The queen's mouth is open

Chapter 2390

Although there are flowers all year round, spring flowers grow best. If you miss it, you have to wait another year.

"Okay, I might go back next month."

Jiang Xiaobai thought of the Gufeng Grand Ceremony, so he could take advantage of that time to go home.

The two chatted for a while, and after they became a family, the content of their conversation was no longer limited to the friends around them.

Li Wei talked a lot about her little troubles after marriage, as well as some trivial things in life.

She said that after going to the garden, she wanted to pick a bunch of flowers herself, make a small bouquet of them, and take beautiful pictures with them in her hand.

When the flowers are in full bloom, they are made into dried flowers with a desiccant, put in jars, and placed on the desk in my office to watch from time to time.

He also said that Dongdong has become popular recently, and he has taken on a lot of jobs, and he can't even go home. Because of this, Jiang's father and Jiang's mother seem a little listless.

"When I give birth to a child, my parents will probably have somewhere to put their energy... Xiaobai, what do you think will happen when Dongdong sees a baby? Will it bully the baby?"

He also talked about Jiang Zhiyi's seriousness in treating this child, checked a lot of information in private, and even found a way to sneak into a treasure mother group.

"He was afraid that I would have postpartum depression. He checked and found that the two months after giving birth, especially the first month, is the high incidence of postpartum depression. He said that he would not live in the confinement center at that time, but live at home. The environment is better than the confinement center. He is going to invite his sister-in-law, a nutritionist, and a postpartum therapist to take care of me at home. He also plans to find a "nanny" for the child. Fun...and said that the child doesn't need me to take care of it, he and our parents will take care of me first, and then the child..."

Jiang Xiaobai listened quietly to Li Wei talking to him, and responded softly from time to time.

She smiled, and the corners of her mouth were always raised.

The circle she is in is very impetuous, a sensual scene full of fame and fortune, everyone wears masks to communicate with each other, and they are secretly competing with each other when chatting.

Because of the busy work, everyone chats in a hurry, and it is rare to have such a quiet time to chat and share their thoughts.

Li Wei's intimate chat with relatives and friends is a moment that Jiang Xiaobai feels very warm.

And some things may not be good for Li Wei to tell Jiang Zhiyi all, and some sisters can only confide to friends.

Everyone is a circle. When you get along with a person, you have to find the intersection of your circle and his circle. This is the main area of ​​communication between you.

Other things will be discussed beyond this range, but obviously a lot less.

This scope is like an "examination outline", and everything in it can be discussed in detail, and can be discussed in depth, and each other can understand each other.

If you exceed it, it will be classified as "super outline". When you say it, you are afraid that the other party will not understand, so you will subconsciously simplify this part of the content, and only pick some things that you find interesting to tell the other party.

But because of this simplification, it will cause the other party to have some obstacles when listening, and may not remember clearly, or the memory may be confused.

For example, if Jiang Xiaobai chats with Li Biying, he will talk more specific, such as XX actor, XX director, XX and XX may be hyping for a new play recently, XX and XX in his crew have old grievances, etc.

When they talk, they will bring the name of the person, be clear and specific, and know each other well, but if Jiang Xiaobai tells Jiang's mother the same thing, it may be simplified to "two people in our crew are not easy to deal with and always quarrel."

The reverse is also the same. When Jiang's mother chats with Jiang Xiaobai, she will definitely bring the names of relatives and friends. For example, the daughter of XX's family has recently given birth to three children, and XX's son likes men and plans to never get married for the rest of his life.

If Jiang Xiaobai wants to talk to Li Biying about this kind of thing, he will simplify it to "I have a relative whose daughter gave birth to three children."

In this case, Li Biying listened, but she didn't seem to listen... Because she couldn't match the "daughter of a relative" with the real name and appearance of this person, so she might not remember it clearly or forget it quickly.

The more intersections two people have, the wider the scope of the outline and the more tacit understanding. Often you say the beginning of the line, and the other party can already find the end of the line.

The advantage of this is that the relationship between the two will be closer and understand each other better.

But there are also disadvantages, that is, you will lose the freshness, the other person and her social circle are completely transparent to you, and you will gradually lose the desire to explore and understand her daily behavior, and even lose it after a long time. The desire to share their own lives.

It's fine if you're friends, but it's bad to a certain extent if you're a couple.

Any kind of intimacy, if you lose the desire to share, will take a turn for the worse.

Li Wei's mother once reminded her: You and Xiao Yi are husband and wife, but they are also two individuals, independent people, you should not be too attached to him, if you want to talk about some topics, you can talk to me, or your friends .

If you are not together, the other party must pay for all your negative emotions, and it is not that you have to be with each other all the time and let the other party fill every corner of your life.

It's like if you want to go shopping, you don't have to force your partner to go with you. You can go with your friends who love shopping.

If you force him, he will be very unhappy. Even if you force him to go, he will feel that he has made a sacrifice and paid a lot for you.

But in your opinion, it's just "we went out and went shopping".

But if you're looking for friends, both of you will have a good time hanging out, and your partner will have some private time to relax.

Li Wei may not have done well, but she already has this awareness.

Respecting each other and being able to consider each other is the key to staying together for a long time. Li Wei loves Jiang Zhiyi very much, and she doesn't want their love to be ruined in such a small place.

After chatting for a while, Li Wei felt refreshed, and Jiang Xiaobai also took a break from his busy schedule, experiencing the fireworks of life.

After hanging up the phone, Jiang Xiaobai exhaled.

The family in the previous life is out of reach, but she will try her best to take care of the family in this world, together with "her".

Just as he was about to continue performing the main roles in the script, he received a message from Luo Luo, who was obsessed with Hanfu.

"Miss Bai, how did I hear that you might go to the ancient festival, is this true?"

Jiang Xiaobai was taken aback when he saw the news, and replied: "There is such a thing, did the organizer announce it?"

"No no, they didn't make it official, but a few people got the message anyway. Goodness, then we can meet again!"

Luo Luo was very happy. He met Jiang Xiaobai and Xiaohong when she was young, and witnessed her all the way from Xiaohong to Zhonghong, and then to Dahong.

(End of this chapter)