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"Perverted senior, huh?"

"Alas!"

"Train them well, right? They can't resist once you step on them, right?!"

There is a saying that goes, "It's never too late to look after the dog."

A belated correction is still a correction!

In order to maintain his own image, Lin Sen severely taught a lesson to a girl who slandered him.

After a while, until the other party could only make some humming sounds without any movement, he let go.

He sighed deeply, then covered his face again:

"That's the self-control I'm so proud of."

"Pressure can't keep piling up. There's always a way to release it," the lying girl said softly. "Once I've relieved some of it, it can help you, the senior, better control yourself when you're out there."

"What kind of perverse logic is this?"

"whee..."

The girl's voice was somewhat weak.

But the next second, she suddenly blinked while staring.

"Just now..."

She said, "Senior, please stay away. I touched your cheek..."

The girl touched her lips with her finger.

Lin Sen nodded solemnly:

"I'm sorry, I look like a confused idiot right now. But, how should I put it... I still really need to think about it carefully."

"No. Actually, it's my fault."

The girl stood up and rushed over to give the young man, who had his head bowed, a gentle hug. "My self-control was the first to break down. As a result, it also affected you."

“It’s definitely a problem on both sides.”

"Senior, just remember this."

The girl responded with a smile of her own.

Reaching out and poking the confused man's cheek:

"I will accept whatever decision you make. I will do my best to make the ending satisfying for both of us."

“I will use all my efforts to do this.”

"Of course, believe me!"

"..."

“Senior…Ah!”

The girl was suddenly and gently pushed over.

Then, a hand grasped her ankle again and lifted the culprit.

Someone sighed again.

However, there was positive feedback on his face.

"Of course I believe you, little stupid cat classmate."

He shook his head helplessly, "I'm just unsure of myself."

"That's okay. Actually, Senior, you don't have to think about anything."

So Lin Sen narrowed his eyes:

"You're such an idiot," he said. "You trust me so much. If I'm really a scumbag inside, you'll be in trouble."

"That's okay."

"you really..."

The two people in the bedroom looked at each other, and suddenly they couldn't help smiling.

Ito Xiguo covered his mouth with his hands, and his eyes narrowed like crescent moons as he looked at the man in front of him.

Lin Sen also looked back.

Finally, he laughed and sighed again:

"What a strange plot and development this is."

"However, there is one thing I don't regret and am always grateful for."

"That is, meeting you."

"Ito Nishika."

Chapter 60 Active and Passive

but.

seriously.

All along, Lin Sen gradually began to have some doubts.

Are the changes in the status of people around him also related to the image he presents to the outside world?

It's not that I blame myself when things go wrong. It's just that interpersonal relationships are a give-and-take thing.

To use a wonderful metaphor, the relationship between people who are on good terms is like two turbulent currents flowing in opposite directions colliding on the riverbed.

It is not the case that if both streams of water are gentle and cautious, an air-like fault will miraculously appear in the river channel.

If one side appears weaker and shrinks more, the other side will naturally occupy the empty part even if the water flow is not as strong as before.

Because close relationships are like blending water. One party must always take the initiative to avoid alienation.

The more one side gives in, the more the other side subconsciously wants to push the envelope. Then, things start to go wrong.

Thinking about his recent situation, Lin Sen felt that there must be a similar pattern at work. Otherwise, it would be impossible to explain the changes in the girls around him.

Perhaps it was because he was too calm and even gentle at certain moments, which caused the other party to subconsciously want to take shelter on him.

Also, because he would not get angry or show an attitude when close contact was not serious, the girls began to enjoy the feeling of bullying him.

To put it simply, it is -

The girls can hardly distinguish the boundaries and are even riding on my face, but my buddy is still thinking that the friendship between gentlemen is purer than water and that we should rule by doing nothing!

There is a very insightful word that has been used many times in history, called appeasement.

Almost all the stories related to it in history books have a good ending.

After thinking about this, I suddenly realized that I have been a little too abnormal recently.

When it comes to the boundary between men and women, Lin Sen acts too harmless - which is actually not a good thing.

Inaction is sometimes equivalent to letting things go, and it will make things that are originally stable get out of control - for example, the most obvious example is the relationship with the girl next door, Xiguo.

She slowly revealed her feline fangs to a certain herbivore, as if she wanted to devour it completely step by step.

Is it appropriate to rebel violently occasionally?

Maybe not to that extent.

But just like adult herbivores on the grasslands have strong bodies, great strength, and ferocious horns, the necessary defensive threats should still be there.

