hurt, but I also want them to be free, I want them to be upright and brave, but I don't want them to be slandered. people, things that have gone through..."

"So, you don't want kids?"

"No, I really want a baby."

"what?"

"The things I encounter now, the things I can't plan, are all good things." Kobayashi Kongqing smiled, "For example, meeting you and falling in love with you, I feel uncertain about the future of my child, and this uncertainty Sure, let me look forward to it even more. But..."

Kobayashi Hui answered, "Before that, you still have to study hard and prepare well, right?"

"That's right." Xiao Lin Kongqing smiled even more happily, "My wife still understands me."

"That's good," Xiao Linhui smiled more happily, "Let's practice in advance."

"practise?"

Back home, Kobayashi Kongqing looked at the pacifier that Kobayashi Hui handed over, "Well...it's a little big, isn't it?"

"Have you?" Xiao Linhui tilted his head, "Good baby, ah~"

Kobayashi Kongqing: "...Ah."

-

"Ah~" Kato's mother opened the door, "Isn't this Megumi Kobayashi?"

"Mom~" Kobayashi protested softly.

It's obvious that my mother has some deep meaning in naming them by name.

"Mother-in-law is good." Kobayashi Kongqing greeted politely.

"I bring so many things every time I come here, come in quickly." Kato's mother greeted the two into the house.

"Hi father-in-law." Kobayashi Kongqing handed over the gift box, "This is the wine my father asked me to bring."

"Yeah." Kato's father remained taciturn as always, "Sit."

"Mei," Kato's mother said, "Come and help mom in the kitchen, okay?"

"I'm also here to help." Xiao Lin Kongqing, who had just sat down, stood up again.

"Good boy." Hui Xiaolin poked Xiao Lin Kongqing back with an index finger.

She blinked and winked at Kobayashi Kongqing.

Ah... Kobayashi Sorao understands.

This is for a private conversation.

Papa Kato: "..."

Kobayashi Kongqing: "..."

Papa Kato: "..."

Kobayashi Kongqing: "..."

Hmm...that's a good conversation?

After a while, Kato's father said, "Work..."

"..." Kobayashi Kongqing waited for a while, but Kato's father didn't continue.

Just these two words?

Without Kato's mother to help translate, the difficulty of communication soared.

Kato's father just said two words, Kobayashi Kongqing can only start from these two words.

"There have been some changes before, but now RER is generally stable and improving. Although sister Zhu Yin is unable to complete the creation due to physical reasons, the accumulated works before cannot be completed by RER in a short period of time." Kobayashi Kongqing thought Clearly, "The influence of the Superstar project, which is currently in charge of me and Hui, is constantly increasing. The five of them already have many fans on video sites, and will continue to appear on more mainstream media to expand their influence. RER can also use this Complete the transformation from a club to a company, and finally to a platform. Hui has grown up very quickly, and now she is able to handle a lot of work independently, and has a stronger affinity than me. In the future, I will basically exist as her backing and support staff."

Papa Kato: "Learning..."