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Chapter 847 Looking for a partner

Song Hongguo had a guess in her mind, but she couldn't take the initiative to speak. She had to pretend to be stupid and ask, "What's wrong with Qiuyue?"

Zhao Yulian's old face turned red and she said with hatred, "She wants to find someone who provides food..."

Song Hongguo smiled calmly, "People walk to higher places, Qiuyue is right to think so."

Zhao Yulian said angrily, "Yes, when people go to higher places, everyone wants to live a good life, but they have to carefully consider their own status first. Why should we pay attention to being well-matched when getting married? No one is a fool. The conditions of both parties are similar. That is called a strong alliance. They can support each other when encountering problems. What is called poverty alleviation when the two sides are too different? When encountering a difficult situation, the weak one can't help, so how can others look after him? What's the point of living a life based on your husband's face? Just because you want to be high on someone else's family, have face, and have no worries about food and clothing, you have to debase yourself?"

The system then popped up, "Your second aunt is still affectionate, but it can't compare to a loving mother's heart..."

Otherwise, he wouldn't have gone to Song Hongguo even though he knew it was wrong and inappropriate.

When you go to Song Hongguo, you definitely don't just want to vent your complaints, but you also want to ask her to help you pull red strings.

Song Hongguo ignored it, looked at Zhao Yulian and said, "You are right, but what about Qiuyue? You must have educated her in this way, can't she listen?"

She has a good sense of Zhao Qiuyue, she is very diligent and sensible, and there is nothing wrong with her words and deeds. Is it possible that she is greedy for vanity deep down?
Zhao Yulian sighed, her expression a little depressed, "I've said it, I've said it more than once. A few years ago, I reminded her not to have any ambitions. There was a girl in the village who married a worker and lived in the city. , her identity changed, and after she came back she kept showing off, and even tried to win over her mother-in-law, letting people know that she was promising, and she was very envious of her. I saw something was wrong, so I beat her up..."

"I told her that it's wrong to be out of the family. Life may look good at the beginning, but it may not be really good in the future. If you marry a worker and the woman is from the countryside, she will naturally bow her head in front of her husband's family. You have to look at their faces and everything. Being a child, you can only swallow your grievances, and you can't stand up and be strong even if you ask for support from your mother's family. Who says the weight of the two ends is different, especially after giving birth to a child, you have to follow the identity of the mother, and you won't be able to eat the food supply. As time goes by, can my husband’s family not become resentful?”

"And once there is resentment, no matter how deep the relationship is, it can't withstand the wear and tear. What will the woman do then? She can't bear the consequences of her children if she gets divorced. If she doesn't divorce, she has to swallow her anger and act like a bully to get rid of her sins. At that time, it's a daily routine Even if you eat delicacies from the mountains and seas, they won’t taste good..."

Song Hongguo nodded frequently as she listened, "You're right, where is Qiuyue? What does she think?"

Zhao Yulian said in a low voice, "She was considered obedient. She listened to it at the time and no longer had such unrealistic dreams. She honestly waited for me to show her my love. But in the past two years, my love has improved a lot." She just doesn't like it. She can always find faults in others. I thought she was young, so I didn't push her. Anyway, Zhensheng hasn't found her yet. She should slowly find out as a younger sister and wait for fate to come. Now, maybe I can get married soon, who knows..."

After a pause, she looked at Song Hongguo with a bit of shame and embarrassment in her eyes, "Who knows, yesterday she saw the dignity of the Huo family when they came to welcome the bride, and saw the splendor of your marriage, and her heart suddenly grew bigger. Yes, I envy you for finding someone as outstanding as Huo Gong. He is handsome, has a good family background, and has a decent job. He still values ​​you so much. Not only did he give us a lot of face in the wedding, but he also put a lot of thought into setting up the banquet. At that time, who Don't you praise me? Especially at our family's banquet, they all say that they have never had such a rich banquet in their lives. They are all envious of you for finding a good and capable partner. A wife is more valuable than a husband... "

Women who want to change their identities and cross social classes can do so through their own efforts, but obviously, that is too difficult. In the current environment, either going to college or recruiting workers into a factory are the only ways to change their household registration. The second is to get married. Compared with the former, this is obviously easier, and if you are lucky, you may be able to cross several levels at once, soar into the sky, and reach a height that you cannot reach in a lifetime of hard work.

Perhaps in the eyes of others, she is a typical representative, and maybe she will be considered a successful case and a leader among them.

