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Chapter 134 "Emotional Value" as "Solution"

Huang Jiaming is not in a good mood recently, and every day when he gets home, his face is sullen, as if he has something hidden in his heart.

Even when playing games and pressing the keyboard, the force is very strong, as if using this method to vent the anger in my heart.

Sheng Yang really wanted to know what happened to him, but every time he saw Huang Jiaming's cold face, he didn't know how to speak.

On this day, when Huang Jiaming was fighting against the screen, Sheng Yang specially brought her stewed Sydney bird's nest in front of him.
Huang Jiaming was a little confused!

After all, he always felt that Sheng Yang was very dissatisfied with him and disliked his playing games, so he kept breaking the pot.

But he didn't want to, now Sheng Yang not only didn't say anything, but also specially brought him bird's nest.

Huang Jiaming didn't eat the bowl of bird's nest, but he quickly ended the game, then went to the bedroom and found Shengyang.

Sheng Yang didn't go straight like before, and didn't make sarcastic remarks, but asked with a faint smile: "Jia Ming, what's going on recently? It seems that you are not in a good mood?"

Huang Jiaming didn't seem to want to say it at first, his lips moved several times, and finally they closed.

He hesitated for about half a minute before finally opening his "golden mouth": "Tell me, if someone is ungrateful, is it not worth dating?"

After hearing this, Sheng Yang was slightly taken aback.

If it was the past, she would definitely ask what happened right away, then make an objective analysis based on the specific events that happened, and finally give a feasible plan.

But this time she didn't, because she had tried this way countless times, and it didn't suit Huang Jiaming at all.Because what Huang Jiaming wants is not a solution, but someone who needs to follow his train of thought, complain according to his mood, and then continue to provide him with emotional value.As for whether the final problem was solved, he didn't seem to care.

So, this time when Huang Jiaming asked such a question, Sheng Yang immediately said: "Of course it's not worth dating!"

Sure enough, a simple sentence aroused Huang Jiaming's emotions, and he immediately asked: "Do you remember Luo Hao, the new college student who joined our company last year?"

"Remember." Sheng Yang frowned while speaking, "What happened to him?"

Luo Hao, Sheng Yang did remember.Three years ago, this person joined Huang Jiaming's company right after graduation. At that time, he was still a young boy who didn't understand anything, so he asked Huang Jiaming for advice on everything, and even asked him to help make connections.Huang Jiaming is straightforward and kind-hearted, so if Luo Hao asks, Huang Jiaming will answer.It can be said that Huang Jiaming has helped Luo Hao a lot these years. Although it is not a big deal, Huang Jiaming has spared no effort in everything.From this point of view, Huang Jiaming can also be regarded as Luo Hao's "benefactor".For a long time, Luo Hao can be regarded as "repaying his kindness", and has always been respectful to Huang Jiaming, sometimes calling Huang Jiaming "Master", and Huang Jiaming is also willing to accept it, calling Luo Hao "apprentice".In short, the master and apprentice have lived together peacefully for so many years, and now there is finally a problem.

Immediately afterwards, Huang Jiaming began to complain: "I have helped Luo Hao a lot these years, but now that he has been promoted and has become my immediate boss, he starts to dislike me. I think he just looked at me before I helped him, but now I don’t like me, and I want to erase his childish and ignorant side.”

After Sheng Yang heard this, he couldn't help but frowned: "Luo Hao got promoted? So soon?"

Huang Jiaming paused, and then said with a look of disdain: "Actually, he's just an assistant to the director, not even a deputy director, so he started to wag his tail."

"Oh." Sheng Yang continued to ask, "Then why do you think Luo Hao treats you like this all of a sudden?"

Huang Jiaming immediately replied: "Didn't I just say that? When I helped him, I witnessed his ignorance and naivety. Now that he has become my boss, I feel unhappy. It is like the ancient emperor who wanted to kill heroes after he came to power. There is a reason."

After hearing this, Sheng Yang suddenly felt a little ridiculous.At the same time, he also felt that Huang Jiaming was really naive.

Everyone goes from youth to maturity, and also grows slowly from new recruits, and gradually takes the "leadership position".And Huang Jiaming's mistake is that when his peers got promoted, he didn't reflect on himself, he would think that he was obviously on the same starting line as others, that he was no worse than others, and that he didn't get promoted because others were lucky.But now, the "latecomer" who joined many years later than him has also been promoted and bosses him around, so he feels even more unbalanced, thinking it is unfair and wronged.But he, from the beginning to the end, refused to admit that he didn't work hard, while others kept running, and in the process of running, they kept looking for opportunities to be superior!

He thinks he is the "hero" of others, but others don't think so!
This is a little ridiculous, but also a little helpless.

However, Sheng Yang didn't smile, he still frowned, and echoed in a calm tone: "What you said just now is indeed reasonable, such a friend is not worth making friends with. However, he is now your immediate boss, and it is really difficult to deal with it." If it were me, I would be very angry and very sad, hey!"

