Uncle, Don't Flirt with Me!

"Do you regret it? The mother smiled bitterly and sighed. "

Su fan looked at his mother.

"You and my father have been together for so many years. Have you encountered such a thing? "Asked su fan.

"It's all right, your dad, uh, it's all right. "Said the mother, smiling.

Su fan listened quietly.

Although they didn' t get to know each other until they were almost thirty years old, and the first few days were constantly conflicted with each other, over the past few years, perhaps because blood was thicker than water, or perhaps because everyone was trying hard to understand and accept each other, the relationship between the mother and daughter became more and more harmonious. Su fan no longer regarded his mother as the high and mighty madam of the minister, but as the mother who could pour her heart out. Roman Tam yin no longer regarded her as the country girl, but her real daughter.

The mother and daughter met so much in life - both fell in love with a married man and gave birth to a child for the man, and eventually married the man, who became the pillar of the nation - whether in the past or present, or in the future, reality and ideals intertwined, allowing the mother and daughter to speak more and more in common. For su fan, what her mother had experienced might be what she would experience in the future. Her mother's experience was extremely important to her.

"What about your father? He was very nice to me and doted on me. However, he has a romantic nature. Although he has changed a lot since he married me, he also kept a distance from the women outside. However, as I told you before, there were too many temptations in this circle. It was impossible for a woman to blend into this circle without some real skills. No matter if it was her appearance, talent or love, she was not comparable to an average woman. Even if those women weren' t able to stay in the main room for two to three years, or even ten or twenty years, they wouldn' t be lacking. Where's your dad? That's all right! After all, the things between me and big sister ye had sobered him up a lot, and the desire in that area had been restrained quite a bit. "Said the mother.

Su fan nodded and continued listening to his mother.

"But, your father's position is there. Just like you said, it's not easy to control the fatal attraction of a man like that to a woman. Even if there's no real relationship, it's inevitable to meet a few people who are attracted to him. "Said the mother.

"Then my dad is really out there ..." Su fan couldn' t believe it either. His father seemed to dote on his mother so much, so why would he like another woman?

"It's all right, your father is all right. He knows his limits. He wouldn' t take it to heart that kind of casual banter. After all, his identity was there. If word got out, it wouldn' t be good for him, and he would be very concerned about it now. Plus the pressure of work, and also not that side of the mind, leisure also basically went home, this I know. So, I'm lucky! It's just, we women, we've been competing with our kind all our lives. When she was young, she wanted to marry a man that she admired. When she really married him, she realized that the real battle started. In order to keep a man's heart, she couldn' t relax for a moment. It is not easy to be the love of a man's life. "Roman Tam yin sighed.

Su fan didn' t say anything and rested his head on his mother's shoulder.

"That's why I' m telling you, huo shuqing is a rare man. You have to know how to cherish happiness. In our circle, we mother and daughter are really lucky. There are really not many lucky people like us. Because we're looking for good men, aren't we? However, even if a good man, even if the man himself has a strong sense of moral, we as wives can not put their life on such a marriage. Husbands love, of course, is good, but love is a deadline, people's patience is limited, if you only from this man to demand his love for you, but ignore his emotional needs, no matter how much he loves you how much he dotes on you, one day, he will be tired. Especially men like your father and huo shuqing. If they give up on you, nothing can be saved. Just look at what happened to sun man. I don' t need to teach you this, right? "Said Roman Tam.

Su fan nodded.

"Marriage is a course that you have to study continuously for the rest of your life. If you want to achieve the most beautiful happiness, you have to constantly cultivate yourself. A marriage without love, only shell, is that what you want? If you don't want it, change yourself, be a woman who is always worthy of huo shuqing's love, be a woman that he can't bear to leave, understand, cain? "My mother's face was grave, but very sincere.

Su fan looked into his mother's eyes and remained silent for a long time.

The room was silent. After a long time, su fan finally said," I' m sorry, mom, I' ve never, ever been with him. I don' t know how to get along with him. I' m afraid of losing him. I' m afraid that I won' t be good enough for him. I ..."

