Beidiao Workplace Illustrated Book

Chapter 34 Summer 2015 (34)

But in the end, Xie Yuqing still chose to continue secretly liking Chen Mo. Until the October 2014 holiday in [-], most of the classmates went home. Chen Mo did not choose to go home, but found a part-time job before the holiday. A big hotel in Beidaihe works as a waiter. The lobby manager asked Xie Mo to help find a few more people to work part-time with him. Chen Mo asked the department members if anyone would like to go. There is such a good opportunity to be alone with Chen Mo. Thank you Naturally, Yuqing would not let her go, but the other members of the department were either officials or rich, and they were all masters who did not waste money or endure hardships. In the end, only Xie Yuqing was willing to go with him in the entire Department of Literature and Art.

During the few days of vacation, the two had a lot of opportunities to get along, so the relationship has improved a lot. At night, the two of them sat together in the hotel lobby on duty and chatted.

In psychology, there is a term called "self-exposure", which refers to the fact that after two people get to know each other, as the relationship heats up, the degree of self-exposure to the other party will further escalate. Xie Yuqing asked Chen Mo: "Minister, why don't you go home on October [-]st holiday and go out to work?"

Chen Mo thought for a while: "In order to make money, I am poor and need to earn living expenses by myself."

"So, in addition to class, noon and evening, you also have to go to the restaurant next to the school to work part-time."

"how do you know?"

"I have seen you several times." Xie Yuqing looked at Chen Mo: "You are the only part-time minister of the student union."

"The minister's brand is only useful in school. Outside of school, it is nothing. But money is useful everywhere. It is in school, and even more so in society. I don't think that being a minister of literature and art is so great. , Those are all false, real money is real, people have to look forward, look forward, don't always focus on the sesame mung bean in your hand."

"Minister, you are a very pragmatic person. Whether it is the work of the student union, life, or study, even working here these few days, you are very conscientious. You are very pragmatic." Xie Yuqing looked at Chen Mo seriously. , Her eyes were full of admiration as always.

"It's a family tradition." Xie Mo sighed, and turned his gaze to a place where Xie Yuqing could not be seen. He didn't dare to look directly at this member of his own, although he already trusted her, so he would keep himself a certain amount of privacy words exposed.

"Minister, in fact, I am the same as you. My family conditions are not good. My parents are both farmers. I also felt inferior because I was born in a rural area. My parents are also honest farmers. However, I and you Bi, what is lacking is hard work. There are many things in you that I can learn from and admire. Although we have similar family backgrounds, you are bigger than me and mature in thinking. If I find a boyfriend in the future, I will definitely I want to find someone like you, whose family background is similar to mine, but who has a bigger structure and a longer-term vision than me, who can teach me how to deal with the world and protect me." Xie Yuqing plucked up her courage, she hoped that Chen Mo could understand herself To put it bluntly, during the day, she already knew that the two of them would be put together in the shift schedule tonight, so she thought hard all day before she came up with such an insinuating way to test Chen Mo.

Chen Mo smiled: "Xie Yuqing, I don't agree with what you said, and I won't bless you to find the man you want in your heart." Chen Mo took a blow to the head, staring at Xie Yuqing who was looking straight at him, the smile on his face followed suit. The night solidified.

"Why?" Xie Yuqing never thought that Chen Mo would respond to her temptation like this. She tried to think of all kinds of words that Chen Mo would respond to, but she never thought that it would be such a sentence that exceeded her expectations.

"The reason is simple. You want to find someone with similar family conditions as yours, but others don't necessarily think so. You want to find someone who has a bigger picture than you, has a longer-term vision than you, can protect your cycle, and teach you how to behave in the world. But you Why don’t you want to find a woman who is bigger than you and can teach you how to deal with the world? Also, why do you choose to be with someone who is bigger than you and has a long-term vision than you? If you If you are not excellent, why do those excellent people fall in love with you? Birds of a feather flock together, and people are divided into groups. Excellent people always hope that their significant other is at least as good as themselves, instead of finding someone to hold them back and let themselves Those who teach her to grow up will be very painful." When Chen Mo said this, he didn't look at Xie Yuqing, he just wanted to show Xie Yuqing the bloody reality, and didn't want her to daydream, but these words were too cruel, He didn't know if Xie Yuqing could accept it.

Xie Yuqing was excited just now, and planned to talk about a topic with Chen Mo all night, but now, she was speechless instead.

After the two of them were silent for a long time, Xie Yuqing finally spoke: "Minister, what kind of person do you want to find." After speaking, she looked at Chen Mo with her eyes and said, "Tell the truth, don't hide anything." Xie Yuqing just wanted to know , Chen Mo, whom she admires, dear Minister Chen, what kind of standard does she have for choosing a spouse, and how far is she, Xie Yuqing, from this standard?Even if she dies today, she has to die in peace.

Chen Mo thought about it, although he didn't need to think about it.Because of the so-called mate selection criteria, he already had the answer in his heart, but at this time he had to calm down again to sort out his mate selection criteria, otherwise, I would be sorry for Xie Yuqing who was so serious in front of him.

After a while, Chen Mo eloquently described the appearance of his ideal partner: "Her family conditions are better than mine. At least, she was not born in the countryside. The fundamental difference between rural people and urban people lies in the difference in thinking. I grew up and nurtured in the city, even if I live in the city in the future, but in my bones, my genes still have rural thoughts, so the mother of the child must have the thoughts of urban people, so that my future generations can completely change The genes of rural children."

"This is for future generations, I understand." Xie Yuqing knew that based on this alone, she would have no chance in this life. Chen Mo's words were very clear. In order to change future generations, he would never marry another rural man like himself. Village girl.

"What else?" Xie Yuqing was not reconciled, she wanted to give up completely tonight.

"Also, she must be beautiful enough, innocent enough, and know enough about the world. She must be bigger than me, have a far-sighted vision, be more mature than me, be able to protect me well, and be able to teach me the unknown world." Chen Mo reused Xie Yuqing. Some of the words, but also feel wrong: "What I said seems to be very contradictory."

"It's very contradictory, simple enough, but still understands the ways of the world. This is not true in itself. How can a person who understands the ways of the world be so simple?" Xie Yuqing seized Chen Mo's flaws and began to fight back vigorously: "You just said it yourself. He is more mature than you and has a bigger background than you, so why are you still looking for you? They are looking for a boyfriend, not a younger brother, but a son." Although he refuted Xie Mo in his mouth, Xie Yuqing was happy in his heart. He Chen Mo himself Such a contradiction, that is, the so-called criteria for choosing a mate is not valid at all, as long as it is not valid, it doesn't count. Since it doesn't count, then she, Xie Yuqing, still has a chance.

"I think, let's talk about something else." Chen Mo didn't want to continue talking about this topic anymore. He even questioned and discussed the untenable arguments. He was still discussing with others here. Bitter?Regarding the topic of feelings, Chen Mo still played his usual style, understood the superficiality, and did not delve into it. In the final analysis, he was too lazy to think about the essence of those problems.

"It's okay to change the topic. Let's talk about your middle school days. In your middle school, did you like someone very much?" Xie Yuqing looked at Chen Mo, which pot she would not open, which pot she wanted to carry.

"This." Chen Mo was speechless.

The phone at the front desk rang, and a guest room offered to send some bottles of mineral water. Chen Mo took the opportunity to grab the mineral water and slip away.

(End of this chapter)