That year the flowers bloomed 1981

Chapter 1113 Learn from the struggle

When Li Ye heard Wu Juying's scolding, he knew that it was his grandmother's old illness coming back again.

When the elder sister Li Yue and the younger sister Li Juan got in the car, she also scolded them. It was only because Fu Yiru was spoiled by Fu Guiru that she did not reprimand them.

In her opinion, the girls in the family all benefited from Li Ye's influence and were too greedy. She had to scold them from time to time so that they would not forget their roots.

However, Li Mingxiang, the aunt, is over 40 years old after all, and it is not very decent to scold Li Ye in front of him.

But then Li Ye realized that his aunt's "showing off" was not the main reason why his grandmother was so upset today. The main reason for her anger was because of her cousin Zhao Meiwen.

"Brother, why don't you help me transfer my job? Our director is always targeting me. I can't stand it anymore."

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"Tsk~"

Li Ye also found it difficult.

After Zhao Meiwen graduated from Beijing Medical College, she stayed in Xicheng Hospital. This was already a very good arrangement. How could she not be satisfied?
For some things, you can only be flexible once. If you make concessions again and again, you are being immature.

Do you still expect those spoiled children who always ask for stars and the moon to have a bright future?
I'm lucky I didn't cause any big trouble for you.

However, my aunt's family treated Li Ye very well, especially when Li Ye was young and naive, my uncle often cleaned up Li Ye's mess.
And the little cousin Zhao Meiwen has always been following Li Ye and calling him "brother" since she was a child. She also shares good things with Li Ye and Li Yue. So even though Zhao Meiwen is a little "immature", Li Ye has no intention of ignoring her.

But Li Ye couldn’t just wave it off as a small matter.

The reason must be explained to her clearly, and she must be severely reprimanded, and then an agreement must be made with her that "this will not happen again", and finally, some connections should be used to help her resolve the issue.

Girls can't be spoiled, but they can't be forced to suffer either.

The little girl has grown up in a good family environment. She has never been looked down upon by others and has never experienced the malice of this society. She probably cannot accept being scolded all of a sudden.

But Bai Fumei is not a naive person. Even if her aunt can support Zhao Meiwen for a lifetime, she still has to learn some principles.

At the very least you should not go astray, you should not bully others for no reason, and you should not harm others or ruin your family, otherwise you will suffer a great loss.

But before Li Ye started to scold her, Wu Juying had already started to scold her.

"Your Zhao family's ancestors were emperors! Did you learn the bad habits of being spoiled? What's wrong with your director scolding you? He has reason to scold you."

"Go ask your grandpa, did he get scolded when he first joined the team? Go ask your dad, did he get scolded when he first started working?
If you quit your job after being scolded, you might as well stay at home and be a maid forever."

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When grandma gets angry, even gods and ghosts are afraid of her. Both Zhao Meiwen and Li Mingxiang lowered their heads and trembled, not daring to say a word. Even Xiaobaoer and Xiaodouer, the most favored children in the family, quietly turned off the TV.

The children have grown up and know who is the most terrible when they are angry at home. Although cartoons are fun to watch, if grandma says casually "You just watch cartoons all day" when she is angry, mom can use this as an excuse to prevent them from watching TV for a week.

"Grandma, calm down first. Meiwen must have some things she doesn't understand when she first started working, so she needs you to help her gain some experience. When I first started working, I always had conflicts with my colleagues. You also analyzed the specific situations for me, and I benefited a lot from it."

Li Ye stroked the grandmother's hair first, then asked Zhao Meiwen: "Xiao Wen, tell me first, why did your director scold you? Was it because of your poor performance? Or was it because of personal reasons?
If it's because of your poor performance, you have to bear it no matter how wronged you are. Doctors make a living based on their skills, and this involves human lives, so you can't be careless at all."

Zhao Meiwen raised her head and said aggrievedly: "Brother, I am not an ignorant child. If I did something wrong, I can endure it even if she scolds me.

But it was clearly her fault, and I just gave her a few words of advice, but she wouldn't let me go, and she made me work night shifts for three weeks in a row, and even said she would make me work night shifts for a year so that I would learn my lesson."

Li Ye frowned slightly and asked, "Why did you go to reason with your director? Also, did she say in front of everyone that she would schedule you to work night shifts for a year, or did she threaten you in private?"

Zhao Meiwen pursed her lips and said, "We have four interns this term. One of them is a relative of our department director. She always exchanges night shifts with me. I just said I didn't care, so I exchanged with her. Later, she pushed me too far, so I refused to exchange.
I went to the department director to argue, and she said I was not hard-working and had bad habits. She told everyone in front of everyone that I should work night shifts for a year.

Besides, people in the hospital say that our department director is greedy and overbearing. If anyone offends her, it may take ten years for them to recover.”

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After listening to Zhao Meiwen, Li Ye couldn't help but ask, "Are you going to change your job just because of this?"

