this man is not calm

Chapter 358 Facing the Difficulties
After packing up my luggage and washing up, it was almost time for dinner. My father, Jin Shi, happened to rush home a little early. Judging from his expression, he didn't seem to be socializing, and he didn't smell of alcohol at all.

When the whole family is here and relatives are present, there are not many.

In the early years, let alone visits, neighbors, nearby management committees, and community workers rarely came. There was often no one at home. The occasional reply was only handled by the little kid Jin Shang.

After graduating from college, things did get a lot better.

Such a large house is very popular.

After finishing the meal not too enthusiastically, but kindly, mother Mei Xinghong went to make milk powder for little Jinfeng. He will be one year old in four months and is about to consider weaning.

The little guy doesn't grow very fast. He's of a decent size. After losing some of the baby fat he had earlier, his slightly chubby face is red. He's more and more energetic throughout the day. He can already waddle a few steps while holding hands. When I was learning Chinese, whenever there was music playing at home, my legs would shake to the rhythm.

In front of acquaintances, he is a relatively stinky child. His condition is not serious, but he has been spoiled since he was a child and does not like to play with children of the same age. He is a bit like Jin Shang when he was a child.

After burping, the two cousins ​​played with him, one on the left and the other on the right. Mei Xinghong went to clean the baby products. The two nannies were busy in the kitchen with the housekeeper, cleaning, while Li Xuan and Jin Shang were nestled on the sofa and watching. television.

The Spring Festival is not far away. It can be seen from the street interviews that there are more and more high-hanging lanterns and festive scenes.

Grandmother Xian Guizhen was sitting by the window, drinking black tea, watching the nightfall scenery outside, not knowing what she was thinking.

Drinking tea immediately after a meal is not good for the gastrointestinal tract and hinders digestion. However, after the family mentioned it several times, they made a promise but never changed it, so they left it alone, so that everyone in the family followed the same example.

Father Jin Shi went outside to clean the garage. When he came back, he put the fruit plate and juice on the coffee table for people to take, and sat down next to them.

"How does it feel to go to the north in the middle of winter?"

"It is indeed cold, but it is also very interesting. The white mountains and black waters in different seasons have different beautiful scenery."

"That's fine if you think it's okay."

After a few glances at Jin Shang who was replying absentmindedly, he watched him and Li Xuan lazily take off their slippers, put their feet on the bellies of the two shepherd dogs that came close to them, and then lay down after eating, they couldn't help but smile.
"Obviously you don't feed them much in normal times, but when you come back, Huang Er and Jin Biao are still closer."

"These two shepherd dogs have high IQs. They know how to please me and get delicious food. They usually control the food at home, so there is no need for trouble."

Although high-quality dog ​​food is expensive, it is good for the body of your pet dog and can greatly increase its lifespan.

Generally, cats and dogs raised in free-range households will age out in their early ten years. Most of the reasons are that they always eat leftovers, even kitchen waste, heavy oil and salt, many of which contain... It is very harmful to them.

However, animals' thirst for life necessities such as fats, sugars, and salts is engraved in their genes. During the long evolutionary process, it is extremely difficult to smoothly absorb them. When there is an opportunity, they must eat enough at one time.

Highly intelligent humans cannot control it, let alone pet dogs that act entirely on instinct.

If you eat too much, your life span will definitely be shortened.

Today, little Jinfeng is less than one year old. The two pet dogs he grew up with are as close as family members. After more than ten years, they are old and dying, and the little ones are not yet adults. Adults have seen too much life, separation and death, and they can still bear it, but it's hard for children.

Therefore, the family has been controlling the food of the two shepherd dogs and trying to avoid junk food. Only when Jin Shang comes back will they be given a little extra food.

"When they get older, should they be neutered?"

"Forget it, there's no need!"

Jin Shang chuckled and shook his head slightly to deny his father's suggestion.

These days, if you go to a pet hospital for consultation, you will definitely be told that you must be neutered, which will be beneficial and harmless. In fact, it is all nonsense, and it is just deceiving everyone into paying money.

In a body that has evolved over 10,000 years, every organ naturally has its own positive significance. How can there be any reason to cut it off casually without any side effects?

As for the inconveniences of large dogs that grew up in an "original environment", there are definitely some, but they are not that serious. What's more, Jin Shang is a person with a "golden finger", and its effect is also very good for the two shepherd dogs. Usually Take good care of it and it won't be a big problem.

