Uncle, Don't Flirt with Me!

Fang xi looked at her mother.

Because nothing in this world is perfect, and no one is perfect. When we fall in love with someone, we fall in love with the qualities that we want to love, the qualities that attract us, whether good or bad. However, people can change, no matter who, we will change the needs and requirements of that person at different stages. When you don't get him, you think you can just be with him, even if he doesn't love you as much as you love him, you just want him. When you get married and you get him to be his wife, you want to have him completely, even the ones you didn't have before you got married. It is normal, it is not wrong, because you and he is a community, you are married to bear the wind and rain, bear a family or even the rise and fall of the family, his prosperity is your development, his decline is your decline, you are inseparable. However, some people, he does not like to give everything to the other side, for example, your father, such as your father-in-law, and, ah quan, and your sister-in-law, a lot of people, are like this -" mother said.

Fang xiiu was stunned.

Did her mother also know about zeng quan and su fan's ...

As her mother said this, she sighed deeply," I won' t talk about other people's matters. Tell me about your father and I." In the beginning, after xia xue's incident, I have been thinking, why am I so good to your father and everything goes according to him, and he still likes other women? You know your father's character. He's different from your father-in-law in matters like men and women. He's not that -" she paused.

Fang xiiu also understood what his mother meant. Zeng yuanjin was indeed more promiscuous than his father in the past, and Roman Tam yin was not the first woman that zeng yuanjin had cheated on. She only got one from him in the end. And father -

"Your father likes to read, and he is very boring. I don' t know what to say to him many times, so I don' t understand why he would fall for such a woman. Men, it's okay to go out and provoke women. It's a man's nature. If he's done playing, he will naturally come back home. However, once his heart goes out, he won't be able to come back. Like your dad, he just can't come back. When I went to pay my respects to your mother-in-law, I thought, if it weren' t for xia xue's death, maybe I would be like your mother-in-law and would have gone to that world long ago. "Said the mother, sighing.

Fang xihu did not say a word.

"However, I would also like to think, if I were to blame your father-in-law and mother-in-law on your father, would I accept Roman Tam yin like your mother-in-law? I wouldn't. Because your mother-in-law loves your father-in-law so much, and I, even if I love your father, I can't do that. So every time I think about it, I feel like I won. At least I got your dad. Even if he doesn't love me, I don't care. What about the woman he loves? Isn' t he dead? I've never had the chance to be with your dad in my life. "Said the mother.

"Do you really think you have won? "Asked the daughter.

Mother shook her head.

"No one loses or wins in this kind of thing. Unless someone like your father-in-law and Roman Tam yin becomes a real fruit, everyone else will be hurt. Who won? Did I win or did xia xue win? Sometimes I think I won because fang mubai's wife is me, not xia xue. However, sometimes when I look at your father contemplating, I always feel that he is thinking about xia xue.maybe he may not be thinking about it, but I will doubt it.that is my heart knot. "Said the mother.

Her mother's words were the same as fang xiiu's mentality for many years. Every time she looked at zeng quan, who was deep in thought, she would feel that he was thinking of su fan. She even wanted to ask him what he was thinking, but she couldn' t ask him. In that case, wouldn' t it seem that she was too lacking in measure? She couldn' t ask, but the longer the time, the stronger the knot in her heart was, and it couldn' t be undone.

"Shihu, as long as you get what you want, so what if you compromise? "Said the mother, looking at her.

Fang xiyu fell into deep thought.

"If I don' t compromise and divorce your father, of course, I can divorce too. However, what happened after they left? I don't even have a chance to make it back. I won't have a second chance. You know, once two people get divorced, it's hard, it's hard to walk together again, you have more choices, and you forget how you felt. "Said the mother.

Fang xiyu nodded.

"But, you and my father are not divorced, and my father is not ..." Fang xi said.

What she wanted to say was that fang mubai did not fall in love with his mother, or love his mother like xia xue.

Mother smiled.

"I'm sorry, mom. "Said fang.

"Yes, I did not succeed, but I did not fail. Now, your father and I may not be as close as your father-in-law and Roman Tam yin, but we can still live, right? If we get divorced -" said the mother.

"If you get divorced, you may meet someone who truly loves you. "Said fang.

