Uncle, Don't Flirt with Me!

"I, I don' t know what will happen to me in the future. I don' t know if we will live the same life as him and lawyer sun -" su fan said.

Qin yiqiu shook his head and said," it's different. "

"I' m not talking about huo shuqing. What's wrong with him? It's me. I' m the one who doesn' t have confidence." After all, lawyer sun was such a capable and outstanding woman. In fact, when I was in Jiangcheng, it was always like this. When I thought of Mr. Sun, I felt very inferiority complex. I didn' t know how huo shuqing felt towards me or me. And now, when we wanted to get married, I ..." Su fan smiled unnaturally and wrapped his hair behind his ears. He held the coffee cup in his hands and paused for a moment." I just ... I feel even more inferior. I can' t compare to Mr. Sun. People like lawyer sun, they can get a divorce, so I ..."

"Xue chu, do you know why I said that you were the person that shuqing was looking for? Qin yiqiu interrupted her.

Su fan shook his head.

"Rinse that person's personality is very strong. He is a very strong person. Although he has changed a little over the years, the things in his bones are very difficult to change. The more powerful he was, the more lonely he was. Although our friends often chat and play together, but, after all, friends can not replace the person beside him. Sun man and his personality were too similar. Sooner or later, both of them would have problems. And you--" qin yiqiu said with a bitter smile.

"Because I' m weak and have no opinions, that's why he ..." Su fan mumbled.

"Did I say something wrong again? "Said tan yiqiu, as if he were talking to himself.

Su fan smiled at her.

"Actually, xue chu, why do you care why he loves you? He loves you. That's the truth. He's willing to wait for you. That's the truth. Life in the world, live too clearly, worry is more. "Said tan yiqiu.

Su fan remained silent.

"Sometimes, when you think about it, the relationship between a husband and wife is complicated, and it feels more complicated than any relationship in the world. "Said tan yiqiu.

"Why? "Asked su fan.

"Maybe it's because there are too many things involved, emotions, interests, and so on. Well, it's like casting a sword, and, uh, marital relationships are like casting a sword. To build a peerless good sword, first of all, there must be good materials, two people's temperament, interest all sides should match, is to have a common language. This was something that could have been discovered before marriage when they were in love, but now, when many people were choosing a spouse, they paid too much attention to external conditions and didn' t care if the other party's internal quality matched their own, because external things ignored the most important things in marriage and rushed into marriage. It's only when you get married that you realize there's a lot of problems. Well, the material is to start building this sword. The most troublesome thing was this process. Life was like this. After marriage, the environment of the two of them would become much more complicated. Even if the two of them were to match each other when they first fell in love, problems would arise at this stage. Because chinese marriage has never been a matter of two people, but two people living. There are too many factors that affect both families, work, and children. It becomes difficult to grasp the fire. "Said tan yiqiu, taking a sip of coffee.

"I' ve never talked about this topic with anyone before. I, sister yi qiu, am like a marriage expert." Su fan said with a smile.

Qin yiqiu shook his head and said," I' ve only been observing other people's lives for so many years and summing up my own. After a long time, I have more ideas. "

Su fan nodded.

"Living a life is actually a process in which two people interact with each other. To be cruel is also a process in which two people play games with each other. The relationship between husband and wife was so complicated. The two of them were partners, but they were also rivals. So I think the two people with complementary personality are the most happy together, of course, the premise is that two people love each other, love each other's inner quality, the appearance of things easily lose charm. You and shuqing, you two are very complementary, like me and your cousin, is also complementary. I was impatient, and he was slow and patient. Qin yiqiu smiled and said.

"That's right, huo shuqing and I have completely different personalities. However, in this way, I always feel that I can not go to his heart. I know he loves me, I love him, but, you and I, it seems, there's always a membrane between us. He can see right through me, and I don't know him. It used to be like this. I knew he had something on his mind, I knew he was upset, but I, I couldn't do anything. "Su fan sighed.

Qin yiqiu thought about it and said," xue chu, do you know how my parents lived their lives? "

Su fan looked at her.

"It seems to outsiders that they are a very harmonious couple, and I feel the same way. All these years, my dad worked, and my mom was in charge of everything. But, now, I always feel that they are a happy couple? "My mom sacrificed all her hobbies for my dad's work and gave up all her dreams. Everything she did was for my dad and for my dad. No matter what she did, she always put my dad first. "

Su fan thought of Roman Tam yin. It seemed that Roman Tam yin was almost the same. Although she hadn' t spent much time with Roman Tam yin, the two years of intermittent contact seemed to be the same.

