Beidiao Workplace Illustrated Book

Chapter 133 Autumn 2017 (7)

"Dad, don't talk about it. I've heard enough. I want to buy a car. I decide what car to buy. I didn't spend your money. Although you need to call me for the 10,000 down payment, it's me. My own money is the money I earned hard in the past two years, but I put it in your safekeeping at the time. Now that I want to use this money, of course you have to return it to me. I didn’t spend more money for the sake of face. [-] to [-] for a car, is it expensive? I haven’t spent [-]+ or ​​hundreds of thousands to buy a car like those ignorant and face-saving people, right?” Chen Mo became more and more angry. For so many years, his father always liked Interfere in any of his decisions. When he first applied for university, he originally applied for a university in Wuhan and was admitted, but his father was too far away from his hometown for an excuse, so Chen Mo withdrew his file, and Chen Mo had to re-enroll. He went to a nondescript university. After graduating from university, he wanted to come to BJ, but his father blocked him. Now, he is no longer that ignorant boy who is ignorant of the world and lives under his father's majesty.

He has been honed in the workplace, he has been to many big cities, he has seen the prosperity of the outside world, and what about his father?He has no knowledge all his life, and has lived in that small feudal and closed village all his life. Why should he blame and interfere with every decision in his life?

Chen's father was not to be outdone: "Damn it, I said this is not for your own good. You are promising now, your wings are hardened, you can do whatever you want, you can buy it if you want, and you will be under the pressure of repaying the loan in the future." of."

Seeing that the father and son were arguing on the phone again, Chen's mother hurriedly pulled Chen's father: "You can buy whatever car your child wants. Buying a car is not just to save face for you, don't you always follow me?" I was nagging, when will I have a car and not be looked down upon by the people in the village? Why are you talking, and the two of you are still arguing?"

Seeing Chen Mo arguing with her father on the phone, Wu Xiaotian's good mood immediately disappeared, and she said in a commanding tone, "Chen Mo, don't make noise, sit down, eat, and eat with me."

Chen Mo still couldn't get over his anger. He thought of his father's previous discipline and his foolish views on the world. The anger that had been suppressed for many years spewed out like magma that had accumulated in a volcano for tens of thousands of years.Even though on the other end of the phone, Chen's father was forcibly hung up by Chen's mother, but on this end of the phone, Chen Mo was still extremely angry. How could he be in the mood to eat, and sat on the sofa sullenly.

"Chen Mo, come here, come and eat with me, I'm hungry, I want you to eat with me, I just want to have a good meal, have a meal." Wu Xiaotian's tone was full of orders, and even more grievances, Chen Mo looked up. Glancing at Wu Xiaotian, seeing Wu Xiaotian's unhappy appearance, the anger in his heart disappeared in an instant, so he obediently returned to the dinner table and ate with Wu Xiaotian.No matter how angry he is, no matter how unhappy he is, as long as he sees Wu Xiaotian's eyes, he will instantly become like a well-behaved little sheep.

"Why are you arguing with your father?" Wu Xiaotian asked, but she already got a general idea from the phone call between the father and son just now.

Chen Mo vomited the conflicts in his heart with his father over the years.

"Your father did something wrong, but you have to understand him and be tolerant of him. Have you ever heard a saying that summer insects cannot speak to the ice, but they are obsessed with the time. Musicians cannot speak to the Tao. Yu Jiaoye. Although your knowledge and ability are much higher than your father's, can you change his mind? No, can he change your mind? No, can you solve the problem by arguing? Not to mention, what you need to do now is to take the initiative to communicate with him, discuss with him, and turn passive into active. Have you actively communicated with him about buying a car? Take your experience of looking at the car, every time Did you take the initiative to tell him the performance of a car, as well as the pros and cons of buying a car?" Wu Xiaotian moistened things silently while eating.

Chen Mo was suddenly enlightened by Wu Xiaotian's words. Yes, he only told his mother about buying a car, but never told his father. This is naturally a big deal for his father. He always likes to advocate family This must have hit his father's self-esteem and made him feel that he is not important now. His son didn't even discuss such an important matter as buying a car with him.So he had to find a sense of presence, and naturally he would pick on his son. Chen Mo looked at Wu Xiaotian in front of him, her bright eyes were full of empathy and infinite wisdom: "I know, I suddenly understand."

"Right, do you know what to do next? I think your father will definitely support your decision. At that time, why don't you obediently give you money and support you to buy a car? You said, it is necessary for you to let the two Is everyone angry about it?"

Heeded Wu Xiaotian's words, and a few days later, Chen Mo called his father again, and reported to his father one by one his experience of looking at cars in the past few days, and said to his father in a discussing tone: "Dad, this car is worth a lot. You get what you pay for, domestic cars are cheap, but the Volkswagen Polo car is fuel-efficient, and it is not easy to have problems and minor problems after buying it. If we try to save money now and buy a domestic car, then Big and small problems, going to repair the car every day, do you think it is troublesome? Does it cost money and time? And the fuel consumption is still high. If you can afford a car, you can’t afford to drive it. Fuel costs are not money. In the long run, you Look, think about it from a far-sighted position, which one is the most cost-effective to buy?"

Chen's father has also reflected on his own mistakes in the past few days, thinking that for so many years, he has always interfered with Chen Mo's decisions. Now that his son has grown up and seen the world outside, he can no longer make decisions for his son like before. up.Father Chen sees it, his children and grandchildren have their own blessings, so let him go, not to mention, his son has called to discuss with him now, why should he not support it?We all need to give face to each other, and now that the son has given himself face, then he must also give face to his son: "Okay, Moer, don't talk about it, dad supports you, I will transfer the money to you tomorrow, what do you want?" We will buy whatever car we want."

The two of father and son have settled their suspicions. Chen Mo thanked Wu Xiaotian from the bottom of his heart. It was Wu Xiaotian's few words that made him feel like a spring breeze, and he no longer wanted to compete with his father head-on. , but he recently heard from Chen's mother that Chen Mo seems to be in love, so he asked Chen Mo again: "I heard from your mother that you have a girlfriend? When will you bring it back, let us see, should we get married? , buy a car this year, buy a house next year, your marriage has to be put on the agenda." Father Chen started nagging again.

"Dad, I'm busy with work right now. I'll call you again when I have time." Chen Mo quickly shied away: "Remember to transfer money tomorrow, transfer money. Dad, I'm busy now, so hang up first." After speaking, he hung up the phone.

Meet the parents?marry?Chen Mo began to mutter in his heart, since he met Wu Xiaotian for a few months, he had mentioned it to his mother and sister, but Wu Xiaotian has never mentioned himself to her family until today, and he is always arguing to break up , the relationship between the two is still unstable, and she never said that she would bring her to meet her parents. Now, how could she have the nerve to propose to her to meet her parents and get married?What's more, for Chen Mo, he really never thought about getting married.

(End of this chapter)