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Chapter 50 The most important criterion for choosing a spouse

At that time, Shang Yunxuan was attending a dinner for his father and mother's 985th wedding anniversary.Before that, he invited Pan Xishi many times, but was ruthlessly rejected.Her attitude has never been shaken by Shang Yunxuan's relentless pursuit and caring, and she has never let go of Shang Yunxuan's pursuit.Except for Li Kun, 211 and [-], she didn't want to have any interaction with him, just because these three little ones were not allowed to have contact outside of teaching.

I won’t talk about Li Kun’s matter. If she wants to return 211 and 985 to Shang Yunxuan at this time, she is not willing to bear it at all. When she thinks of the two furry children being taken away, she feels as if her heart has been gouged out. Her kin, and in some cases even the closest, must never be taken away, but the rest was out of the question.

The oversized round dining table can seat more than [-] people, all of whom are close relatives on both sides of the Shang family and the Xue family.Compared with the Pan family and the Song family, this family is indeed different. There is not much difference in the living standards of the relatives on both sides, and they have made achievements in their respective fields. In this way, they can help each other in many things. It is getting better and better, and the intimacy of every household has also increased over the years.

After drinking for three rounds, the chat between the adults was over, and the topic naturally fell on the children.Now except for a few juniors in their early twenties, the only one who is not married is Shang Yunxuan who is in his third year.Aunt Shang said that she wanted to introduce a girl to her nephew. She had just graduated from a university with a bachelor's degree and a master's degree. There was a sister-in-law married by an older brother in the family who was also the daughter of such a family.But she and her parents just wanted to find a middle and high school teacher, nothing else.

Xue Chuan, Shang Yunxuan's mother, said: "It also depends on the child's opinion. Our family actually doesn't want to find such a high-ranking girl. Someone introduced Xiaoxuan to girls from a similar family before, and he didn't want to. He just wants to be teaching, and there are other things outside of work, and I don’t know what he is busy with. Anyway, boys, we are not in a hurry.”

Aunt Xue had introduced several chairman's daughters to Shang Yunxuan before, the more this kind of family preferred to find a son-in-law from boys in key middle schools and universities, it sounded decent and "safe".

Xue Chuan said: "There are plenty of good girls, the key is that they are willing. My request is very simple, that is, it will be natural for us to sit with all of us at family gatherings in the future, and we won't feel awkward. That's fine."

Everyone joked that Xue Chuan's small request had eliminated two-thirds of the city's population.Shang Yunxuan heard that his relatives had maintained great interest in lifelong events for several years, and suddenly said: "Dear relatives, don't introduce me to girlfriends in the future, I already have a girl I like. In order to To stop wasting everyone's resources and to cause unnecessary misunderstandings, I hereby announce that I will no longer accept any blind dates."

Taking advantage of this auspicious day, relatives congratulated the elders of the Shang family one after another.Shang Qingfeng looked at his wife in a daze, and asked in a low voice: "Your son has a girlfriend, do you know?"

It was also the first time Xue Chuan heard her son say such a thing, but she hadn't noticed it before.For example, my son leaves early and returns late, and he no longer arrives home on time as before, and he no longer tells himself where he is going on the phone as before.This kid often buys cat food, cat toys and other pet supplies online. At that time, she wondered if the two cats were given away by him to raise?Just who did he send?This is a problem!
Shang Qingfeng said to his wife with a stern face: "Go and ask your son what kind of girl you are looking for. Let him take the initiative to report. If he messes up again, don't blame me for hitting mandarin ducks again. Even if he and I Hold grudges, and I'm also not used to him."

Xue Chuan said: "Then I have to ask when I get home!"

"What are you waiting for when you get home? It's not a bad thing, just ask now, just to check him in front of everyone. Otherwise, you can control him?"

Xue Chuan murmured in a low voice: "Just as if I can't, you can!"

"If necessary, I can."

Xue Chuan had headaches for a while. The father and son were natural enemies. They may have formed a relationship during adolescence. Now one is rushing to [-] and the other is over [-]. They rarely talk to each other under the same roof. Convey at her transit station.In fact, she doted on her son since she was a child, and Shang Qingfeng was more strict with the child. Although the child has a red face and a white face, the child has been educated very well all the way, but the child does not like to be with his father since he was a child. This feeling more and more entrenched.

The most important thing is that she never beats a child, but Shang Qingfeng doesn't care about that. Since childhood, whenever his son made a mistake and he caught him, he would beat him up.Until the child was in the second year of junior high school, the old man once suspected that his son stole the family's famous cigarettes and beat the child without evidence.Afterwards, Shang Qingfeng found out that he had wrongly blamed his son, but he refused to apologize.At that time, the relationship between father and son completely fell to the bottom.Although the son does not hold grudges, it seems that the relationship has become unfamiliar all of a sudden.

The father firmly believes that a filial son can be born with a stick, but the son is becoming more and more dissatisfied with Lao Tzu's domineering behavior.But in fact, the father has been very caring about his son's affairs since he was a child. It is because he is too caring, so some methods are more extreme, but the child does not feel his father's concern at all, but only feels his rudeness.

Xue Chuan complained casually in a low voice: "I know you can, your family is very capable outside, and no one can disobey you, but your son's temper is becoming more and more like yours, and he also talks about everything at home outside. Forget it, I don’t take my words seriously anymore. I’m also worrying in vain. In the end, if something happens, you will only blame me, and I won’t ask.”

Shang Qingfeng was really worried about his son finding a girlfriend, and he couldn't wait until the banquet was over. Across his wife, he said directly to Shang Yunxuan: "Tell me about the situation of your girlfriend? So many elders care about it. You will also report on this occasion about your lifelong event."

Shang Yunxuan looked at his father, he couldn't refute the other side's face in this situation.He thought for a while and said, "She is a very beautiful and lovely girl, very kind and honest, very different, and very charismatic. I fell in love with her at first sight. This is the first time I have ever felt this feeling in my life."

All the people present were silent, they just looked at Shang Yunxuan intently, as if they still didn't understand his introduction.Shang Yunxuan thought for a while and decided to introduce his sweetheart in more detail: "She is very serious and dedicated to her work. She has been engaged in education for many years and always puts students first. In life, she respects herself, loves herself, is independent and self-reliant , is the most special and admirable girl I have ever seen. After falling in love at first sight, I carefully observed how she behaves, and her personality complements mine and has the same outlook on life, which strengthened my confidence."

Shang Qingfeng waited for a long time, but he didn't get the information he wanted to hear, and he was faintly angry again: "Shang Yunxuan, how old are you? In front of so many elder brothers and sisters, you deliberately tease people's appetite, can you tell the important point ?”

Shang Yunxuan was also at a loss: "Could it be that after I have said so much, everyone thinks it is not the point? I really think that these are the whole of my love, my criteria for choosing a mate, no matter how important it is, I really can't think of it."

(End of this chapter)