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Chapter 51
At this time, Shang Yunxuan's grandmother suddenly said: "Xiaoxuan, your marriage is the most important thing for us as a family. Now what everyone wants to hear is not these, so don't make fun of us. Tell me which prestigious school this child graduated from, what job he is doing now, and what does the family do? What are the siblings and relatives in the family? What is the main field of the family? Don’t keep talking about unnecessary things!”

Grandma Shang is the oldest person on both sides, and Shang Yunxuan has to think carefully about the other party's problems and take her feelings into consideration.He thought about it more seriously and said: "Her parents are also teachers, and she herself also teaches in our No. [-] Middle School. We are now in the same office, so I observe her more carefully and have many opportunities to get along with her. I think she is I am a girl who wants to spend my whole life together. However, I have been chasing her, but he still hasn’t agreed. Girlfriend, it seems too insincere to let people know."

When Xue Chuan heard these words from his son, he felt very uncomfortable. Such an excellent son of himself has been sought after by girls since he was a child. Now it is rare for him to take the initiative to like a girl, but the other party still refuses.She can't help but wonder if this girl is scheming and trying to get her, or if her family conditions are too good, or she is very good.

Xue Chuan said: "The parents of this child are also teachers. Which university are they professors or principals?"

Shang Yunxuan decided to tell the truth, and simply told the situation of Pan Xishi's parents.Just as Xue Chuan frowned, Shang Qingfeng next to him had already lowered his face, but he didn't speak.

Grandma Shang was surprised and said: "This is an ordinary wage earner. He didn't even teach in a formal school in Xingang, but in terms of work, he doesn't even count as an ordinary wage earner."

Shang Yunxuan was very upset: "You said that. The second elder has already retired. Even if he retired from a key middle school in Inner Mongolia, how come you don't even count it as a working class? Is your standard too high?" Deviated?"

Someone explained to Shang Yunxuan: "The working class in your grandma's eyes are only retirees."

Grandma Shang said: "Even for ordinary retirees, can the wages of Inner Mongolia and Xingang be the same?"

Shang Yunxuan said: "Is there any relationship between liking someone and where their parents retire, what their salary is, and what their position is? What I like is this person, not his parents, let alone his parents' pension relationship. It doesn't matter at all!"

Grandma Shang went on to ask: "Then tell me about this girl's own situation, where did she graduate, how old is she, did she go to school or where did she work before she came to your No. [-] Middle School? You have to tell us all about it! "

When everyone knew that Shang Yunxuan's pursuit of being a girl was just an ordinary undergraduate who had worked in an educational institution before becoming a No. [-] middle school after losing his job, the audience became even more silent.Shang Yunxuan didn't continue talking, quietly waiting for everyone's response, especially his own parents'.

Shang Qingfeng looked at his son, suddenly understood something, just nodded and said: "I haven't promised you yet? What are you talking about, it's a waste of our feelings, you have time to improve yourself, eat, eat!"

When Xue Chuan heard her husband's words, she hurriedly said, "Eat and eat, there's nothing to say if we didn't catch up. Xiaoxuan is just kidding our whole family!"

Back home, Shang Qingfeng and Xue Chuan did not continue to ask Shang Yunxuan about finding a girlfriend.On the contrary, Shang Yunxuan said to his mother in private: "Mom, your son has never begged you or my father for anything in his life. I took the job test by myself, and my buddies and I got the shares in the company outside. I have always relied on myself. Now I want to beg you, don't interfere with my freedom of love. People don't agree now. If you introduce me to someone every other day, I will be even more useless."

Xue Chuan knew what her son meant by what he said, and she expressed both superficial and hidden meanings. She understood, smiled and said, "Go to sleep, we all understand!"

After closing the door, Shang Qingfeng and Xue Chuan sat on the small sofa in the bedroom, they made a pot of black tea and chatted seriously.

"Have you heard what your son said? He has been relying on himself since he was a child. He is so good at studying on his own. He has several companies outside where he has a shareholding. He also took the job exam by himself!" Shang Qingfeng was not angry at all, Instead, he laughed while talking, "The subconscious is that everything I have is a test of talent, and I have already achieved financial independence on my own."

Xue Chuan also couldn't help laughing: "You said he will be thirty soon, is he an adult or a child? He said something childish."

Shang Qingfeng shook his head and still laughed: "He didn't see if it wasn't for this family, if it wasn't for the strength of his parents and the whole family, they could give him shares casually? He didn't get such good educational resources since he was a child. Can you easily pass the head 985? Can you go to work in the city's No. [-] Middle School so easily?"

Xue Chuan said: "He never knew the hardships of life. It's not like when we were young, we suffered hardships and went hungry. It was only through a lifetime of struggle that he had a higher starting point than ordinary people. These children, eating their parents , using his parents, enjoying the tangible and intangible resources his parents gave him, and he will inherit all the assets of his parents in the future, but he says he is relying on himself. When do you think he will mature?"

