Poor family mother and son

Chapter 255 Chu Qing "Lying Gun"

Youzhi County has benefited a lot in the past six months.

It's nothing to start a sideline business for the common people and attract business and investment. It's something that almost every official will do. The real benefit is the "management experience" brought by the boys under Chu Qing.

These young people have a good grasp of the psychology of the people, how to rectify those who love to take advantage, how to reward those who are hardworking, and how to deal with those who harm interests, which is more neat than him, the magistrate.

According to this development momentum, it is only a matter of time before Huai'an County "gets out of poverty and becomes rich".

When the county magistrate of Huai'an County was chewing fat sausages, and the more he chewed, the more delicious he was, the magistrate of Xingtang County was also eating dinner, which tasted like chewing wax.

What's going on?Because of the increase in divorce proceedings.

In Daxuan, there are four ways to divorce.

The first type is to divorce his wife, or call out his wife.

If one or more of the "seven outs" are committed, the wife can be divorced.Of course, if any of the conditions in the "three don'ts" are met, that is, the woman has nowhere to go, has mourned for her parents-in-law for three years, is relatively filial, and has experienced poverty and prosperity with her husband, she cannot divorce her wife.

The second type, separation
If the husband and wife feel that the three views are not in harmony, life is difficult, or they each find true love, and if they reach an agreement, they can go to the government together to go through the formalities.

The third is to file for divorce.

If one party wants to divorce and the other party is unwilling, as long as there are reasonable reasons for divorce, the government will accept it, and after a trial, the two will be forcibly ordered to divorce.

The fourth type is righteousness.

The family of the man and the woman has conflicts, even great hatred, and there is no way to continue to be a husband and wife, and they are forced to divorce.

Recently, most of Xu Guangze's contacts are of the third type, which is to sue for divorce.

Who is fine and not doing serious things every day, and breaking the divorce lawsuit for others?
"I'm so fucking full!" Xu Guangze drank the tea in one gulp, and put the teacup on the table.

"My lord, if this goes on like this, it won't work. I can't solve one or two cases a day, and it will take a lot of time and effort. It's a waste of money and people!" The master was also frowning.

For a divorce case, the yamen cannot hastily approve or reject it. It must first mediate, and if the mediation fails, it must visit their families according to the opinions of both parties.

Everything is well-founded, and the two families who are quarreling with each other have to be bombarded with high decibels to reach an agreement on child custody and property distribution, and then get the elders of both parties to sign and pledge, and then change the household registration to reach a divorce. .

Divorce is not over. If the woman's family has no males, that is, there is no father or brother to accept her, and a "female household" must be established.

For those who become female households, the county government will also give certain treatment, such as exemption from hard labor.

"I can't go on, it's easy to talk and discuss, can't we have a decent reunion?!" Xu Guangze forgot that the cup was empty, picked it up and poured it into his mouth. There was nothing, and he was even more angry.

The master hurriedly refilled the tea: "It's all Chu Qing's fault! If she hadn't wandered in front, how could these women follow behind and act like demons!"

Xu Guangze: "What do you mean?"

Master: "No, she makes soybean oil, and the whole county grows soybeans; she opens a textile workshop, and the whole county washes wool and plucks cotton; now she's running a food court, well, the whole county has started raising chickens and pigs again. , sell it to Huaian County..."

Xu Guangze was very emotional: "Oh, it's only been a few years, and Chu Qing has done so many great things!"

Master: "My lord, I mean, she has done so many things, yes, the common people have made a lot of money, but their hearts are also impetuous, those girls think they can make money, so they jump Get up, crying and shouting to file for divorce!"

The master has his own reasons for saying this. His daughter-in-law has been "restless" recently and threatened to divorce, which made him and his wife very angry.

Xu Guangze looked at the master with deep meaning, and asked: "It seems that what Chu Qing did is not a good thing?"

The master said: "It's not that what she did was bad, but at least as a woman, she shouldn't show her face in public, so she should just stay at home.

