Supermarket space: marrying a rough man through the ages

When Liu Wenzhu was born, it was obviously not yet the 50s, so the system of polygamy still existed at that time, but the monogamy system has not yet been popularized in some places!

Even if everyone wants to be a couple for a lifetime, the men around them may not necessarily give them a lifetime of romance.

Men are rich, their minds are more active, and they are not willing to have only one woman in their life, but Song Xi is not worried about these things at all. Even if Zhou Yi becomes prosperous in the future, it is not her loss to leave her.

Song Xi and Liu Wenya were not familiar with each other, and the two of them chatted with each other. During this period, Liu Wenya also mentioned her confusion and helplessness about having a second child. Song Xi told her that the one on her due date In May, Wu Zhuhua will invite the midwife to come and live in the village. The midwife will not leave until she gives birth to the child, and the fee for the midwife will be paid by the village.

I have to say that Ping’an Village is really the most humane village in the countryside. Song Xi decided to support Ping’an Village and lead Ping’an Village to start a business and become rich. The most fundamental reason is that Ping’an Village is people-oriented, no matter what you do, All from the point of view of the villagers.

The mother-in-law is reluctant to send her daughter-in-law to the hospital to give birth to a child, and she does not invite a midwife for her daughter-in-law.

After giving birth to a child, no one cares about confinement. Several experienced aunts in the village can give money or things, and everyone will lend a hand. When the child is six months old, he can send it to the nursery.

After listening to Song Xi's words, Liu Wenya finally let go of her dangling heart. It would be good if someone took care of her. She was afraid that she was in a foreign land and would be helpless, and Ping'an Village could solve all her problems for her.

She felt that it was the right decision for her to work hard and integrate into Ping'an Village.

I don't know what Liu Wenya thought again, she suddenly sighed heavily, and then whispered, "This lesbian really must marry someone who likes her, if she wants to marry someone she likes, then It's really humble. In fact, Zhou An and I, I was the first to be tempted by Zhou An. Zhou An didn't like me at all. After that, with the help of my family, I finally successfully married Zhou An. , I originally thought that the relationship is a relationship, as long as we get along well, he will definitely like me..."

Liu Wenya said, she couldn't help crying in a low voice, "But Zhou An told me with practical actions that someone's heart is like a stone in a ditch, stinky and hard..."

"Comrade Liu, in fact, your statement may not be [-]% correct. You said that you want to marry someone who likes you, but who can guarantee how long you will like this love? Is it three years, five years, ten years, or a lifetime? "

Song Xi looked at Liu Wenya, she was not against it, but was analyzing the matter, "Like it is just a feeling, just like we like to eat a certain dish, even if we eat it every day, one day we will get bored, I don’t want to eat anymore, I want to change the taste, so it’s really impossible to say how long I like someone.”

"We can't be sure whether other people like us, or how long this love will last. The most important thing is ourselves. No matter who we marry, if we are bullied and hurt, then we must stand bravely. Come out and protect yourself, if you can't do it yourself, then seek outside help, parents or friends, if these people can't help us, then there are still work units, some institutions, such as the Public Security Bureau..."

"No matter who we marry, whether it's someone we like or someone who likes us, once we enter a marriage relationship, we should not easily give up our careers and the things we like; Don't expect his feedback; once infidelity, you won't use it for life. No matter how reluctant you are, you can't tolerate him making principled mistakes."

"No matter who we marry, lesbians must love themselves more, treat themselves better, eat when they need to, drink when they need to, rest when they need to rest, if you are with this person, there will always be only pain, If only you are wronged, you can choose to separate, the marriage law has been changed a long time ago, and two people who can’t live can be separated, and it doesn’t matter what the unexpected person thinks.”

Liu Wenya nodded thoughtfully. The last point, she could see that there were many lesbians who had divorced and brought children in Ping'an Village, some were older and some were younger, but no one ever pointed them out. It can be said that Ping An Village is a very inclusive place. Of course, the premise is that no mistakes can be made.

Once you make a mistake, you will be severely punished.

"Of course, before marriage, when choosing a marriage partner, you must keep your eyes open and find a person with good character and three views, even if it takes a long time, no feelings, separation, character and three views let him do it Don’t do anything that hurts you, so you can get together and leave, and you can walk around as friends or relatives in the future, after all, there are children, if you make trouble, the fish will die and the net will be broken, it will also be a great harm to the children.”

A man with good character and upright outlook, even if his relationship breaks down, he can't do anything to deliberately snatch the child, prevent the mother from visiting the child, or not pay child support.

You must know that in modern times, many women have to spend a lot of money in exchange for custody of their children after divorce. Even if they have custody, the father of the child will not pay a penny for child support.

Divorce to have children, it will be very hard for a mother to work alone to earn money to raise children, but divorce does not want children, and children without the protection of their mothers are the most pitiful.

In modern times, it's not that she hasn't seen the fact that her father becomes a stepfather and that her father hurts her own children in order to make women happy. She often sees on the news that her stepmother abuses her ex-wife's children, while her father is watching.

There is also a stepmother who is afraid that the ex-wife's child will compete with her child for the family property, so she secretly kills.

Some things rarely have the best of both worlds, so you can only rely on yourself to keep your eyes open from the source and avoid risks as much as possible.

Listening to Song Xi's words, Liu Wenya has a feeling that "listening to your words is better than reading ten years of books". If she had been more rational, she would not have ignored Zhou An's shortcomings, and would not have insisted on being with him. Well, then I won't be so miserable now.

If those little sisters in my hometown and those who used to like her knew that her marriage life was like this, I don't know how they would laugh at her!

When Liu Wenya took Zhou Yinuo to leave, Song Xi closed the courtyard door and pushed the latch. She would not meddle in Liu Wenya's affairs.

Anyway, the village will take good care of her. In short, she and Liu Wenya can't get along with each other.

Zhou Yi came out of the stove, "Is someone gone?"