Zhao Meiwen looked at Li Ye and felt that her cousin didn't seem to agree with her. She felt like she had lost her support and the sky had fallen. "Brother, I can endure hardship, but I can't stand unfairness."

"Tsk~"

Li Ye smiled and shook his head, saying: "Where is there absolute fairness in this world? If you don't have the strength, fairness will never be yours.

But your department director said that she would assign you night shifts for a year. That was just a scare. First of all, it is against the hospital rules. Secondly, it is very likely a trap she set for you to force you to leave!"

Zhao Meiwen was stunned for a moment, then said angrily, "Isn't she even more unreasonable? No wonder others say she is worthless."

Grandma Wu Juying poked a finger at Zhao Meiwen's forehead and scolded, "You only know how to reason, don't you understand what your brother said?
"A blacksmith must be strong himself. If you don't have enough skills, who will talk to you? Only when you have acquired enough skills will people talk to you."

Zhao Meiwen covered her red forehead with her hands, feeling so aggrieved that she was about to cry.

As soon as she graduated from school, she deeply realized the dangers of society. Her always loving relatives did not support her at all. Why was her life so miserable?

The younger sister-in-law Li Mingxiang pulled the child away distressedly and said to her mother with resentment: "Mom, we are not going to transfer to other hospitals in Beijing, we are transferring back to our hometown. If you think it is not suitable, I will resign with Xiaowen."

"If you hadn't told me I'd be transferred back, I wouldn't be angry! You can take the job in Beijing if you want it, and you can give it up if you want."

Grandma Wu Juying reached out and poked Li Mingxiang's forehead again, and scolded her angrily: "Even if Xiaowen's department director is a piece of shit, she can't leave now.
First, you have to concentrate on learning skills. Why would you refuse such a good learning opportunity? Now you are transferred back to your hometown. Xiaowen is still an intern who knows nothing.

Second, Xiaowen must learn to fight her. The hospital is not owned by her family. Can she really eat Xiaowen? Since Xiaowen is an adult, she must act like an adult and learn through struggle.

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Zhao Meiwen stared at Wu Juying blankly, not even bothering to wipe the tears from her cheeks.

Li Mingyue couldn't help but cover his forehead, obviously feeling helpless towards his mother.

Wu Juying was not an unreasonable old woman; she was a female guerrilla fighter who became stronger when faced with stronger opponents.

"Grandma has a point."

Li Ye immediately turned into a crosstalk actor and said to Zhao Meiwen: "Meiwen, first of all, your grandmother and I don't want to see you being wronged, but if you never suffer injustice in your life, you will never grow up."

"How about this! You hold on for a year. During this year, you learn medical skills while observing people. You must learn to distinguish who is a scumbag who takes advantage of others' misfortunes and who is an ally worth winning over.
You have to learn how to use the rules to fight for fairness for yourself, and then understand what kind of accusations are effective and what kind of arguments will put you in trouble. In a word, it’s all about struggle. But after all the struggle, you have to write a summary to summarize what your department director is afraid of and what she is not afraid of.

Li Ye chattered on and on, imparting a lot of experience to Zhao Meiwen. These were the key points he had learned from repeated struggles after leaving school in his previous life.

After newcomers enter the unit, they will definitely encounter some unfair things. Some of them are fixed, while some are specially prepared for newcomers, with the intention of leading them into a dead end.

If a rookie gets into a conflict with those bitches out of sheer courage, he will fall into their trap, accept their "meticulous training", and be told "I taught you a lesson, you have to thank me."

But when the rookies grow up to be experienced ones, they will find that too much training is just a paper tiger. As long as you find the right method, they will shoot themselves in the foot.

What Li Ye and Wu Juying are asking Zhao Meiwen to do now is to learn how to identify paper tigers and how to fight against them.

After all, her parents cannot protect her for her entire life. She still needs to walk the last part of the journey by herself. She should learn how to deal with people as early as possible so that she can walk peacefully in the future.

Wu Juying and Li Ye preached for a long time, and then her sister Li Juan came back.

"Okay, Xiaojuan is back, Meiwen, go and complain to her! You're crying like a big cat."

Zhao Meiwen curled her lips and ran away to talk in private with Li Juan. Although they graduated in the same year, Li Juan had already interned with Mr. Ni for several holidays and had more experience than Zhao Meiwen.

However, after the two girls left, Li Ye told his sister-in-law Li Mingxiang some real words.

"Aunt, I know you love my sister, and it hurts to see her being wronged by outsiders, but there are some things I need to tell you.
Is it because you have more money recently that you think the child doesn't need to suffer, and you can just raise him, right?"

The younger aunt Li Mingxiang was stunned for a moment, then said awkwardly: "It's not that I made a lot of money and showed off. I just think that Meiwen only makes one or two hundred yuan a month, and it's not worth it to be scolded by others."

Li Ye slapped his thigh and said, "Okay, I guessed it was like this. I have to explain this to you."

(End of this chapter)