"When little Jinfeng is a little older, we can mate with him and let the little guy take care of him. It will be good for his growth to witness with his own eyes the life of the little life from childhood to adulthood."

Although the living conditions of children in rural areas are somewhat worse, the environment in which they grow up may not be that unbearable.

Fishing and catching shrimps, feeding chickens and ducks, climbing trees and cutting grass, and being accompanied by cats and dogs are the norm. I wonder which country child has never played with a slingshot to shoot birds, or picked mulberries and fed silkworms?

It’s all childish fun, but it’s not necessarily convenient for city kids to want it.

It’s hard to say that schools need to organize autumn and spring outings, or parents spend money to go to resorts, farmhouses, and leisure ranches to experience things, so that children who grow up in the "steel forest" can stay grounded.

After listening to Jin Shang's words, Jin Shi touched his chin, thought for a moment, and said to Jin Shang who was drinking apple juice:

"That's okay. The little guy is much more difficult to take care of than you were when you were a child. You have to worry more about your future growth."

At this time, the silent grandmother Xian Guizhen put down the teacup in her hand and glanced at her son angrily.

"Ashang is so worry-free that it gives you the illusion that raising children is easy, right? Poor parents in the world. Having enough food and clothing is just the foundation. It is not a task to take care of your little ones to grow up healthily and not go astray. It’s easy, you’re not young anymore, so be more careful.”

What he said left Lao Jin speechless.

Although he has a son who is almost twenty years old, he is similar to Mei Xinghong. In terms of raising children, he is indeed no different from young parents.

If it weren't for the help of Guifeng and Que Sheng, Xiao Jinfeng's crying would have made them confused.

Although Xiao Jinfeng is now more and more energetic, he is not able to speak and can only imitate a few simple words. In half a year, it will be almost the time when people hate dogs and he is very curious and restless. Concerned with the current situation, they are full of emotions and even begin to know some tricks to provoke their parents' sensitive nerves to achieve their own goals.

Crying and being angry are the best weapons.

Moreover, he cannot be beaten or scolded, nor can he be reasoned with. If parents do not master the correct skills in raising children, they will suffer in the future.

The three generations were chatting quietly, and unconsciously they talked about Zhang Yunying's family who was traveling with Jin Shang this time.

"The second girl has always had a strong temper since she was a child. I was worried before that if she was too strong, she might affect the character of her children. Now it seems that there is a problem, but it is not serious, so it is not bad."

Xian Guizhen recounted the past events calmly.

Speaking of which, the old lady is also an emotional person. She is not as indifferent to family affection as she appears. It's just that she lacks the skill of "loving people" and doesn't know how to express it.

When her father Jin Shi was still young, she rarely taught him direct lessons, but her two older sisters took care of her younger brother more.

It's normal for the eldest sister to be like a mother.

The eldest sister Jin Lanzhi is soft on the outside but strong on the inside, a bit cautious and kind-hearted, while the second sister Jin Lanyun is born to be strong and has an unyielding character throughout.

Because of this, Jin Toki, who did not feel much love from his parents, did not grow crooked. Apart from a little adolescent rebellion and growing pains, there was nothing serious.

To be honest, this family all has fundamental character flaws, and their shortcomings are obvious. Fortunately, everyone is smart, and they get along well with each other over a long period of time.

Take Xian Guizhen and Mei Xinghong, for example. There is actually no conflict between them, but the natural gap between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law makes them not get along particularly harmoniously. They both deliberately maintain a distance from each other and can barely get along.

The old grandmother doesn't like to stay in one place for too long. She goes out for walks from time to time. She is away from home for many days. When she comes back to stay for a while, she can't help but run around.

They are free and easy in nature, but also have the intention to maintain their own boundaries.

Smart people, as long as they are willing to use their brains, will not have low emotional intelligence. If there is no need, they will be too lazy to be backward compatible and take care of your emotional value.

"The last time I visited the Northland was in 1991. At that time, the child Yunying was suppressed a bit too much. Fortunately, although his father was not good at words, he was also a good person and he could live better and better. Well, it’s not without reason.”

Xian Guizhen paused as she spoke and asked Jin Shang,
"You young people get along a lot. What do you think of him? It's not easy to create such a career. If the second generation is not effective, the second best thing is to be unable to hold on. I'm afraid it will bring disaster."

"My qualifications are above average. If I practice more, I won't have a big problem maintaining my skills. I'm less experienced than my cousin from the Mei family, but I can see through it."