Sheng Yang no longer corrects Huang Jiaming's mistakes like before, but knows that he is wrong, but also finds ways to maintain his "wrong cognition", give him psychological massage, so that he will not fall into panic, and let him feel I have a "like-minded" partner who empathizes with his "encounter".

Sure enough, Huang Jiaming looked up at Sheng Yang, and continued to vent his negative emotions: "If I had known that Luo Hao was such a person, I would never have helped him before! I feel like I have met a white-eyed wolf, and so have I. It's bad luck to become such a person's subordinate!"

After Sheng Yang heard this, he also cooperated with an angry expression: "Indeed. However, I don't think Luo Hao should be so bad. I guess he is a new official now, and his seat has not been secured yet. I feel a little worried and worried. Anxious, so when you see something that doesn't go your way, you will expose your negative emotions. This is a sign of weakness, you don't need to have a psychological burden. You are good at everything, even if you are too old and good at work, you are also a little bit by yourself Good old man was kidnapped. If others ask, you will answer. Over time, others will take your help for granted."

After Huang Jiaming listened, he didn't say anything, as if he was lost in thought.

After a while, Huang Jiaming spoke again: "I also think he is actually very incompetent and knows nothing. He went to report to the leader and couldn't explain clearly, and he was promoted."

After Sheng Yang heard this, he followed Huang Jiaming's words and said: "You can find his weakness, which is also your advantage. I think you are stronger than him, and you may not be able to replace him while he is still seated. impossible."

After hearing this, Huang Jiaming couldn't help being stunned for a moment, and then looked at Shengyang with disbelief.

Sheng Yang smiled faintly, then walked in front of Huang Jiaming, and continued: "He has just been promoted, and he hasn't settled down yet. It's not a bad idea to replace him."

Huang Jiaming was stunned for a while, before hesitating: "How is this possible?"

"Why is this impossible?" Sheng Yang still smiled lightly, his tone was very gentle, "Any company, any person can be replaced! In this world, there is no person or position that cannot be replaced .Also, I just said that letting you replace him does not necessarily mean that he will be kicked out of his current position, and you will take the opportunity to replace him."

"What does that mean?" Huang Jiaming suddenly became interested.

Sheng Yang then analyzed: "What I said to let you go up does not necessarily mean that Luo Hao must be replaced as the assistant to the director. For example, if Luo Hao does not do well, you can make up for it in time, and on the one hand, it will help him. , and at the same time give full play to your ability. If such things keep happening, your ability will definitely be improved. If your ability is improved and you can be independent, the leader will definitely not ignore you. At that time, you will find It’s not a bad idea to have a suitable opportunity to express your thoughts on progress. After all, leaders are very clear-headed, and they all need people who can help them. If you can really do a lot of things well, or practice The ability to solve problems by yourself is not impossible to become Luo Hao's boss in the future. Anyway, you are older than him, have more experience than him, and have more experience than him. It is not impossible to surpass him!"

While talking, Sheng Yang was observing the changes in Huang Jiaming's expression.Huang Jiaming kept frowning, obviously thinking.

Sheng Yang continued: "Jiaming, although you are just a clerk now, you can't just stay at the level of a clerk. While completing your job, you must also consider the overall situation. After all, any small position is for the company. The core interests of the service, that is, the 'global' service."

After hearing this, Huang Jiaming gave a soft "hmm".

Sheng Yang smiled, raised his hand and put it on his shoulder: "Jia Ming, I always thought you were very hardworking and smart. It's just that you didn't find a suitable way before, and you should try to change it later. Thinking, maybe it will soon be clear."

After Huang Jiaming heard this, the corners of his lips moved, and then he looked at Sheng Yang, with imperceptible gratitude in his eyes.

The moment Sheng Yang walked out of the bedroom, he was still thinking: People like Huang Jiaming don't need solutions, they only need emotional value.

For Shengyang, temporarily shielding rational thinking and continuously providing Huang Jiaming with emotional value is the best solution.

After Sheng Yang walked out of the bedroom, he saw Gao Xiaojuan putting food on the table.

Huanhuan looked at the seven bowls and eight dishes on the table, and did not sit down immediately as before, but asked seriously: "Grandma, why do you have so many delicious meals?"

Gao Xiaojuan nodded with a smile: "Huanhuan, isn't it very happy to see grandma cooking so many delicious food?"

Huanhuan listened, thought about it very seriously, and then suddenly sighed: "Greedy is greedy, but not necessarily happy!"

When Gao Xiaojuan heard it, she was instantly confused: "Huanhuan, why aren't you happy that grandma made delicious food?"

Huanhuan thought for a while, and then touched her chubby belly: "If grandma cooks too many delicious dishes, Huanhuan will eat too much. If Huanhuan eats too much, she will become a little fat man. Why don't Huanhuan become a little fat man? Then she won't be a little beauty!"

Gao Xiaojuan listened, laughed and blamed: "How could Huanhuan become a little fat man? You are the most well-proportioned figure, if you are thinner, you will be ugly. Little girls are cute when they are chubby. Like a little apple."

Gao Xiaojuan was talking, and suddenly sang to Huanhuan: "You are my little one, little apple, I can't love you too much"

(End of this chapter)