How to raise a passer-by wife

Kobayashi Hui carefully observed the marks on the book and finally found the key to the problem.

Kobayashi Kongqing has always been very serious about the part of advice to mothers-to-be.

Seriously from start to finish.

It's a complete departure from the increasingly irascible markings in the Advice to Dads-to-be section.

Then the answer is already obvious.

What he is anxious about is the content of the suggestion.

To be precise, it is the stark gap between the two parts.

"The advice to mothers-to-be is very detailed, from the description and explanation of physical changes, to the arrangement and precautions of daily work and rest." Mama Xiaolin said with helplessness in her voice, "This kind of detailed reflection reflects the various aspects of mothers-to-be during pregnancy. kind of problem."

"In contrast, the advice given to expectant fathers is very empty. Accompaniment, comfort, and other trivial matters." Kobayashi answered, "This kind of emptiness reflects the expectant father during his wife's pregnancy... .powerless."

"Kongqing wants to do better and do more, but there are only a few words that I keep repeating over and over again, accompany my wife, calm my emotions, and take care of me carefully." Xiao Lin's mother's fingers crossed the part of the advice to expectant mothers, "Two The stark gap between the two suggestions made him clearly realize that everything he has endured is completely different from you."

Megumi Kobayashi touched the marks on the book, as if he could feel Kongqing Kobayashi's mood when he flipped through the book:

In the first trimester of pregnancy, Hui will have symptoms of anorexia, greasy food, sour food, nausea, vomiting, and sudden discomfort with familiar smells. The probability of illness is greatly increased. May lethargy, fatigue, back pain, dizziness, headache, emotional instability, anxiety, depression...

It's really not easy, and you need to pay attention to every aspect.

Now see what I can do for her.

Accompany, appease.

Accompany, appease...

Accompany, Ann...

accompany......

accompany......

......

"The more you read these books, the more he understands what you have suffered. But what you have suffered will not appear on him. He knows your sadness, but he can't share the slightest bit for you." Xiao Lin's mother said to herself The awkward son was also quite helpless, "The more he knows, the more distressed he is, but no matter how distressed he is, it won't help. He knows too much and can do too little."

"But he has done a good job..." Xiao Linhui wanted to laugh, but his eyes turned red uncontrollably, "Idiot..."

How much do you love me...

Obviously so smart, but turned into a fool.

Kobayashi Hui deeply felt Kobayashi Kongqing's anxiety.

He did a lot of hard work, but the various problems that would occur after pregnancy would still appear on Kobayashi Hui.

No matter how hard he tried, it was impossible for him to experience the same pain as her.

So...he began to take various actions that were almost masochistic without being discovered by Kobayashi Hui.

If I can't feel the same pain as you, at least I can bring myself a little closer to your pain.

In the situation where the anxiety cannot be relieved, Kobayashi Kongqing becomes a little childish.

Such him...

"It's just sick." Xiao Lin Chuanbai raised the book and wanted to hit Xiao Lin Kongqing's face, glanced at the direction of the living room, and then slowly put the book down, "I bought you the book for you to do this?"

That's what I bought myself...

But there is no need to say that.

Kobayashi Kongqing bowed his head obediently and was scolded.

"I'm leaving." Xiao Lin Chuanbai stood up, "Think about it."

Kobayashi Kongqing was a little surprised, "Leave now?"

Chapter 495 Cry, Cry, Cry

"On the one hand, we came here to see you, and on the other hand, we wanted to know if there is anything we can help." Xiao Lin's mother got up, "Now that we have found it, we will naturally leave."

Xiao Linhui dissuaded, "Sit down for a while."

"Forget it today, you guys have a good chat, we'll come over another day and stay longer." Xiao Lin's mother looked in the direction of the study, "Besides, he should be leaving too."

Kobayashi Hui looked in the direction of the study.

The door opened, and Kobayashi Chuanbai came out, followed by Kobayashi Kongqing.

Looking at Xiao Lin's mother, Xiao Lin Chuanbai nodded, "Hui, I have something to do with my company, so I'll come over with my mother some other day."

"Yes." Kobayashi nodded, "Okay."

Xiao Lin Kongqing sent his parents out, and when he came back, he met Xiao Lin Hui's eyes.

"Hui, I..."

Kobayashi Hui sat on the sofa, patted the cushion beside him, "Come here."

Xiao Lin Kongqing sat next to Xiao Lin Hui, and was hugged by her in the next moment.

"Don't be afraid~" Xiao Lin Hui gently comforted Xiao Lin Kongqing's head, "It's fine."

"I said..." Xiaolin Kongqing said in a low voice, "Aren't you afraid that I will cry?"

"The last time you cried was on my birthday..." Kobayashi Hui recalled Kobayashi Kongqing's cute appearance at that time, "I quite like you like that."

"Even if you say so..."

"I didn't cry after going through so much sadness, how could you cry?" Xiao Linhui said softly, "You think so, right?"

"......Um."

Kobayashi held up Kobayashi Kongqing's face, "That's not right, dear."

Kobayashi Kongqing looked at the face of Kobayashi Hui who was close at hand.

The face with the happy smile.

"After pregnancy, my body has undergone many changes. These changes make me feel uncomfortable. This is a fact." Kobayashi looked directly into Kobayashi Kongqing's eyes, which contained rare fragility and helplessness, "And you The meticulous care and dedicated companionship made me feel like I didn’t want to cry even when I was unwell—this is also true.”