Shang Qingfeng said: "Where is he immature? I think it is because he knows that he is an only child and has no fear. If he has several brothers and sisters, see if he can say such a thing? He thinks he can achieve real financial independence now, Is it possible to completely abandon the family of origin, not to listen to the words of the parents, not to do things according to the wishes of the parents? At least in a family like ours, what he thinks now is all illusory and empty words.

One day, when he really declares his business card in the society, no one cares about what his parents and family do, and he can still get the existing dignity, then he will talk to us about independence at that time.Unless, he wants to turn his life around and seek comfort downwards.But what are we fighting for in this life?The purpose is to let him have a higher starting line than ordinary people, so that his descendants can continue to climb on this track.He is not qualified to choose downward, otherwise he is not worthy to be a descendant of our Shang family. "

Xue Chuan sighed and said, "When my son was choosing a career, you had a big fight, and the child won in the end. As we get older, it will be even more difficult to make the children obedient."

Shang Qingfeng said: "The youngest mathematics teaching researcher in City No. [-] Middle School can also be very promising in the future. From childhood to adulthood, from kindergarten to graduate school, there is no one who is not excellent in every stage and every resume. He thinks that ordinary , is the highest peak in the eyes of others. He doesn't even think about it, how many people of the same age are looking for shortcuts everywhere just for the most basic survival. It is not childish to feel that everything you have depends on yourself, it is self-confidence.

You have the opportunity to tell him what I told you. Every father who has ever been hungry, watched other people's faces, held his dignity in front of others and was trampled on, hopes that his offspring will stop eating these things. Suffering, and he is not allowed to let future generations suffer these sufferings because of his selfishness and ignorance. "

Xue Chuan said: "I have to find out about this girl. In any case, I believe in my son's vision, the person he likes is definitely not bad."

Shang Qingfeng said: "As far as the situation he introduced before, it should not be suitable for our family. But since it has not been done yet, and the other party has not agreed, then it is another matter."

When Shang Yunxuan's parents were discussing that their son didn't know the sufferings of the world and never worried about daily necessities, Pan Xishi was bargaining with the agency.The intermediary brother said: "Sister, the rent of the houses in the school district has been raised recently. The price raised by your landlord is actually quite conscientious. And their family doesn't seem to have complained about anything recently, and it's cheap to live in. You This is picking up leaks, so if you raise the price a bit, let’s increase the price.”

"Pan Xishi said that an increase of 400 yuan a month is about 5000 yuan a year. This is not a small amount of expenses for a working class like me. A little bit of this increase, a little bit of that increase, will be more than a month. That's a lot of money. There's no way to live with such expenses!"

The intermediary brother said: "Sister, there is nothing we can do. It's not that we want to increase the price, but that the rent is generally increasing, and you have a lot of money for raising cats for a month, right? And you have two cats. The landlord probably doesn't I know, if I know, I definitely don’t agree with you to raise it, maybe it’s not a matter of rent increase, maybe you have to rent another house, then the rent will not be at this price.”

Pan Xishi's small face was huddled together, and he signed the new rental agreement after deliberation.With the door closed, she continued to scramble to live on paper.The expenses for postgraduate entrance examinations have to be prepared in advance by myself, and I just invested a huge sum of money for my grandparents to move their graves and buy land.She has just signed a contract with a cultural company to write manuscripts, and if she can cooperate for a long time, it will be considered a good profit.

In addition, she is currently researching pet videos, which can not only share the daily life of fur children with cat lovers, but also earn income through videos.After paying the rent, she spent hours researching how to make money with a side job until the early hours of the morning.

Xue Chuan is a vigorous and decisive person. He used to be very aggressive at work, but now he is retired and still behaves in the same style.She quickly learned about Pan Xishi's general information.The basic situation of this girl is what Shang Yunxuan said, and what her son said is the truth.

It's just that Pan Xishi is still a substitute teacher, not an official teacher at No. [-] Middle School, and that's not the point.The point is that this girl doesn't have a good relationship with her parents. She grew up with the elderly.For some reason, she has a bad reputation with her extended family and her parents.This is a bit difficult!A girl who doesn't even like her parents, close relatives and big family, how can you believe that she has a good character?
But how did Xue Chuan know this?

Her little sister, Faxiao, was in the same office as Pan Xishi's second sister, who was the "mother" Pan Xihong called, the headmaster's wife.Pan Xihong often complained about her sister to her close colleague in the office, and she listened to it a lot, so she naturally knew these family affairs like the back of her hand.

If parents and sisters don't like girls like this, there will be big problems.

(End of this chapter)