Who says she is an orphan? There is no family background at all, and she has two children as a drag. Not to mention a man with good conditions, even an ordinary man has to think twice about marrying her. After all, no matter how good her personal conditions are, there is no one behind her. Having no one also means that there is no help for the man, and he has to raise two more children. Who wants to be taken advantage of?

Like it, like it, when it comes to marriage, most men are realistic. Otherwise, when she first entered the hospital, she would have been pursued by many workers because of her face and status as a college student.

But in fact, there were many admirers, but few acted. She was not stupid, she could understand the enthusiasm in their eyes, but also understood their concerns and hesitations.

When she and Huo Minglou confirmed their relationship, after the news spread, I don’t know how many people didn’t believe it, and some questioned whether Huo Minglou was in love. After all, based on his conditions, he couldn’t find any kind of partner. Why do you think you have to get one with a tow oil bottle?

It is inevitable that some people will speculate that she used some scheming means to take down Huo Minglou and make him surrender.

I even heard that there were women in the factory who imitated her, thinking that if she could win over the superior Huo Minglou, they could also conquer better gay men. So for a while, there was a lot of fun and jokes in the factory. It wasn't until a female employee couldn't bear it and cursed "a toad wants to eat swan meat" after the gay man she was pestering, and the whole place became aware of it. She almost wanted to die out of shame and anger, and this kind of thing gradually became less common.

Countless thoughts were rushing through her mind, but Song Hongguo's expression remained calm, "So, Qiuyue also thinks that my success is all due to marrying Huo Minglou?"

Hearing this, Zhao Yulian quickly waved her hands, "Of course not. If she dares to think that, I will have to slap her to death. If others don't know, how can our family not know? You are a capable person, no worse than Huo Gong. He He is a college student, and so are you. His salary is high, and you are several times higher than your peers. He has contributed to the factory, and you are also valued by the hospital. You are equally matched and evenly matched. There is no one who takes advantage of the other, the only one is us. The lintel here is not as high as the Huo family, but I look at Huo Gong's brother and sister-in-law, and they don't care about this. They value your own abilities more..."

Song Hongguo smiled and said, "That's true, but it's true that most of the scenery yesterday was due to Huo Minglou. Only one-third of the guests who went there were directed at me, and they were all colleagues from the hospital. The importance of the guests from the Huo family is completely incomparable, and I have indeed benefited from him a lot..."

"Hongguo?" Zhao Yulian looked at her in astonishment, "You, how can you say that about yourself?"

Song Hongguo said, "Second aunt, this is a fact, but I don't mind it, nor do I feel inferior or embarrassed. My family background is not as good as that of the Huo family, and this cannot be changed no matter what."

"But, you are very good in your own right, as good as Huo Gong."

"Yes, he is excellent, and I am not bad either, so when I am with him, I can always be confident and confident, and I never have to compromise. Even if I marry him with two children, I don't feel like I owe him anything, because our relationship is right. Wait, no one needs to compromise or give in. He gave me dignity, glory, or status, but I can also give him warmth, companionship, and care. I can be a good helper and help him with his career. In the future, when he is busy with work, I can also take on the important responsibility of taking care of the family. As the daughter-in-law of the Huo family, I will only make the Huo family proud of me! "

Zhao Yulian's heart was shaken when she heard this, and she nodded in agreement subconsciously, "Yes, it is the Huo family's blessing to be able to marry you. Marry a virtuous wife, and a virtuous wife will prosper for three generations..." Song Hongguo was not modest, and smiled calmly, "Yeah " After saying that, he changed the topic, "The reason why I can be so confident is because I have the confidence to be worthy of Huo Minglou. I married him not because I wanted to be the lintel of the Huo family and those vanity benefits. Sooner or later, he will have the ability. He understands this, so he will not look down on me. Likewise, if he follows me to live here, I will not look down on him. "

Zhao Yulian reacted, her expression kept changing, she was on pins and needles, and subconsciously avoided her sight, "Qiuyue didn't want to compete with someone who was too outstanding. She is not that big-faced, and she also knows how much she weighs. That is, after seeing that getting married can change your identity and lead a better life, you want to give it a try. The conditions in the city are too good, but what about the ordinary ones? As for my daughter-in-law, I might be willing to do so. After all, Qiuyue is not bad at all except her background..."

Indeed, Zhao Qiuyue's face looks like a full moon, which is a very popular look these days. It is said that he has a prosperous husband and a prosperous family, his character is good, and there is nothing messy at home. It is because of his household registration.

If she is from the city, the person seeking marriage will have to cross the threshold.