Kobayashi kissed Kobayashi Kongqing lightly on the forehead, "You are aware of my physical discomfort, and you helped me with practical actions and sincere care. But I didn't notice the uneasiness in your heart, and I didn't know how to help you. So. ...It doesn't matter if you cry in my arms."

Xiao Lin Kongqing carefully avoided Xiao Lin Hui's stomach, and buried her head in her warm embrace.

"Hey~" Xiao Linhui caressed his back, "Don't torture yourself, you've done a good job."

"But......"

"No but." Xiao Linhui reminded, "If you torture yourself like this again, I will cry too."

"I didn't cry..."

"Okay~" Kobayashi Hui's mouth curled up slightly, "I didn't cry, I didn't cry."

"real......"

"I know." Xiao Linhui hugged Xiao Lin Kongqing, feeling soft in his heart.

"Is everything I'm doing... really helping?"

"About this..." Kobayashi Hui raised Kobayashi Kongqing's chin, "You can experience it for yourself."

Kobayashi Kongqing: "Huh?"

"The way you cry..."

"I didn't cry."

"Well, you look so cute when you're not crying." Hui Xiaolin blinked her big watery eyes, "I like it very much."

Before Kobayashi Kongqing could react, Kobayashi Hui kissed her lips domineeringly.

Maintaining close contact, Kobayashi Hui murmured, "It won't work after a while, so now..."

"Now?"

"Yeah." Xiao Linhui supported Xiao Lin Kongqing's shoulders, "I want to see you crying while..."

Kobayashi Kongqing: "I didn't cry."

-

"Good sister~" Yoshinaga Hiromi came to visit with cute little clothes, "How are you feeling these days?"

With the increase of pregnancy time, the visits of family members have become more and more frequent. Whether it is Kato's parents or Kobayashi's parents, they basically come every two or three days.

"Today is also very good." Kobayashi replied stroking her stomach.

Wrapped in a pink maternity dress, her swollen belly moved slightly.

"Did you hear it?" Yoshinaga Hiromi looked at her sister's belly in surprise, her hand was about to move, "Can I touch it?"

Kobayashi nodded, "Yes."

"But some people say that touching the belly will cause the umbilical cord to wrap around the neck." Yoshinaga Hiromi was a little worried, "It is said that after touching the stomach, the child will move inside when stimulated."

"This..." Kobayashi called out, "Husband~"

"Here we come." Kobayashi Kongqing served a drink, "What's the matter?"

"Oh?" Yoshinaga Hiromi raised her eyebrows, "I feel that my complexion has improved recently, what happened?"

"This..." Kobayashi Kongqing subconsciously looked at Kobayashi Hui.

What should I say?

First of all, Kobayashi Kongqing didn't cry.

During pregnancy, pregnant women will undergo some physical and psychological changes.

Secondly, Kobayashi Kongqing didn't cry.

There may also be some changes in the hobbies of pregnant women.

In the end, Kobayashi Kongqing didn't cry.

Crying is a great way to vent.

Well... roughly that's the case.

Xiao Linhui shook his head lightly, "Nothing special happened."

"Oh?" Yoshinaga Hiromi narrowed his eyes suspiciously, apparently in disbelief.

If it was normal, she would definitely ask questions on the sidelines.

but now......

"Will touching the stomach cause the umbilical cord to wrap around the neck?" Yoshinaga Hiromi took the initiative to change the subject.

"This is a wrong attribution: no matter whether you touch the stomach or not, the child will move. He can move his umbilical cord around his neck, and he can move himself out." Kobayashi Kongqing explained, "Usually stroking or gently Patting isn't a problem, it's a great way to interact with your baby, and there's some research showing that stroking or touching during pregnancy can go a long way toward relieving a baby of anxiety and restlessness."

When Kobayashi Kongqing spoke to the end, I always felt that Kobayashi Hui's eyes seemed to be a little... um... hard to say.

"I did a lot of homework." Yoshinaga Hiromi finally stretched out her hand with confidence, carefully feeling the rhythm of life in her sister's belly.

It's a very wonderful experience.

Yoshinaga Hiromi blinked and looked at her sister, "Megumi, what does it feel like to be pregnant?"

As a wife, she will have a similar experience.

Before that, she wanted to hear from her sister about her real experience.

"Hmm..." Kobayashi vaguely guessed what her sister was thinking, tilted her head and thought for a while, "It's a bit like...the feeling of going to school."

Chapter 496 Major mistakes

How does it feel to go to school?

When Yoshinaga Hiromi asked the question, he imagined the various answers Kobayashi Megumi might give.

But this was really unexpected.

"What is the feeling of going to school?"

Kobayashi Hui further explained, "Wake up to go to school every day, and have to work hard to attend classes, do homework after class, and occasionally take exams, occasionally feel sad and bored, and even have thoughts of not wanting to go to school."

Yoshinaga Hiromi felt the same way, "Indeed."

"But, if there is someone you like going to school with me...Every day is looking forward to." Kobayashi Hui looked at Kobayashi Kongqing tenderly, "The occasional sadness and boredom, and the happiness he brings Compared with the warmth, it becomes insignificant. Those uncomfortable feelings are still there, but they are not the main theme of life."