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Chapter 10 Sons are like ancestors, Laozi is like grandson

When Pan Xishi was arguing with his parents, Shang Yan was negotiating with them at home.He ran away from home once to ease the increasingly intensified family conflicts, but not long after, the conflicts between children and parents manifested in a more intense form.

Shang Xuehai has been staying at home because of this matter, he has been holding back his temper, but today he saw Shang Yan coming home from school and holding the pad to see the useless ground endlessly, his anger rushed to the door, and he exploded all at once up.After all, the incident of running away from home that day could not be escaped, and the father launched a thunderous anger at his son.

Shang Yan looked at each other coldly from beginning to end, as if he was an outsider, and gave an ultimatum to his parents: "I just don't want to study anymore, what can you do to me? You pay attention to my grades every day, for fear that I will embarrass you, but you Have you ever thought about how happy I am in life, being counted down by all of you every day, how am I in a good mood?"

Shang Xuehai said: "The vocation of a student is to study. I didn't ask you to be in the top of the class. I only hope that the 40 students in the class can be ranked within 20. Am I demanding? Your mother is a graduate student. The grade leader of the class, the district teaching and research staff, as her son, can you not discredit her, can you not be a little responsible?"

Shang Yan sneered: "Hehe, fortunately my mother is the grade leader. If my mother were the principal, wouldn't I have no face to live if I didn't study well? You are lucky to be an executive of a big factory. If you were the mayor, I would have to be a child prodigy Besides, Shang Xuehai, you, a man who can even betray marriage, taught me how to be responsible, I feel disgusted."

"Shang Yan, if you talk nonsense again, I'll beat you!"

Shang Yan said, "If you dare to fight, I will call the police. Even if I can't beat you now, sooner or later you will not be my opponent. Don't regret it!"

"It's only natural for me to beat my son since ancient times, and the police have also been beaten by me since childhood." Shang Xuehai rushed to the door, "I gave birth to you and raised you. If you want to fight with me, I will fight against you!"

"Now is the era of the rule of law. Children also have dignity and human rights. Fathers and sons are equal, and I have to be reasonable, and I can't have privileges."

Pan Guanlin said: "Equality, don't say you eat mine and mine now, even if you become president in the future, I'm still Lao Tzu, we can't be equal."

Shang Yan shook his head and sighed: "Or an executive from a big factory? Just this awareness, this quality?"

Pan Shengnan said softly to Shang Yan: "Let's not talk about learning, but about being polite. As you grow older, you become less and less polite to your parents and elders. Just take the example just now, you treat your father Not even the most basic respect, do you think that's right?"

"He didn't respect me first, and he didn't respect you, why should I respect him?"

Shang Xuehai said, "Then do you respect your mother?"

Shang Yan said: "My words have been made very clear. When they respect me, I will naturally respect the other party. When others make me feel angry, I will not compromise."

Shang Xuehai said: "If you disagree, you will talk back, if you are unhappy, you will slam the door, and even run away from home. And we are not raising sons, we are raising ancestors?"

Shang Yan said: "You said it yourself, whoever makes the most money in our family has the loudest voice, and whoever can change the family to a big house is the hero, you are the ancestor! And, when did you raise me? Just give me money? If you raise a dog, you can’t live with just money, right? Want to play on my prestige? Dad is not so easy to be!”

As a company executive, Shang Xuehai can solve any difficult tasks, but he really has nothing to do with children's education.

He murmured to himself: "When I was young, my dad called me wrong, and I had to coax my dad. My dad never bought me any famous brand, and now I try to respect him in different ways. As a father myself, my son is so angry with me every day, and I have to consider how he feels in my heart, fearing that he will run away from home, fear that he will be depressed, fear that he will have psychological problems, he is my father!"

At night, the child fell asleep.Pan Shengnan and Shang Xuehai were on the sofa in the living room, looking at each other speechlessly.The two had a good relationship in their early years. They didn't have the big house they have now. When they got married, they lived in a two-bedroom apartment of 90 square meters. Except for a little down payment, the rest was a loan.

The furniture for the newlyweds was also paid for that month, and they were added one by one. They lived a tight but happy life.

I remember one year's birthday, and they had already run out of living expenses for that month, so he made a bouquet of 'flowers' with cauliflower and broccoli and gave it to himself. The two laughed all night.

After the child is born, there are more and more places to spend money at home. Shang Xuehai's company has an opportunity to go abroad, and the income is twice that of the current position.