Song Hongguo didn't give any more roundabout reminders and asked directly, "Second aunt, did Qiuyue fall in love with someone yesterday?"

After asking, he added, "There were many young men who came with Huo Minglou to welcome the bride, but most of them were already married. The two people at the front were the son of Director Zhou's family and had been married for several years. year, the other one is from the sales department of the factory and is not married, but he is talking to the nurse in our hospital and has decided to get married on May Day next year. The other two are colleagues from the research institute and are college students who were just assigned this year, one from Shanghai. , an imperial capital, I heard that my family will help with the arrangements. The last group are the soldiers under Brother Huo. Some of them are still alone, but their hometowns are all from other provinces. If you don't care, I will help you ask. ask."

After Zhao Yulian heard this, her heart felt cold.

Seeing that she remained silent, as if she was planning something, Song Hongguo added, "Of course, there are many single workers in the factory. Generally speaking, they are not willing to marry girls from the countryside, but there are always exceptions. I You can also ask for help, but those who are willing to make do with it may have their own shortcomings. "

If there was nothing wrong with it, who would be willing to be so low?
Zhao Yulian nodded stiffly, with a gloomy face. After a while, she smiled bitterly and said, "Hongguo, my second aunt has caused you trouble. Your children are all debts. I didn't expect that I just solved your second cousin's marriage, and it's Qiuyue's turn again." Oh, what a crime..."

Song Hongguo advised, "Second aunt, you don't have to think too much. Children and grandchildren will have their own blessings. In the past, you worried about cousin Zhensheng's marriage. You didn't know how much you worried about it. But look now, fate has come, and no one can stop it." live."

"I hope. After all, the second aunt is still incompetent. She doesn't know how to teach children. She doesn't have the destiny, but she has the heart to make you laugh. I will deal with that damn girl when I get back. There is water in my head. I can’t see my identity clearly…”

"Second aunt, we are a family, how can I still laugh at my own family's jokes? Qiuyue has such thoughts, it's human nature, so you don't need to be too angry. I guess many girls in the village must think so, right? Have a good life But, who wants to go through hardships and hardships? You won’t lose much if you try, what if it works?”

"Do you think it's feasible?"

"I don't know, the key point is Qiuyue's idea. If she makes up her mind to give it a try and fight for herself, then I am willing to help pull the strings, but the ugly words have to be said first. Whether she can succeed or not is up to her. She is an adult. , she must be able to bear all kinds of consequences. If she succeeds, her life may be good or not. If she fails, she may be criticized and she may feel bad. In short, if she can bear the consequences and has no regrets, I will help."

On the contrary, she wouldn't care. It would be too unfair if she couldn't help but would be bitten and complained about.

Zhao Yulian understood what she meant and hurriedly assured, "That's for sure. You just have to pull the strings. Whether she succeeds or not is her own business. She can't rely on others. Even if she suffers a loss, she deserves it."

Who calls it overestimating one's abilities?

If it weren't for her biological daughter, she would actually like to fall down hard. Only when the fall hurts can she remember and see clearly.

Song Hongguo smiled and said, "Then when I get to work, I'll help you find out. Should we ask people from the army or the factory first?"

Zhao Yulian pondered for a moment, "Let's ask the people in the factory first. Those in the army are too far away from home. Who knows what the situation is?"

Moreover, the husband's family cannot help, and if a man is busy, he cannot take care of the family. Although the military wife is glorious, she is the hardest worker. If the job is transferred in the future, she may leave the place and it will be difficult to meet her.

It's more appropriate to be a worker. It's right in the commune and you can get there just a few steps away. If your life gets bad in the future, your parents' family can rush there to support you.

Song Hongguo could guess a little bit of her plan and nodded in agreement. After sending Zhao Yulian away, the system asked, "Do you really want to take care of this? Being a matchmaker is the most thankless job, especially for someone like Zhao Qiuyue. The most difficult thing to mediate is those who are neither high nor low. Since she is born with ambition, if you find someone mediocre, she will definitely look down on her. But if the conditions are good, why should someone marry someone from the countryside to raise her? But it’s not to the point where the man is fascinated. Besides, the man is fascinated, and the parents-in-law are very sharp. How can they let their son marry such a dragging daughter-in-law? "

Song Hongguo said helplessly, "She's already opened her mouth, but it's hard to push her back all at once. Let's give it a try."

Try your best, and if you fail, there will be an explanation.

The system said pessimistically, "There's probably no chance, unless she looks like Wang Erni, otherwise, you can only look for those who are missing arms and legs, but Zhao Qiuyue might think you are humiliating her."

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