"What are the odds? "Said the mother." Some people do meet true love after divorce, but more people? Marriage becomes a living thing. And, have you ever thought about it, how can you be sure you know someone who has lived with you for so many years and you're not even sure you know him well enough to make him fall in love with you? Feelings, they hurt the most. Every time they fell in love, it was like peeling a layer of skin. It was very painful to peel the skin, but could it become beautiful after the pain? Who knew? Everything is unknown. "

"Do you mean that no matter how hard it is, no matter how cold the marriage is, it should continue? "Asked fang.

The mother shook her head and looked at her daughter." No matter whether it's divorce or not, no choice is completely good or completely bad. The lesser of the two evils, you can only think so. What is most important to you is to make a choice based on this. For me, I want to find another chance to reconcile with your father, so I won' t divorce him. I can only compromise. I didn' t give up the chance to choose happiness because I know that only when I am with you and your father will I be happy. Even if he won' t accompany me for breakfast and shopping, I am still his wife. I still have time with him. "

Fang xihu lowered his head.

Compromise? Was she going to compromise too?

The lesser the two evils, then, divorce, give him to ying or other women no longer light, or continue to live with him, and -

After thinking for a while, fang xiyu said to his mother," mom, ah quan ..."

Mother looked at fang xihu.

"Mother, I want to divorce him. "Said the daughter.

Mother was silent for a long time.

Seeing that his mother did not speak, fang xihu asked," do you think I did something wrong?" "

"Just like I said earlier, divorce or not is not the best option. It's just that you have to think about what's most important to you. Once you think about it clearly, you will know what to do. "Said the mother.

"Do you think I will compromise? "Said fang.

"You know what you want in your heart, so go ahead and do it. No matter what choice you make, you can' t regret it. Once you step out, you can' t take it back. "Said the mother.

Fang xihu fell silent.

Mother looked at her.

At some point, her mother held her head, and fang xihua looked up at her mother.

"Since you love him so much, don't give up. "Said the mother earnestly.

Fang xiiu closed her eyes, her eyes filled with tears. She nodded and rested her head in her mother's arms.

The mother did not say that her daughter's suffering over the years, how could a mother not know about it? However, because she knew her daughter too well, she knew that her daughter was unwilling to say anything.

"You have done well over the years, and ah quan will understand. "Said the mother.

Yeah, he'll understand.

"But, the happiness that comes from compromise is not what I want. Mom, I don't want to -" fang xi said.

"You knew it when you married him, didn't you? So what's going on now and what's going on with you? "Asked the mother.

Fang xihu did not say a word.

Mother sat in the chair beside her and took out a tissue to wipe her tears.

"What you want, you have to protect him with all your might. If you give him to someone else, you will only resent yourself and him for the rest of your life. Do you want to live like this? "Asked the mother.

Fang xihu did not say a word.

Yes, if she let zeng quan out, she would really hate herself. Ying zhi was such a strong person.if ying zhi wanted to compete with her, how could she win?

However, was the second best happiness still happiness?

Initially, she thought that she would make him forget su fan, so she chose the marriage. Mother was right. Has the situation changed, and the past? No. So, does she have the strength to walk the past again?

"I just want a pure love. I can compromise like this. I, I don't want it. I can't take it anymore ..." Fang xihu said.

"Is there pure love in this world? "Asked the mother.

Fang xi looked at her mother.

"Yes, there is indeed. Just like your father and xia xue, because they didn' t get it, they didn' t have the chance to be together again, so it was pure love. But what are the chances of pure love surviving? Your father and xia xue, did their love result? No, their result was that xia xue was dead.your father felt that he had killed xia xue, and that was because he lived in guilt for the rest of his life. Now, do you think your dad loves xia xue, or does he feel sorry for xia xue? After so many years, he could only live in his own fantasy. He could only remember the past, imagine their beauty, and nothing else. "Said the mother.

Fang xiiu was speechless.

It is a tragedy to sing about love for a thousand years. Only tragedy can spread. Whether it was Romeo and Juliet, liang shanbo, Zhu Yingtai, or her father and gu xiaonan's mother.

"Love without marriage is just a castle in the air. When it comes to love in marriage, problems will arise. So, sheehu, you can think like this, think of a pure love, but, you know, you can't get such a love. "Said the mother.

"Why? "Asked fang.

"Because you are fang mubai's daughter! "Said the mother," you are not destined for pure love! Whether you chose ah quan, or yiheng, or someone else! "

Fang xihu was stunned!