"It's very dangerous, isn't it? "Asked the mother.

Su fan nodded.

"With a man like him, a proper sense of crisis is good for you. This sense of crisis will allow you to work hard to maintain your marriage and make your relationship more stable. Therefore, this is nothing. If you take everything for granted and take the benefits of marriage for granted, you will eventually be abandoned like sun man. "Her mother grabbed su fan's hand and said seriously," no one. In this world, no one treats you well. If you overextend yourself to the benefits of a relationship, you will eventually lose the support of it. "

"But, if that's the case, are we women alive to get the love of our husbands and to have a strong family relationship? Is that the only target we're alive for? "Asked su fan.

"The love of a husband, a strong family relationship, and a strong relationship with a husband and wife are certainly not the sole purpose of our lives, but this is the foundation of everything. For men, they need a stable family relationship, a stable rear so that they can focus on work to fight. We women are the same, regardless of whether we want to develop their own business, family relations and partnership are harmonious, the mood will be better? Wouldn't you be happy to have a man who dotes on you? When a woman feels happy, her body will be fine, and she will look young and confident, and her skin will be shiny -" Roman Tam yin said.

Su fan smiled and reached out his hand to touch his mother's face." You' re really speaking from experience. No one believes you when you say that."

Roman Tam yin smiled, her face slightly flushed.

This was definitely not su fan's compliment. Roman Tam yin was not even fifty years old yet and looked just like a woman in her thirties. Who knew that her granddaughter was already several years old?

Huo jiamin had always said that Roman Tam yin was a beautiful woman from Rongcheng, and that the south of the river had always been a beautiful woman. Even in the beautiful country, Roman Tam yin had always been the best. Although she was almost 50 years old, her skin was still fair and springy, and her face was rosy. Even if she didn' t put on makeup, her beauty was no less than those famous celebrities. Coupled with the glory of her many years of high school life and the upbringing and cultivation of her young family, her temperament was absolutely outstanding. Standing with zeng yuanjin, people often said that they were like father and daughter, not husband and wife. Hearing this, zeng yuanjin always laughed heartily in the past. His wife was well-maintained and young and beautiful, which was definitely a kind of reward for a man.

Su fan looked at his mother and admired her. A good marriage relationship will nourish a woman. As a woman, shouldn't she take care of such a marriage? Let your life of happiness, natural mood good color, better than thousands of cosmetics skin care products.

Yes, mother is smart! Trying to get her husband to love her, it's the woman who gets the benefit, isn't it? The husband is not all we live, the family is not all, but their body and appearance is their own, why to have a bad life with themselves?

In that case, it was really simple. It was too simple!

Su fan felt that he understood, but he remembered something else.

"But, if I was just taking care of him at home, I wouldn' t be able to speak the same language as him. Wouldn' t it be the same if things went wrong after a long time? "Asked su fan.

"You can expand your own circle and take advantage of your career. That's your strength. You should start working on miss sun's matter as soon as possible. You have to remember, your career, to clean up the future service, so that you two will complement each other, he sometimes needs your help, because some things, only women to do. Don't think you're useless. You just don't find your strength, cain. "Said Roman Tam, smiling.

Su fan smiled.

"My daughter, how could it be so bad? "Said Roman Tam.

Su fan smiled without saying anything.

After chatting so much with his mother, the clouds that covered su fan's head completely dissipated.

She had nothing to feel inferior about. She was not useless, but she did not realize her strengths. It wasn' t that she couldn' t help huo shuqing's career, but she didn' t know how to do it.

"Thank you, mother! "Said su fan, hugging his mother's neck and putting his face on her face.

Roman Tam yin smiled and hugged her daughter.

"I have always felt that I am useless and that I am not worthy of him ..." Su fan said.

"Nonsense, my daughter is not worthy of huo shuqing?" Joke 1 Roman Tam yin looked displeased and interrupted su fan.

Su fan stuck out his tongue and laughed.