Poor family mother and son

Chapter 256 Are All Ruthless
In fact, there are two main reasons why men do not want to get together.

[-]. Divorce means that the woman is at fault, but divorce means that the man is at fault, or both parties are at fault, which is too shameful.

Second, the dowry must be returned to the woman after the separation, which is an economic loss.

For ordinary people, no matter how small the dowry is, it is still property, and returning it is a great loss, not to mention, most of them will not return it.

When getting married, in order to support the appearance, the husband's family may have to borrow money for the dowry and banquets, and this money will be deducted from the savings of the young couple.

What savings can a newly married couple have?Isn't it the dowry brought by the woman?If the in-laws were more shrewd and exploited little by little, there would be nothing left of this dowry.

Women now have access to money, and earn more than men.

As far as the weaving workshops are concerned, most of the workers are now women.There are far fewer people who make full use of the strength of cotton than spinning, weaving, and weaving woolen clothes and trousers.

Moreover, these jobs that women are engaged in are all high-profit jobs, and they naturally make more money than men.

If you can make money, you can straighten your waist, and you will no longer be so afraid of your in-laws, and your in-laws will be less and less able to control them.

Besides, taking a concubine is not so easy.First of all, the family's money must be used, and then the wife's consent must be obtained.

If the wife does not agree and the concubine comes back, but the wife refuses to bow down to recognize her identity, then she is just a bought servant girl, of low status, and she is also a slave after giving birth to a son.

Besides, after getting married and divorced, how much loss would it be without the money earned by his wife?
In this way, men wanted to take concubines under the banner of "giving birth to a son", and their parents agreed, but their wives disagreed, and conflicts arose.

The so-called "economic base determines the superstructure".

It is an objective fact to be able to make money, and it is the common thought of all women not to share their husbands with others.In fact, there is nothing difficult to understand. Aren't men unwilling to share their wives with others?
Marriage and obedience to husbands are constraints from society and do not conform to the wishes of everyone, at least, it does not conform to the wishes of women.

Chu Qing didn't know that such a thing would happen, and she was shot innocently.

If you know it, you must be wronged.

She didn't come here to engage in "equality between men and women", let alone "advocate women's rights".

She herself was just groping for her own way of survival in this feudal society.

Winning the plaque of "Jing Biao Filial Piety" is not because she is adhering to the "consistent" moral standard, but just to avoid trouble.

Besides, people who are not from one world do not have a soul from one world.This world doesn't fit her three views at all. How can she find someone who can start a family here?
What Xu Guangze is most worried about is not how to resolve their divorce lawsuit, but the impact, the impact on society.

After this batch of divorce lawsuits is over, there will be more divorce cases, right?While Chuqing's industry has brought good results to the county government, it has also given women the confidence to pursue equal rights.

He doesn't object to women asking for divorce, if they can't make it through, they leave. Those men are not fun, after all, most men still manage their small lives in a down-to-earth manner.

But he is worried about the follow-up effects of these divorce lawsuits, such as instability of husband's power, marriage competition for wealth, and so on.

Originally, divorce refers to the result of the choice of separation between the two parties after the relationship between the two parties is broken. Separation should be a means, and its ultimate and fundamental purpose is to maintain social stability.

The legal divorce system is a way to stop losses in time to prevent family feuds and family struggles when a marriage is broken.

However, if a region or a country has always had a high divorce rate, it is not conducive to development.

That will lead to an increase in the cost of marriage and an increase in the threshold for divorce.

How to raise the divorce threshold?Naturally, the two sides proposed more exchange of interests.

Marriage is a "good relationship between two surnames". This "good" is not only about establishing a family relationship between two families, but more about a relationship of interests.

For ordinary people, if your family has a butcher, my family can eat free meat; if my family has a doctor, your family does not need to pay for medical treatment.This is the relationship of interest.

Xu Guangze shook his head, as if he could get rid of his troubles, and said to the master: "These cases will be delayed for a month first, let them go home and think clearly before coming back, and if they come, they are not allowed to make trouble, and if they make trouble again, they will press it." Roaring court 'deal with, beat them board!"

"Yes!" The master took the order and turned to go out to execute it. Xu Guangze stopped him again: "Bring over the contract documents of your son acting as an agent for the soybean oil factory, and I will help you cancel it."

"Ah?" The master didn't understand why, "My lord, what is the meaning of this?"

Xu Guangze: "Didn't you say that what Chu Qing did was not a good thing?"

The master knelt down with a "plop": "My lord! I was wrong!"

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Xiaobao finished his inspection tour in Huai'an County, so he sent You Zhenghang home safely, so he went back home.

