Women Wearing Men: The Growth Path of the Bastards of the Aristocratic Family

In the evening, Mother Zhao, who was beside Madam Wang, came to Gu Yunji's yard with four maids: "Is the third young master free now?"

Gu Yunji walked out the door in response: "Mother Zhao is free, but what orders does mother have?"

Gu Yunji's status in the Gu family has risen significantly since he became a flower in high school. Even Gu Kaizhen spoke politely to him, not to mention the other servants in the house.Mother Zhao smiled wrinkled all over her face, her posture was very humble:
"The third young master is not young now. He should have reached the age to know about human affairs. These four maids were carefully selected by the madam. They all come from innocent families and have a soft temperament. They are the most suitable for housekeeping."

As she said that, Mother Zhao pulled the four maids forward, introduced their ages and names one by one, and said with a smile, "Which one do you like, the third young master, just keep it. Generally speaking, one or two maidservants are enough, but If you want to keep all four, it's naturally possible."

Gu Yunji glanced at the four maids with low brows and pleasing eyes, and said, not without a headache: "Didn't I already refuse the roommate offered by my mother a few years ago? Why are you here again?"

Mother Zhao said: "A few years ago, when you were young and focused on the imperial examination, Madam didn't say anything. It's different now, you have already been in high school, so there is no such thing as fear of being distracted and affecting the imperial examination. If not, let alone you are going to get married in two days, if I don't teach you these things, it will be too late."

Gu Yunji was speechless for a while: "You also know that I'm going to get married in two days, and the bride hasn't been married yet, so how could anyone rush into the groom's official room at this time?"

Zhao's mother didn't take it seriously: "This is a housemaid and not a concubine. To put it bluntly, it is just a servant who warms the master's bed. What can't be stuffed in the room? They also serve you at night. What should they do during the day? It won't affect you."

Gu Yunji heard his temples throbbing wildly, and didn't know what to say for a moment.

Zhao's mother thought he was embarrassed, and said in relief: "I know that you are thin-skinned, third young master, but there is no need to be shy. Which family's children don't have a servant girl in their house? Even the eldest young master took him away before he got married. You may not get used to it at first, but it will get better with time."

Having said that, Gu Yunji still found it hard to accept.Now there are only three days before the wedding, Xu Shuhua is embroidering the wedding dress at home, and waiting for him to go to the wedding with peace of mind, how can he accept the Tongfang at this time, and make out with other women on the eve of the wedding?
This was a betrayal to Xu Shuhua, and even more an insult to the relationship between them, he couldn't accept it no matter what.

Thinking of this, Gu Yunji took a deep breath: "Mother Zhao, I'm going to get married soon. If I accept Tongfang at this juncture, how will Shuhua feel when he finds out? I don't care what others do, but I am I'm still in charge, I don't need to pass through the house, please ask Mama Zhao to thank her for her kindness on my behalf."

Mother Zhao still refused to give up, and persuaded: "Third Young Master, if you are worried about Ms. Xu's feelings, then it is too much to worry about. This is the case for aristocratic families. As a noble daughter, how can Ms. Xu not be mentally prepared for this matter?" What's more, Ms. Xu is dignified and generous, she is very well-bred, and she has the bearing of a first wife, so she will definitely not blame the third young master for this."

"Furthermore, even though you are devoted to Miss Xu and don't allow others to intervene, Miss Xu will always conceive one day in the future. Pregnancy in October, plus confinement, will take nearly a year before and after, and you won't be able to Tell you to bear it hard and suffocate your body?"

"Instead of letting the third young lady choose a woman from a good family for you with her big belly in the future, it's better to keep two of them in the house now, so that she won't worry about it then, right?"

Hearing this, Gu Yunji's heart surged with anger, and his voice sank: "Mother Zhao, I am a human being, not a beast that can only vent my desires. Pregnancy is extremely hard for a woman, and she often cannot eat or sleep well. It can be said to be suffering day and night. As a husband, it’s fine if he doesn’t accompany him to care, but if he can’t even control this desire, how is he different from a beast?”

Mother Zhao laughed dryly, although she didn't refute, she didn't take it seriously.

That is to say, but how many men can really do this?They were not the ones who conceived and gave birth, and they were not the ones who walked back and forth outside the gate of hell, so it's hard to empathize with them.Not to mention how caring and considerate, it is considered conscientious not to go out and mess around while his wife is pregnant.

I'm afraid that the third young master said no at this moment, and after his wife became pregnant, he would be more active than anyone else in finding a concubine.

The two have different ideas. Gu Yunji didn't expect Zhao's mother to accept his thoughts, so he simply stopped arguing with her: "We'll talk about the matter later, but right now I really don't want and don't need intercourse. Zhao's mother should take them back. .”

Mother Zhao showed hesitation: "But your wedding night..."

Gu Yunji only thought that she still wanted to persuade herself, so she couldn't help but speak with a bit of anger: "The wedding night is the wedding night of me and the bride, so what do I have to do with others? I still have things to do, please come back to me, Mama Zhao." .”

Gu Yunji's identity is different now, Mother Zhao didn't dare to fight him hard, she sighed helplessly, and had no choice but to turn around and leave.

Not being able to become Gu Yunji's roommate, while the maids were disappointed, they couldn't help but feel a little envious: "The third young master is really kind to Miss Xu, if I have such a considerate and dedicated husband, I'm afraid I'll have to wake up from my dreams." .”

Zhao's mother snorted lightly, and said disapprovingly: "What's so good? I'm afraid Miss Xu's family will suffer if she marries in the future."

The servant girl was puzzled: "Why do you say that? The third young master treats Ms. Xu's family wholeheartedly, and refuses to accept connecting rooms. There are no messy concubines to hinder her. Ms. Xu's life should be very comfortable. How can she suffer?"

"You don't understand that, do you?" Zhao's mother showed a look of someone who had come here before, "Tongfang seems to be for men, but in fact it is women who benefit from it."

"It sounds good to have a couple for a lifetime, but it also means that the wife will fall into a huge childbearing pain. Often, after confinement, she will conceive another child, and it will go round and round without end. A woman's childbirth is a waste of time. The hell is close, the more pregnancies there are, the higher the possibility of death due to childbirth."

"Moreover, the damage caused by multiple births to a woman's body is irreversible. Even if she does not die in childbirth, it is very likely that various diseases will be left behind, leading to premature aging and premature death. Look at those women in the countryside, their husbands do not have three Wives and four concubines, right? But almost all of them have seven or eight children, and most of them won’t even survive the age of 40.”

The maid was terrified, swallowed involuntarily, and asked again: "Then...you can still prevent pregnancy. There are so many anti-child soups and medicines, so it's not impossible."

Mother Zhao sighed: "Hey, avoiding children's decoction is effective, but isn't it also harmful to the body? One mistake is lifelong infertility. More importantly, our Gu family has always regarded the succession of children as a major event. If you can’t give birth, someone will force the husband to take a concubine to give birth to the wife.”

"Instead of having a lot of concubines and concubines at that time, it is better to accept two common houses from the beginning, which can not only reduce the pain of childbirth, but also prevent your own status from being shaken."

"The third young master thinks he is protecting Miss Xu's family, but in fact he is harming her. Even if he can resist the pressure and restrain his childbirth in the future, Miss Xu's family may not be able to resist. In the end, he will either take the initiative to accept a concubine for his husband, or I bear the pain of giving birth myself, anyway, there is no way to have both.”

As she said that, Mother Zhao couldn't help but glanced back at the direction of Gu Yunji's yard, and shook her head: "You're still too young..."