Uncle, Don't Flirt with Me!

"Later on, when I was with ah zheng, I found out how hard it was for me to be alone with him. Only then did I know how happy it was for the person you loved to love you. "What I want to tell you is that without ah zheng, I might not have been in this world long ago. But I did not marry him because I was grateful to him, but rather,

Pan rong paused for a moment, then continued," when he was with you, every bit of everything he did for me, every detail, I just knew that it was love, and that was the expression of a person who truly loved you. I looked at him as if I had seen myself. Because I have done that for another person, so I know ah zheng's heart. I just realized that I am not so pitiful. What inferiority complex and lack of confidence? What do you think I am not perfect enough for that person? None of these exist. I just want to be with him. As long as I am with him, everything is the best. I don't think about the past, I don't think about the gap between me and him, I never think about it, I just want to be happy with him, and every day with him will become the best anniversary of our lives, cherish every day we spend together, that's all. "

Su fan fell silent.

"So I don't feel like I've given up anything for him, because it's the two of us who are the most important to me. A transfer or something, uh, a demotion, in terms of terms of terms of reference. "Said pan rong, laughing.

Su fan looked at pan rong.

"Even if I was demoted, it doesn't matter. For me, it was a change of environment. There was no loss. I didn't sacrifice anything. This is another start. The key is that ah zheng and I are still together. We don't need to be on each other's side. I can adapt to my new job, I can also make achievements in the new position, I believe in myself. Plus, you can cook with him every day, travel with him on weekends, go shopping. Therefore, I will not repent, cain. For me, I can start my life wherever I am, but ah zheng only has one. It is not enough to spend so many decades with him, right? "Said pan.

Su fan couldn' t help but laugh.

From the first time she met pan rong and zhang zheng, she could tell that the two of them had a tacit understanding and love for each other. However, she did not expect it to be like this ...

"Cain ..." Pan rong looked at su fan and called out to her.

"Yes. "Said su fan.

"There is a saying, I say, you can, don't be angry. "Said pan.

"What will? Sister - in - law. "Said su fan.

"I think, do you worship gargle more, worship more than love? "Said pan.

Su fan was stunned.

"In fact, every woman would inevitably have feelings of adoration towards the man she loves, especially someone like you and me, whose husband is older than us. Worship, in fact, is a kind of love, I think. "But when you worship him too much, you just keep looking up to him. When you look up at him, you wonder if you're not good enough and you're not good enough. It's a pressure on you and a burden on him. Your personality, in particular, is the kind of person who hides things in his heart -"

"How did you know about me?" Su fan interrupted pan rong.

Pan rong smiled and said," I' ve been in business for so many years. If I couldn' t see through anyone, I would' ve been cheated to death long ago. "

Su fan smiled. Yes, that's right. Pan rong's social experience was much older than her age.

"Shuqing also knows your personality. When you doubt yourself like this, he always knows about it. He won' t tell you because he knows that once he does, he will put more pressure on you. So he can only watch and be anxious, so he will tell you that he doesn' t need you to manage any relationships for him. He can handle anything. "Said pan.

Su fan fell silent.

"Cain, shuqing is a man worthy of your adoration and adoration. However, your excessive love will put a lot of pressure on him. It's invisible pressure. You think you don't have the confidence to face him, you'll be at a loss. In fact, he will be, too. He'll be worried about what he said unintentionally to make you doubt you and put pressure on you, so he'll be very careful to face you. His work pressure is already very big, the environment is so complex, and will become more and more complex, deal with outside affairs, return home and carefully face you, do you think he can bear it? Even iron man couldn' t last long! "Said pan.

Su fan did not expect this and fell into deep thought.

"If he feels stressed here, as a person, he will always want to release his pressure. Maybe he will slowly leave you. I don't think he's going to stay away from you because you don't have a career, but because he's going to be so careful with you that he's going to stay away from you. He dare not tell you his pressure, he dare not tell you he is in a bad mood, because it will make your mood worse, you will constantly doubt yourself, you will feel that you are not good enough, you did not help him and let him do so. Both of them held their words in their hearts and couldn' t speak to each other. When they couldn' t communicate, their hearts would stay away. "Said pan.

Su fan looked at her quietly.

"What you said to me earlier about that woman, second aunt, and shuqing's words to you, are actually just one aspect. What I said is only one aspect. We are all outsiders, so we don' t know what you want. We don' t know the details of your relationship with him, and we don' t know how you feel. What to do with your problems, you have to figure it out. It's just, what I want to tell you is that I've never been confident, but because I love that person so much, I don't think there's anything I can't accept, and that's normal. Every couple has their own way of getting along, like second aunt and second uncle is one, but that one is not suitable for you, because you are not second aunt, you can not be second aunt. Ah zheng and I are just our own way of getting along. You are not me, and you may not be able to do this. "Said pan.

Su fan nodded.

"So I asked you, cain, what is your ideal in your heart? What kind of person do you want to be? Only if you understand this can you find your own way and know what to do. You tell me about your career, in fact, regardless of career or what, we women want to live a full life of their own, never forget to improve their own life, this is not only to be able to stand by that man on an equal footing, but also to make their life is not wasted. To put it in extreme, we have become good enough people, why care about the people around us? It would be a man with a sense of crisis in his heart. "Said pan rong with a smile.

Su fan also smiled slightly.

"I have heard of some of the marriages before gargle. Because of that marriage, he may not like you to be a strong woman like his ex-wife, but you can still be a strong woman, but when you do your own business, you can not forget that you are still another person's wife. "Said pan.

On the way home from the hospital, su fan fell into deep thought. She had been thinking about pan rong's words.

Every couple had their own way of getting along, their parents had their own way, pan rong and zhang zheng had their own way, and she and huo shuqing must have their own way, different from their parents, different from pan rong and zhang zheng, and perhaps different from many people. Because everyone is unique, and every couple, too.

However, what should she do?

When she returned home, her mother called fang xiyu's mother and went to the fang family home.

After staying at home for a while, su fan went out for a walk.

She wanted to clear her mind and find her own future and path.

Walking out of the house, she didn' t know where to go. As she walked, she unconsciously walked to the wall of the forbidden city.

Looking at the time, it was still early, so she went in line to buy a ticket.

The forbidden city, no matter when, was filled with many people, and there was hardly any off-season peak.

Su fan followed the crowd into the high door hole and walked into the wide front square of the hall. The majestic palace, red walls and yellow tiles, no matter how many years had passed, had been looking down at the people at their feet.

As they walked through the palace, su fan stopped to take a few photos of the palace pavilion. However, the photos were filled with people, but it didn' t matter. As she walked, she seemed to feel something.

The women of all ages seem to be worried about one thing: the relationship between husband and wife. Whether it is the polygamous past or the monogamous present, women, care about, always only one thing.

In the winter palace, the cold wind was bleak, and it looked even colder. Even though the crowd was surging, su fan still felt the cold.

The ancient concubines lived here and got that man's favor, which was equivalent to guaranteeing glory. However, how many people could win the favor of the king? How many people are truly happy when they get their hands on them?

What about women now?

Family life was always the most important thing for a woman. No matter how hard she fought outside, she would eventually return to her family. However, in today's society, family was also important to men and women. Nonetheless, women are far more responsible in the family than men.

Su fan lay on the stone railing and quietly looked into the distance.

Huo shuqing knew very well that she couldn' t be a mother, so he didn' t expect her to run anything for him. She couldn' t become fang xiyu and pan rong.

So, what kind of person should she be?

The wind beside her ears seemed to be blowing from a hundred years ago, and her thoughts were also shuttling back and forth.