After a pause, Jin Shang continued to answer,
"If you ask me, it's actually quite good. Agriculture and animal husbandry are quite special. The threshold seems to be very low and it's extremely difficult to get started. It's much better to work steadily and go step by step than the so-called pioneering and enterprising."

It is enough to play with the integration of the three industries and test the waters to expand the boundaries of the business. Crossing the boundaries too far is not a good thing.

The second uncle, Zhang Hua, is very stable and has always focused on the development of his main business. He has not done anything blindly. The strategic investment in Jinxi Mall is also to open up sales channels, seize a certain initiative, and compete with channel dealers for pricing power.

"When you say that, I feel relieved. The child is quite well-behaved. I'm afraid that the second girl will be forced too hard and have a rebellious mentality when she grows up. Last year, I came to the capital to ask someone to introduce me to a blind date, but I didn't agree with it. She is in her twenties. It’s okay for parents to give them more advice and support, but it’s not necessary to give them hand-holding guidance.”

"That makes sense."

Not only ordinary people's families, but also royal relatives and relatives are unavoidable. Human nature is like this.

In his previous life, Mingguangzong was the image of a holy king that all ministers in the world longed for before he succeeded to the throne. However, he played himself to death in just over a month after becoming emperor. He was too repressed when he was the prince, and after he was liberated, he became unscrupulous and unrestrained.

This is not an isolated case. Guangzong's father Shenzong succeeded to the throne as a young man, and his assistant Zhang Juzheng was a powerful official who shouted "I am not the prime minister, but the regent". This shows how severely the young emperor was suppressed, and after Shenzong took power, he also took revenge. Cool.

After all, Zhang Yunying is not a genius, let alone compared to geniuses like Jin Shang and Wei Shuangping, even Li Xuan, Mei Xinghong and others are far inferior.

Failure to enter a serious university does not prove that he has a low IQ. It is just that he is not good at learning textbook knowledge, but it can also indicate many problems.

For Zhang Yunying, he has been "blocked" too hard in the past 20 years and needs to be "cleared" appropriately.

"Your aunt also knows that she has too much control, but when parents look at their children, they always have the idea of ​​​​helping as much as they can while they are able, especially when the next generation seems to be ineffective."

"It's not that serious. At the age of more than 20, most ordinary people have not achieved much. Cousin Yunying is already pretty good."

My uncle and aunt are in good health. It is not yet time for Zhang Yunying to take over. They will naturally be much better when they are older.

After saying something nice, Jin Shang felt that there was no need to dwell on this matter, so he changed the topic and asked:
"My cousin's blind date was unsuccessful? I haven't heard anything about it..."

After hearing her grandson's question, Xian Guizhen had not yet answered, but her father Jin Shi rarely interrupted and replied:

"I'm not in a hurry. Yunying's kid is only twenty-four. The current trend is that people at this age are not opposed to falling in love, but they are not very enthusiastic about marriage. Dahui is older, so he doesn't hold back. ?”

In fact, Mei Wenhui's lifelong events have almost been decided, but Mei Yingnian's career has been in a critical period for the past two years. The family is very busy and there is no time to take care of it for the time being.

It can't be delayed much longer.

"The second girl is very ambitious and wants everything, so it's hard to find. Yunying's conditions are too good to be ignored, but too bad to be willing to accept them. In addition, he has his own opinion... not much, naturally. It’s hard to negotiate.”

It's not that we have to rely on marriage to find a good in-law who can take the Zhang family to a higher level, but the situation in the second uncle's family is really a bit embarrassing. It's hard to get up, and it's hard to get down. It's really difficult to find a satisfactory wife. .

"Let's put it aside for now and let Yunying take the opportunity to calm down, focus on his career, and see more of the world. The foundation of Eryatou's family's career lies in the north, and their future lies in the land. However, in order to truly jump to a higher level , the facade and pomp should still be in the capital.”

When one's career reaches a certain level, it is inevitable to set foot in the most prosperous city, and the core business is inevitable. Especially since the Zhang Hua family is deeply involved in the primary industry. If there is no way in the capital, some changes in policies will have far-reaching consequences.

If the boat is small now, it is easy to turn around. If the momentum is not right, you can avoid it a little. If it gets bigger in the future, you won't have that condition.

The primary industry, the secondary industry, the tertiary industry, the deeper you go up, the greater the influence, and the harder it is to gain a foothold. But once an agricultural enterprise starts, it is far from just a portal, chat room, social platform, group purchase and takeout. Ticket distribution, shared bicycles and the like can be compared, but they are not on the same level at all, and their influence is very different.

(End of this chapter)