But take a look, how many families are uneasy now?Country girls, fourteen or fifteen years old, clamoring to refuse to marry; those who are married clamoring not to accept concubines! "

That's right, most of these divorcees are unwilling to let their husbands take concubines.

When people have spare money, they naturally think of having more children and more blessings.The elders will persuade women to have more children.

There is nothing wrong with having children, women in ordinary families are not expensive, and pregnancy does not delay labor.

But what the women couldn't stand was that their men took concubines.Just saved a few taels of silver in your hand, and you want to live a dandy life of "sleeping with a big quilt"?
The two families that quarreled Xu Guangze so much that he had a headache today are very representative.

The woman was worthless by her husband's family: "When I married you, your family couldn't even afford a dowry;
Besides, you are not beautiful, it would be a disadvantage for our family to marry you;

It has been seven years now, and you have given birth to three girls. Why can't my son take a concubine?
You can't give birth to a son, what's wrong with my son getting a few back to give birth to a son?
She still has the face to mention separation, it would be nice to give you a letter of divorce after thinking about it!If you take the first one out of seven, you will have it, and you will have no children! "

The natal family is also not easy to bully: "As the saying goes: a family of women, hundreds of families seek, no matter how poor my family is, no matter how ugly my daughter is, I will not worry about marrying her!
What's more, why did my daughter become ugly? She is not a juicy person, but she is tired, tired, and sick when she comes to your house?
Why didn't you give your daughter a dowry?We really like your family, even if we borrow money, we will buy some dowry for our children, just because we don't like it!
Your family style is not good!

We don't agree, your kid just spends time in our village every day, and even mobilized our village chief to intercede. After a long time, my daughter's reputation has been ruined, and that's how it's cheap for your kid!
Ever since my daughter came to your house, she has worked hard and worked hard, and she has never eaten a full meal!
What's more, your family treats my daughter like a cow and horse, whose wife goes to the field with a hoe?You can do this kind of thing!
Want to divorce my daughter, no way!Why are you childless? You have a face. Tell me why you have no children?My daughter is pregnant with her first child, because of what miscarriage?

In the winter, you asked her to fetch water with her four-month-old fetus to bathe your alcoholic son!The well was so slippery, she fell, had a miscarriage, and became a well-shaped boy! "

While talking, my mother began to cry: "Is it because my girl gave birth to a son? It's because your family doesn't accumulate virtue, so you deserve to have no children!

What did you do to her?Heartbroken!We paid our own money to take our daughter back to raise her, and send her back after more than half a year.

Ask your sons, how many times have you been outside stealing?That is to say, you have no money, so you have to steal fish everywhere, and if you fail to steal, you will be beaten to death!
My daughter will continue to be your family's cow and horse!Don't say anything else, let's just say that in the past few years, my daughter has been working outside in order to feed the children, and you will treat her better when you see the money!

Now that you have money in your hands, you want to take concubines. If my daughter disagrees, you will beat her up!
You don't need to discuss with us, we don't care how much you like to marry, just marry and leave!

If you don't get along, then file a complaint and let the magistrate make the decision for us! "

Women of the two families quarreled with women, men scolded men, and couples who hadn't divorced broke up in court.

Not only this family, but also those who filed for divorce are like this. The woman thinks: I have worked hard to have children, work to earn money, work more than cows, and eat less than chickens!
Oh, life is better, either I think I’m not good-looking or I want to have more sons, so I want to take a concubine, I want to spend the money I earn, order my people, beat my baby, and want me to fuck Happy to serve you and your little wife!

The man just said: Marry and obey your husband!
Those who dare to come to the court for divorce are not ordinary women, they have their own confidence: "I can make money by myself, raising children is not a problem, and I can live better!
You don't have to look at the faces of your family, it's even happier!I will treat myself as a widow!Who can leave and who can't live?

Look at Master Chu, that is a role model for our women!Orphans and widows not only make a lot of money, but also become high officials! "

Chu Qing just "lyed down the gun".

(End of this chapter)