And Pan Shengnan's work became more and more busy, and his grandparents gradually took over the care of the children.After sending his business studies overseas, Pan Shengnan also left his children with his natal family more and more.

Next, the husband and wife will get together less and less and leave more and more. I don't know when it started, there will be a watershed in each other's lives.

"Pan Shengnan, I think you have the same name as you. You are really problematic. You have to overwhelm me in everything. If a woman is too strong, it means the family is unlucky!"

"Shang Xuehai, your speech is your speech, and your quarrel is your quarrel. Don't raise the issue of the status of men and women. If you want to close your door and become emperor, I'm sorry, you went to the wrong unit door.

In this family, women have been half the sky since the founding of New China. Want to turn back the wheel of history?Then you are the one who is set on the rack of shame! "

"What I'm telling you is about children's education. You don't want to be on the line."

"If you want to talk about education, I can talk about education. If you want to go online, I can also accompany you to the end."

Shang Xuehai looked coldly at the woman in front of him who was becoming more and more unbearable. He really didn't want to talk to her any more. He could sit here only because of his son: "Because I worked hard, you two are so talented." I have a good life now, not only I am not grateful, but now my child is still so resentful to me, this is all your responsibility. Our two divisions of labor are different, I am in charge of the economy, and you are in charge of education. I have completed the economic indicators, how about you? You A teacher educates children like this, if you are negligent, you should be judged."

"Education is not the responsibility of the mother alone, nor is it the responsibility of the teachers and the school. The most basic condition for a boy to succeed is that his father should have a stable mood and respect his mother!"

"Did I disrespect you? Did I not pay you money on time or did I not pay child support on time, or did I abuse you at home, or did I have an affair outside? And why am I grumpy, you know I work outside How stressful is it? You don't talk about being virtuous, you just want to make me happy, just look at your cold face every day, I'm enough to see it!"

"Then you secretly bought a house in another place. Is this considered a respect for the family?"

The air froze instantly, and Shang Xuehai's eyes flickered, avoiding his wife's eyes.

Pan Shengnan always maintained a calm attitude: "" Every time you go home a little unhappy, you will be furious, even throwing dishes and bowls. Isn't that called grumpy, is it kind-tempered?As for the children's education, since I am solely responsible for it, you chose to ignore it, why do you always cheat corpse education from time to time to gain your sense of presence?Do you think that if you have experienced domestic violence, you can still sit here now?What misunderstanding do you probably have about the meaning of the words husband and father? "

Shang Xuehai: "Pan Shengnan, you actually care about my buying a house in another place? With the money I earn, why do you need your approval to buy a house? Are you used to living a good life and see money in your eyes?"

"I don't care about this issue anymore. Now that we are talking about children's education, I hope you know that Shang Yan is now in adolescence. You should stop using violence to control violence. He is almost 1 meters tall now, and sooner or later he will be able to fight You, it will be too ugly for father and son to fight at that time."

"A smart and lovely child who was so smart and cute was educated like this by you, do you still have the face to say that?"

"Shangyan is tired of studying now, so don't always call him to talk about his grades. You have never cared about him since you were a child. Of course he is disgusted by pure criticism. It's like a person who has no relationship with you who calls you every day to scold you for making money. It's the same as having no ability. Can you accept it?"

"But it's not that I can't make money. I'm not a wimp. As a student, he doesn't get good grades, so he deserves to be scolded. As a teacher, you can't even handle your own son's studies. It's even more embarrassing for you!"

"But no matter how much money you make, you can't solve the problem of your son's weariness of studying. And you have to be prepared. With this score line, [-]% of him won't be able to go to high school. You have to be prepared to go to vocational school."

"Don't even think about it. If you can't pass the high school entrance examination in China, go abroad immediately. My son, Shang Xuehai, can't pass the entrance examination for university, and he was diverted from junior high school? I can't afford to lose this person!" Not only did Shang Xuehai not listen to these words , but even more annoyed, "Not only me, but your parents can't stand this stimulation, right? They say every day that they have taught and educated people all their lives, and how many children they could have cultivated in that place in Inner Mongolia decades ago. Now that I’m a college student, I don’t believe it at all, I don’t believe it at all! I now regret letting them take care of the child, if it weren’t for their doting, my son would not be what he is today.”

That night, Pan Shengnan opened his eyes until dawn.If Shangyan ended up going to a vocational school.Not only Shang Xuehai couldn't accept it, but his parents would also be hit hard.

But the fact is that the teacher's child is also a scumbag, and there is still a year to go. With Shangyan's current state, even Da Luo Jinxian can't save him.

(End of this chapter)