Even if, thinking about it carefully, to be honest, Lin Sen actually quite enjoyed the "play" of this girl who made him have a physiological reaction...

But! Enjoy it, enjoy it, and be inappropriate.

Before the relationship is confirmed, this is a huge overstep.

Humans are animals that need principles. Otherwise, they will have no way to resist the absurdity of life.

Otherwise, there wouldn’t have been so many busybodies in the past who gathered in the so-called “Quit using glue and exercise self-discipline” movement, shouting slogans in groups to encourage each other.

Fortunately, like a robot, I always adhere to the underlying code that everything has a limit. Although the situation with Ms. Ito is almost irreversible, at least there is still a final limit.

It doesn't require both of them to confirm that their relationship is close enough to blend together.

Lin Sen still can't make up his mind to cross that line.

It's probably a kind of persistence. I believe that if you choose to truly love someone, you must stay together until the end and work hard to manage each other's lives.

And, I extremely hate the possibility of failure in this matter.

Because it is difficult for lovers or even couples who eventually separate to get along with each other as simple friends - no matter how hard they try to pretend, this cannot be changed.

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Lin Sen didn't want his relationship with Ms. Ito to end up like that. Even if there was only a 0.1% chance, it wouldn't work.

Understand that you have a free and easy personality, understand that you may occasionally be careless in your actions, and understand that there may be some undetected characteristics that will cause disputes between each other - these are shortcomings that can only be discovered when you become more intimate.

It is supported by experience.

In my previous life, when I told my family about my idea of ​​becoming a professional player, I encountered strong opposition at first.

Although they had supported their child in many things before, the family still firmly voted against it at that time - analyzing the pros and cons, and even carefully searching for information online and citing classics, they said that for this industry where the peak age is 18, older players who just joined after graduating from college would have a huge disadvantage. They said that the bottom of this field could not even afford to eat, and that a career based on youth would not last for more than a few years.

But for Lin Sen, it's simple. He plays professionally simply because he enjoys it and wants to. Dreams, at their core, are about passion and the pursuit of happiness. This is perhaps the most sacred thing in life.

As a result, the family relationship that had always been good was almost broken in an instant, and it even reached the point where unsupportive methods such as stopping payment were used to force the couple to break up.

Although they finally let go and apologized to each other after achieving some success, looking back on this experience, Lin Sen gradually realized some truths.

The closer we are to each other, the more hurt we will be when we have disagreements.

The most painful thing is the tearing after the adhesion. And at the beginning, the two people may be very close, but there is only a small and insignificant crack that no one cares about.

Lin Sen believed that even with a girl he felt a perfect rapport with, such as Ito Nishigo, there was a high probability that such a hidden conflict existed. Only when they reached the most intimate level could they discover it.

Then, there is a high probability that there will be a confrontation, which will eventually become irreconcilable, and eventually one party will be forced to exile himself.

She was no longer his paradise, and he could not be her crown.

Lin Sen has always been an optimist, but in this case, he chose to be pessimistic.

However, should I just pretend to be deaf and dumb and completely ignore Ms. Ito's feelings?

According to what the girl said solemnly, "I just want to have fun" and that's it?

Lin Sen only has three words to say about this statement:

Never will.

He was a man with a heart, a conscience, and a bottom line. Moreover, he didn't dislike her at all, and he even liked her a little.

We have almost reached the point of intimacy, and letting go is absolutely impossible.

Lin Sen will work hard to make it his goal to become her lover.

Seeking death? Not so bad.

There is actually a solution to the incompatible state - that is, at the moment when a conflict may arise, one party takes the initiative to step back and compromise.

To use an analogy with his past life experience, at a certain point, Lin Sen did not resist his family's "advice" and chose to give up his career dream.

But this kind of concession requires some courage and patience, as well as the ability to self-regulate, compared to insisting on being yourself.

Lin Sen now doesn’t think he can do it at all.

This is also the reason why he always maintains the boundaries with Ms. Ito.

Fortunately, there is still time.

Give yourself some time to think things through, be prepared, and have expectations.

If, after a thorough analysis, he finds that he cannot do it, he will make it clear to Ms. Ito, implore her to be the one who accommodates him in the future, and give her the final choice.

If he finally feels that he can achieve his goal and makes up his mind, Lin Sen will confess his love to Miss Ito without hesitation.

Then, he didn't resist any of her enthusiasm and even gave her more intense feedback - did he really think that his current patience was a joke?

Lin Sen admired this girl. From her personality to her soul, and even vaguely to every part of her body.