Many people envied my mother and thought her mother was very successful because her husband was successful in his career and her husband respected her. At least, at their age and position, she was truly worthy of envy. But sometimes I think, for the sake of the husband completely sacrificed himself, let himself become the husband's assistant, this is a woman's happiness? "Said tan yiqiu.

"But, if your mother doesn' t take your father as the center, I' m afraid there will be a lot of problems, right?" Su fan thought about it and said.

Qin yiqiu smiled and said," in that case, they wouldn' t know what they' d become. Even if he didn' t get a divorce, how many wives and children did my dad have outside? "

"Actually, secretary qin is a really good man in this area. He has a good example. You and yifei from the body can be seen 1 su fan road.

Qin yiqiu nodded and said," my dad set a good example for yifei in this area. In the end, that guy lived to be thirty years old and wouldn' t take the initiative to fall in love. Qin yiqiu looked at su fan and said," let's skip this topic and not talk about that guy. "

Su fan nodded.

"I think my doubts about my mother now are probably due to the concept of our two generations! In our generation, too much emphasis is placed on our own needs, emotional needs, material needs. In fact, this is also the progress of the social progress of the people, you said right? Qin yiqiu nodded in agreement.

"But when people pay too much attention to themselves, it's easy to overlook the people around them, whether it's husbands or children. So, in this respect, people like my mother who put her husband first are happier, perhaps, happiness and unhappiness, only she knows, at least feel satisfied with her. "Said tan yiqiu.

Su fan thought for a moment, then he said," I think it's happiness to have what you want! Depending on what everyone wants, maybe what your mom wants is the state of her life, so she feels happy. And if you go to her life, because your focus is different from hers, so, even if you and her state of the same, you will not feel happy. "

Qin yiqiu smiled and said," you' re right. That's right. I think so too. "So, xue chu, don' t doubt yourself. Don' t feel inferior or anything. Think about what you want. Have you got it? If not, then do you have to work hard to get what you want? Life, is fair to everyone, at least the opportunity is the same, the difference only in some people seize the opportunity, some people do not. You and gargle are good at first, you are two people of perfectmatch, you love each other, as long as you love each other, no matter what problems in the future, will be willing to solve. "

Su fan nodded with a smile on his face.

Shuqing and sun man were at the last step. They had made a lot of mistakes before. Both of them didn' t have the heart to manage their marriage and treat each other. If they had problems, they would deal with them negatively. And you and gargle, that's not gonna happen. So, don't worry, shirley, everything's gonna be okay! "Tan yiqiu encouraged.

"Yes, I understand. Thank you, sister yi qiu. Talking with you for a while, I feel a lot more relaxed, really relaxed a lot of 1 su fan smiled.

Qin yiqiu also smiled and said," many people have premarital phobia, not only you. I'm glad I could help you! After all, we're family now, aren't we? "

"Yes, a family!" Su fan said with a smile.

The two of them sat and chatted for a while before nian qing woke up and the three of them continued to stroll around.

Soon, qin yiqiu received a call from his husband, saying that he had already booked a table for dinner for the evening, so he also sent huo shuqing a text message.

Soon, I'll see him! Su fan thought.

It was said that only those who were in love felt like they had not seen each other for a day. They clearly had children, so how could they still feel this way?

When the child finished school, qin yiqiu drove su fan and nianqing to the school to pick up rao rao rao and went straight to the dining area.

Soon, qin yiqiu's husband, luo zhigang, arrived. When he saw su fan, he walked over and said with a smile," I didn' t expect you to be the sister that my sister-in-law has been looking for."

Su fan looked at him with a smile.luo zhigang picked up nian qing and smiled." You can' t call me uncle now. Call me uncle now, little guy!" "

"Niannian has an uncle." Nianqing said stubbornly.

"Is she talking about zeng quan? Qin yiqiu asked su fan.su fan nodded.

"This is also your uncle. Niannian, I'm your aunt, right?" Tan yiqiu said to nian qing.

Nianqing looked at his mother, see mother nodded, just called luo zhigang uncle, luo zhigang laughed and kissed nianqing's face.

"Well, your beard has pricked the child. "Said tan yiqiu to his husband.

"When rao rao was this old, didn' t shuqing often purposely stab rao rao rao rao's face? "Said luo zhigang with a smile.

"This is your niece. The grudge between you and shuqing can' t be avenged on your own niece, right?" Said tan yiqiu.

Luo zhigang seemed to have realized something and said," my wife is right. Nianqing is one of our own. We almost made a mistake! "

Just then, su fan's phone rang and huo shuqing's phone rang.