Back at Chu House in Jizhou, I met my little friends. It was really a long time no see, and I miss them very much.

A few of the friends also passed the college examination and became famous as scholars. They planned to go to Xinlunzhou to find Xiaobao, but they heard that he and his mother had some troubles, so they didn't dare to make trouble.

Seeing Xiaobao come back safely this time, I am very concerned.

Not wanting to worry the little friends, Xiaobao simply said what he could say, focusing on his daily life with You Zhenghang.

The friends had been to Xinlunzhou once, and now they heard that You Zhenghang was going there in the name of a study tour, and they all expressed their desire to go through the study tour procedures.

Pei Qing said: "Study tour is still secondary. We want to go to Aunt Chu to thank Aunt Chu most. Without Aunt Chu's support, it is impossible for us to study in a down-to-earth manner without worry."

Xiaobao waved his hand chicly: "That's unnecessary, it's too strange, you can study at ease, go on a study tour if you want, if you really want to thank my mother, then wait until you get your titles on the gold list."

After seeing the friends, he prepared gifts to visit Xu Guangze, who were all his mother's former leaders. He also enthusiastically made a scene for his brothers when they got married, and wanted to walk around like relatives.

I didn't expect to see Xu Guangze, but I saw his depressed face, and he said while chatting: "Your mother has given me a big problem!"

Xu Guangming is very cheerful and open-minded. He does not treat Xiaobao as a child, but as a peer, and seriously talks about the troubles about the divorce lawsuit.

Xiaobao had stayed in Wukeshu Village, and although he didn't understand what marriage was, he didn't think there was anything wrong with getting a divorce.

It's just that since Xu Guangze said that these women all take Chu Qing as a role model, Xiaobao feels a little like letting his mother take responsibility.

"These people! Their divorce is because they can't live on their own, so what are you doing with my mother!" Xiaobao said dissatisfied.

Xu Guangze pushed the snack plate to Xiaobao's side: "I don't blame them, after all, they can see and touch your mother, and besides, they don't know anyone else."

Don't blame them, but blame my mother?Xiaobao is not satisfied with this statement.

Taking Niangqin as a role model, Xiaobao has no objection, but Niangqin is a woman who is an official, and she has been criticized by the officialdom. The remarks of these women can easily bring more resentment from the people, which will be detrimental to Niangqin's reputation.

Since the mother has been involved, the son can't ignore it.

Xiaobao said: "What a big deal, I still worry about you like this!"

Xu Guangze: "The tone is not small! Can you solve it?"

Xiaobao said: "What should I solve? It's going to rain, mother wants to marry, everyone has their own choice. But well," Xiaobao turned to look at Zhuo Yao: "Ah yes, pass on the message: Let our family The shopkeepers of all transactions will settle the wages of the divorced parties and their respective families, and will not be employed within three years."

Zhuo Yao asked, "What's the reason?"

Xiaobao: "My boss asked for a reason! I don't trust that such a person can guarantee the quality of workmanship!"

Xu Guangze patted his thigh: "Arrogant! This action not only makes them treat marriage and family more cautiously, but also prevents careless workmanship due to family turmoil and lack of thought, or cutting corners in a hurry to make money.

People who really can't live on, will unite and part under all difficulties. It would be better if they can be restrained. "

Xiaobao said: "Since the trouble is caused by money, let's solve it with money. Anyway, don't involve my mother!"

Xu Guangze curled his lips, thinking that people use your mother as a benchmark, they are praising your mother, and it is not a bad word. Just as he was about to speak, a government official came to report: "My lord, the food court is too messy! Why do you want to stop throwing garbage? Don't listen!

Let the merchants clean up. The merchants said that they did not throw away the garbage, so they didn't care about cleaning it. "

Xu Guangze went to Xinlunzhou to participate in a group wedding, and it was not in vain. He copied his food street to Xingtang County.Stimulate domestic demand.

Xu Guangze imitated Xiaobao's words, and said, "Since the trouble is caused by money, let's solve it with money! Order: littering, fine ten cents!"

Ten Wen is enough to buy a bowl of pure meat wontons.

The Yacha took the order, but Xiaobao stopped him: "Uncle Xu, change it to a fine of five cents!"

Xu Guangze: "Why? With few punishments, who can take it seriously?"

Xiaobao: "With a fine of ten renminbi, there will be less people littering."

Xu Guangze couldn't figure it out: "What do you mean?"

Zhuo Yao interjected: "The fine is too high and there is no money left. Less fine, just give the money to the guards and let them be responsible for cleaning!"

They are all ruthless people!In this family, from top to bottom, not a single lamp is fuel-efficient.

(End of this chapter)