The days when I was an obstetrician and gynecologist in Chang'an

Chapter 406 Love yourself before you can love others

Li Sanniang didn't answer Sun Wenpo's question directly, but instead talked about her own affairs.

"After giving birth to Luzhu'er, I made up my mind that it will take at least two years before I can conceive again.

After all, the child needs the mother the most before the age of three, and it takes at least a year for a girl's body to adjust after giving birth.

And, for those of you who have been stable women for many years, think about it, is it true that women who have conceived children one after another are usually not in good health?The child born is not very healthy, more thin? "

Li Sanniang's perspective made the women present who had given birth doubtful, and they all began to recall the situation of the women who delivered babies in the past.

"This is really the case!

There are those who conceived another child just after confinement, and the difference between the second child and the first child is less than one year.

What happened to the child, I didn't pay attention to it afterwards, but the woman did have continuous metrorrhagia after giving birth, due to the deficiency of Qi and blood, the two children died when they were less than three years old. "

What Yao Qingqing said made all the young women present think about it.

It was only now that Second Sister-in-law Li suddenly realized why Brother Li didn't touch her again half a year after giving birth to Li Sanlang. It turned out that it was for contraception!

Li Sanniang nodded, "That's right.

Only a strong and healthy mother can give birth to healthy children. Among you, there are already children like me, and there are grandchildren like my mother. Think about it, one without a mother Will your child be okay? "

Second Aunt Li murmured: "A child without a mother is like a weed, but a child with a mother is a treasure."

"That's why I said, as a woman, you need to know how to get pregnant more easily, and you also need to know how to prevent pregnancy.

It's not that you won't give birth, but you have to think about it before and after your birth and make preparations.

Not just for yourself, but for your children. "

Sun Wenpo twisted her body a little uneasy, avoiding Li Sanniang's gaze.

But Chunlan, who was sitting beside Sun Wenpo, was thoughtful.

Chunlan thought of her aunt, who seemed to have mentioned a few words to herself, that is, after having herself, she was pregnant again immediately, but the child was gone before it was born, and it took more than three years before she was born. Get off the current brother.

Next, Li Sanniang explained how to calculate the ovulation period of the girl, the body position during intercourse, and what to do after intercourse.

The girls who had been married for many years blushed when they heard this, but girls like Jin Zhenbao didn't feel embarrassed at all.

"Okay, that's all for this morning.

Let's pack up and go to the restaurant. "

And this lunch that Lily of the Valley treats guests to in the private room of the restaurant, except for Xiaoping Ping lying in the basket, the audience is full of girls.

Li Sanniang also took Lu Zhu'er, Lu Zhu'er was overjoyed, of course, for the little Tong'er, as long as he could go out with A Niang, he would be very happy, let alone go to a restaurant for dinner.

The banquet was coming to an end, and when everyone had a cup of tea to digest their food, Mrs. Qin started the conversation: "I have a family elder sister who passed away more than ten years ago.

After she got married, she became pregnant that year, and after giving birth to a son in the next year, she became pregnant again after confinement.

I still remember that when my mother took me to see her, her face was pale and bloodless, and she was still taking medicine to replenish qi and blood after confinement, but after she had another child, the medicine was stopped.

Her husband's family is not bad, in order to let her have a baby, they tried their best to support her, but when I got married, her stomach was too big, she couldn't give birth, and she died afterward.

A child less than two years old was left behind.

My brother-in-law married again the following year. "

People couldn't bear to hear this real story, and everyone sighed.

"Presumably that child must have thought about where his aunt went when he was young?

Let alone in the city, even in the countryside, the child who has lost A Niang will also lose Aye when he turns around.

Whether he can get the house and property in the future depends entirely on whether his father has a conscience. "

"Well, it's not bad that Cheng Lang is taken care of by our natal family. In the end, I, Aye, and the elders of the family also came to the door. It's fair, except for my sister's dowry, and the two sons born later, Lang Ping. After dividing the apparent family wealth, it was divided out."

After hearing such a story, everyone thought about this girl's contraception.

After a short rest, everyone went back to the school of the Women's Support Association.

Li Sanniang told everyone about Xiangniang (appeared in Chapter 239, the prostitute killed the whole family after giving birth to a child.).

"This matter is the girl's misfortune, the law can't protect the girl herself, so who can protect herself except myself?
Therefore, you should listen carefully to the contraceptive methods I will talk about next, whether you use them yourself, or after you become a stable woman or female doctor in the future, you can also tell other women. "

After Li Sanniang finished speaking, Jin Zhenbao said in an excited tone: "Mr. Li, isn't this just the reverse of the method that makes it easier to conceive? Doesn't it mean that it is not easy to conceive, so it can be used to prevent pregnancy."

"Haha, Miss Jin summed it up pretty well, that's the reason."

Next, Li Sanniang blurted out a soup prescription: "This is a common prescription for avoiding child soup, but as I said before, no matter what method is used, it is not guaranteed to be successful in contraception.

Therefore, it is still necessary to ban intercourse during special periods.

Alright, let’s stop here for today. This assignment is what I’m going to talk about this time. You guys just write it well, and you’ll have to collect it for me to read next time. "

Li Sanniang was just about to sit down and have a good rest when she saw Yao Qingqing standing at the door and hadn't left yet.

Seeing that everyone else had left, Yao Qingqing boldly came to Li Sanniang, saluted and asked nervously, "Mr. Li, do you have any plans to accept disciples again?
Do you think I'm suitable? "

Li Sanniang was stunned for a moment, she didn't expect Yao Qingqing to ask this question, after thinking about it for a while, she felt that she should have asked such a question, after all, she was the only one who introduced Lily Lan to them today.

Li Sanniang smiled, invited Yao Qingqing to sit down, and then slowly said: "Ms. Yao is smart and has experience in delivering babies. I can see that you are a person who really wants to learn."

Although praised by Li Sanniang, Yao Qingqing's face was not happy, and she heard Li Sanniang say two words: "However, under the current situation, Miss Yao is not the most suitable person to be my disciple." .

It's not that Mrs. Yao is bad, it's just that in the current situation, it's not very suitable. "

"This? How inappropriate is this?
I can change and learn, maybe Mr. Li will give me a chance?
I can also refer to it. If I fail the assessment, I will not say anything else. "

Babies, love yourself before you can love others!

A mother is also a little girl before she becomes a mother.

Every woman has many roles, such as daughter, mother, wife, office worker, etc., but before all roles, she must first become herself, and after that, other roles.

I hope every sister can love themselves well and live the life they want~

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